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xxpazzaxx
Board Enthusiast
Member since 8/08 200 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Inn at New Hyde Park
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TOUCHY SUBJECT...
ok ladies ive been wanting to post this for quite sometime to vent...lets just say there is a certain someone in my life who has been raining on my parade..
1. when i first told this someone about how i booked my rh..they didn't seem interested.
2. then i told them about my favors and they said how "it's an alright gift (as if any favor is really wonderful), and how i spent too much money on it and that i should spend it on something else"
3. i say how i want to have brown bm dresses with pink flowers and they are like,,,"yea but its may" im like so what..ppl wear black during summer weddings why cant i do brown and they r like "well it's ur wedding, i wouldnt do it but ill wear it if i have to"
4. i talk about a photo/video package and they are like "well it sounds too good to be true just make sure u have it written in the contract"
do you think this is just harsh criticism from someone who really cares about me? has anyone experienced this with someone close??
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Posted 10/5/08 2:32 PM 
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lila
Board Fanatic
Member since 10/08 520 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/17/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Cats for Obama!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
is this person married? engaged? single?
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Posted 10/5/08 2:38 PM
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Reymiliz
Im His Girl Hes My Guy
Member since 2/08 1067 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/15/2010 12:00 AM
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
sorry to say but i think the person has to be upset about something ... or evn may be jealous ... I know when i have an opinion and its for someone i care about i try to tell the the truth but not hurt their feelings ...
sorry your going through this but everyone has a bad seed in the family
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Posted 10/5/08 2:38 PM
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christine2010
love conquers all
Member since 3/08 1247 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Grand Prospect Hall
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
depending on who it is:
1. they could be upset that you are engaged & planning your wedding & there not.
2. if they are married maybe they are upset because you are having better then there wedding was.
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Posted 10/5/08 3:27 PM
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CloudNine
He's The Star In My Sky
Member since 3/08 2749 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/20/2010 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
straight up jealousy in my opinion
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Posted 10/5/08 3:44 PM
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italianp7
Missing JaMaicA
Member since 8/08 1808 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/27/2010 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
FINALLY BOOKED!!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Posted by xxpazzaxx
ok ladies ive been wanting to post this for quite sometime to vent...lets just say there is a certain someone in my life who has been raining on my parade..
1. when i first told this someone about how i booked my rh..they didn't seem interested.
2. then i told them about my favors and they said how "it's an alright gift (as if any favor is really wonderful), and how i spent too much money on it and that i should spend it on something else"
3. i say how i want to have brown bm dresses with pink flowers and they are like,,,"yea but its may" im like so what..ppl wear black during summer weddings why cant i do brown and they r like "well it's ur wedding, i wouldnt do it but ill wear it if i have to"
4. i talk about a photo/video package and they are like "well it sounds too good to be true just make sure u have it written in the contract"
do you think this is just harsh criticism from someone who really cares about me? has anyone experienced this with someone close??
JEALOUS!!! DEF....AND HEY MY BM'S ARE WEARING BLACK LOL N MY WEDDING IS IN JUNE
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Posted 10/5/08 4:21 PM
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mosh424
Future Mrs. V
Member since 8/08 2028 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/12/2010 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Posted by christine2010
depending on who it is:
1. they could be upset that you are engaged & planning your wedding & there not.
2. if they are married maybe they are upset because you are having better then there wedding was.
OMG! I totally agree!!!
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Posted 10/5/08 4:24 PM
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mz iysa
Wedding Newbie
Member since 7/08 27 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/10/2010 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Found it!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
I know how you feel.. i have someone in my life that is the same way. i feel like every thing i chose she has a rude comment about. I'm trying not to let i get to me..(very difficult to do)
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Posted 10/5/08 4:25 PM
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dmc1727
Future Mrs. L
Member since 2/08 1121 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/27/2010 5:15 PM
Wed. Location:
WM
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Posted by mosh424
Posted by christine2010
depending on who it is:
1. they could be upset that you are engaged & planning your wedding & there not.
2. if they are married maybe they are upset because you are having better then there wedding was.
OMG! I totally agree!!!
I agree too
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Posted 10/5/08 4:32 PM
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grrulz
'tis the season!
Member since 8/08 1912 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2010 8:00 PM
Wed. Location:
got it!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
sweetie!! it's your wedding DON'T LET ANYONE discourage you from what you think its nice!!!...I cant tell if it's harsh criticism but it's your wedding and your money!!!!
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Posted 10/5/08 5:05 PM
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JillandJoe
Board Enthusiast
Member since 6/08 111 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/9/2010 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
I hear you! I have three someones like thatand they r driving me mad!! goodluck, try to do what makes you happy and f people who wanna comment negitively!!
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Posted 10/5/08 5:27 PM
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Nrauch8191
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/08 568 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/12/2010 3:00 PM
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Definitely jealous!! My BM's are so happy that I am fianlly doing it. I have been with him the longest out of all my friends but the last one to get married. They are with me through every step of the way.
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Posted 10/5/08 6:02 PM
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xxpazzaxx
Board Enthusiast
Member since 8/08 200 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Inn at New Hyde Park
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
thanks a lot guys...i just needed to vent to someone bc if i hear one more thing..i might just explode for holding it all in, which will make matters worse!
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Posted 10/5/08 10:58 PM
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FutureMrs.M
Christmas time is here!!!
Member since 7/08 1704 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/14/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
I have 2 people who always have something to say like that and I have either taken it one of two ways...they are just trying to help me but dont know how to express themself without being hurtful so I have said...do you think we could discuss this without you making me feel under attack...or I realized that this person is just abrassive like that and I am attempting to learn to live with it. But ooooooo is it really hard. Since confronting this other person would just be more effort then its worth cuz it would start a whole new bunch of drama.
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Posted 10/6/08 8:16 AM
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stinenandy2010
I'm a sexy librarian
Member since 2/08 3016 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/2/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
I think it depends on who it is and what the relationship is. I am very close with my mother and she always offers critiques but its bc she has my best interest at heart and wants to make sure I am not getting scammed. On the other hand, there are people out there who will be jealous and always wants to put their two cents in.
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Posted 10/6/08 8:18 AM
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Kimmypie143
Ornament????? :(
Member since 3/08 1241 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2010 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
def. jealously! Its your day don't let anyone tell you what to do or how to do it. I had someone like that told them they are no longer involved in my wedding. It got to me so much and you can't let it ruin your excitment! So I eliminated the problem 
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Posted 10/6/08 8:53 AM
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MrsList09
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/07 701 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/18/2009 5:30 PM
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Some people are just negative! Is this person normally like this or is it just with your wedding?
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Posted 10/6/08 9:59 AM
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Its2Snappy
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/08 340 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/31/2010 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Two people in my family are like this. So, I sat them down and said the following....
"My wedding is very special to me. You are not going to agree with all my decisions, but I need you to be supportive. If you are going to say something negative, think about how it might affect me before you say it. This is a very emotional time and I do not want negativity involved. If you can do this, then I will gladly share all my wedding plans with you. If you cannot, then I won't talk about the wedding at all."
After a few questions on their part, they agreed not to be negative about it. And so far they have kept their word.
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Posted 10/6/08 11:15 AM
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Mrs Z To Be
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/08 317 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/13/2010 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Awesome!!!
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Deleted for wrong post..lol
Message edited 10/6/2008 11:24:17 AM.
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Posted 10/6/08 11:23 AM
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Opera_Ghost
Can't wait until TWOTY!
Member since 7/08 1414 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/5/2010 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Amazing waterfront location <3
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Posted by CloudNine
straight up jealousy in my opinion
I second that.
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Posted 10/6/08 11:52 AM
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CristinanBen2010
Mrs. R to be <3
Member since 2/08 1346 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/24/2010 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
VIP Country Club
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Re: TOUCHY SUBJECT...
Posted by Opera_Ghost
Posted by CloudNine
straight up jealousy in my opinion
I second that.
yup, unfortunatley it seems like alot of it comes out when your wedding planning
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Posted 10/6/08 5:38 PM
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