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whats with people!?
sumerbride09
Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:39 PM+

sumerbride09
MEMBER SINCE: 7/08
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WEDDING DATE: Aug 16, 2009
WEDDING LOCATION: Big Valley Grace Cummunity Church
Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:39 PM
whats with people!?
I always heard stories, but never actually belived how people just assume they are invited to our wedding. Please we arent even friends Then they tell friends of ours that they cant wait until our wedding! what is wrong with people.someone actually told one of my BM that they know they are invited and cannot wait becuase they know it will be a 'really good free dinner and she will get lots of stuff.' she 'cannot wait to go and knows it will be a good party' ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!
why in the world would i invite her to my wedding. we arent even friends... and for good reason!
ugh, some people
thanks for the vent... lol
Sweets14
Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:41 PM+

Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:41 PM
Re: whats with people!?
Let it out girl!!!! I've heard the same sh@t. I just yes em to death!!
AHimar24
Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:42 PM+

Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:42 PM
Re: whats with people!?
Sometimes I feel like people in this world are so clueless. Hopefully she gets the hint when she doensn't receive an invite.Maybe it's just late, but I don't get it, what kind of free stuff is she expecting to get?? Am I missing something?
MaggieLuvsJoe
Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:49 PM+

Posted: Aug 07, 2008 11:49 PM
Re: whats with people!?
I've had the wierdest people ask me if they could come to my wedding, it is so awkward. I've laughed it off and changed the subject.This girl my MOH knows was so excited when I got engaged, I've maybe seen this girl 5 times my whole life...she was like OMG I cant wait to come to your wedding, I'm invited right? I was like of courseeeeeeeeee (who the heck is gonna see you again before that) lol
people are nuts
kgicrls
Posted: Aug 08, 2008 01:07 AM+

Posted: Aug 08, 2008 01:07 AM
Re: whats with people!?
I know the feeling!!!
sumerbride09
Posted: Aug 08, 2008 07:51 PM+

sumerbride09
MEMBER SINCE: 7/08
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WEDDING DATE: Aug 16, 2009
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Posted: Aug 08, 2008 07:51 PM
Re: whats with people!?
i have no clue what she is expecting. your not missing a thing. people just expect to come becuase i was nice to them once or something. i dont know. its just weird how people think they are invited and tlak to me like they are. you havent gotten an invite yet. dont assume. lol ugh
KimiDanny1010
Posted: Aug 09, 2008 11:11 PM+

Posted: Aug 09, 2008 11:11 PM
Re: whats with people!?
i think this is something that happens to almost everyone... when someone asks me if they are invited (and i dont think i'm going to invited) i just tell them i'm not up to that part of wedding planning yet !
PoppedInASnap
Posted: Aug 09, 2008 11:13 PM+

Posted: Aug 09, 2008 11:13 PM
Re: whats with people!?
Wow..thats a bit insane if i may say so.
sumerbride09
Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:05 AM+

sumerbride09
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WEDDING DATE: Aug 16, 2009
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Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:05 AM
Re: whats with people!?
Posted by KimiDanny1010
i think this is something that happens to almost everyone... when someone asks me if they are invited (and i dont think i'm going to invited) i just tell them i'm not up to that part of wedding planning yet !
thats exactly what i'll do. great idea. i want to send out STD soon but i think ill only send to my A-lists.. who knows who ill still be friends with a year from now.
flairforfashion
Posted: Aug 10, 2008 01:45 AM+

Posted: Aug 10, 2008 01:45 AM
Re: whats with people!?
Sometimes I just nod them off. Other times I say 'um, we already gave them our mininum and our guest list is really small.' And other times, I would give a rude dirty look. Seriously. I don't get why people do this! I would never say to someone that I barely knew or used to be riends with 'I can't wait for your wedding!' That can be such an awkward conversation. I don't know why these people do it to themselves.Welcome New Vendors
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