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MikeandJess
Soy Married.
Member since 10/06 14134 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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girls who did / are working on their reviews
were you 100% honest? There's a vendor I used that was so sweet and really worked with me but I don't think they did the best job. I feel bad saying something like that in my review. I was thinking of just omitting them completely? Was anyone else in this situation?
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Posted 10/11/08 4:54 PM 
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Future Mulligan
always & forever
Member since 7/07 8262 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/5/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Dome Room at Jericho Terrace
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
i think you should be honest, if you dont want to get into it in the review, you can just say something like FM me for details....or just write the name and what they did (like photo/DJ/make up) and no details....people will notice that you didnt write anything about them and will probably FM if they want more info....
i noticed things like that in other peoples reviews and FMed them
Message edited 10/11/2008 4:58:10 PM.
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Posted 10/11/08 4:57 PM
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MikeandJess
Soy Married.
Member since 10/06 14134 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
Posted by Future Mulligan
i think you should be honest, if you dont want to get into it in the review, you can just say something like FM me for details....or just write the name and what they did (like photo/DJ/make up) and no details....people will notice that you didnt write anything about them and will probably FM if they want more info....
i noticed things like that in other peoples reviews and FMed them
yea I was thinking this but I don't want the vendor to know I didn't think they did a good job because it wasn't like they were lazy and didn't try. I just didn't like how they performed, ya know? I know i"m being ridiculous!
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Posted 10/11/08 5:00 PM
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Future Mulligan
always & forever
Member since 7/07 8262 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/5/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Dome Room at Jericho Terrace
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
well, do you think you would still recommend them?
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Posted 10/11/08 5:04 PM
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MikeandJess
Soy Married.
Member since 10/06 14134 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
Posted by Future Mulligan
well, do you think you would still recommend them?
touche. I wouldn't recommend them and if I was talking to someone in person and not broadcasting it across the internet I'd tell them exactly how I felt. I wouldn't want another bride to be unhappy
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Posted 10/11/08 5:09 PM
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kslmbuggie
Barack the vote!
Member since 8/07 2452 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
i think u should be as honest as you can without bad mouthing them. Reviews really help girls when choosing vendors. Just say what they did, and how u think they can improve for the next bride.
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Posted 10/11/08 9:00 PM
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del Rio
EST. May 25th, 2008
Member since 9/06 2502 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/25/2008 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
I say be honest, include them, but maybe don't add a grade or however you are reviewing your day. I have one vendor that did not meet my expectations, but I know that they have met the expectations of others- even LIWers. If I still decide to do a review for this particular vendor I would definitely emphasize that it doesn't mean they aren't capable of doing a great job at whatever it is that they do, just in my case, it didn't work out as well.
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Posted 10/11/08 9:53 PM
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queenschic
Board Enthusiast
Member since 7/08 235 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/28/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
The Inn at New Hyde Park
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
I vote for honesty too! I don't think you should totally trash someone unfairly i.e....they were horrible!!! wrecked my day!!! and i wish them death!!!...but i think a simple "i would not recommend them, please FM for details" would be fair.
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Posted 10/11/08 10:12 PM
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tj2008
Board Fanatic
Member since 6/07 921 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/18/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
WGP
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
I was 100% honest because I wanted to be fair with everybody on here
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Posted 10/11/08 10:32 PM
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lucamon
My review is up!
Member since 9/07 1802 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/6/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
3 West Club
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
Posted by MikeandJess
were you 100% honest? There's a vendor I used that was so sweet and really worked with me but I don't think they did the best job. I feel bad saying something like that in my review. I was thinking of just omitting them completely? Was anyone else in this situation?
I have the same problem with 1 vendor. He was so nice to work with and I'm sure he couldn't help what happened. I am going to be honest and tell the truth but since he was very nice, I will be lenient when rating them.
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Posted 10/11/08 11:07 PM
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ChristineAaron08
Everything WAS alright!
Member since 4/07 8908 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/6/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
Maybe give grades and just say that the service was good, but not up to par w/ what u expected.
In not one to talk though b/c I havent even posted my review from 6 months ago 
Message edited 10/12/2008 12:13:56 AM.
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Posted 10/12/08 12:11 AM
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lila
Board Fanatic
Member since 10/08 520 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/17/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Cats for Obama!
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
I feel the same way. I'm probably not going to write a review because there are vendors I wasn't completely happy with, that weren't 100% awful, but I dont know what I would even write
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Posted 10/12/08 12:50 AM
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MikeandJess
Soy Married.
Member since 10/06 14134 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Milleridge Cottage
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Re: girls who did / are working on their reviews
Posted by lila
I feel the same way. I'm probably not going to write a review because there are vendors I wasn't completely happy with, that weren't 100% awful, but I dont know what I would even write
but there were so many vendors that really pulled their weight that day, I want to give them the proper recognition too. There are also a lot of bad vendors that I am not holding back with, they were just terrible and I feel that they should be put in the review too. It's the in between that's the issue. I'm glad it's not just me that has this problem!
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Posted 10/12/08 9:20 AM
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