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WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:54 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:54 PM

WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Mine is so laid back, he says he expects it, and lets me handle it.

My ex-boyfriend on the other hand wouldn't even let another guy look at me without freaking out.

jennbaby Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:55 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:55 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

John is very confident & handles it well. I think men, deep down, like it that other men think their woman looks good

Latina511 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:56 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:56 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Enzo always reacts and lets them know that I am his wife.

jennbaby Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:56 PM+

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Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Kathy, one of my exes used to tell me while we were driving, Why are you looking at him, and him...my god i was looking out the CAR window as we drove

I left him the next day! Moved out & all!

FREAK!

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:59 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 03:59 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

OMG! Talk about a control freak!!!

My ex had a total wandering eye, he was always checking out other women, and I was pretty young when we dated like 20, so I acted immature and got ****ed that he was looking at women. Now, I could care less, I'm secure with myself, and heck, if there's a hot woman, I'll be the first to point her out and say she looks good, that I want to look like her!

But what was so funny with my ex, he could look around at all the women and stare, but no one was allowed to look at me. Freak!!!!

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:02 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:02 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

of course he doesn't love it.. but at the same time, it's an ego boast for him.. I never pay enough attention to notice.. I'm on real B*TCH CONTROL..

Jordan Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:02 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:02 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Chris is the same as your FH, Kathy. He's laid back and knows I can handle myself. If I couldn't - if the guy was man-handling me or something - Chris would step in, I'm sure.

I think everyone - man or woman - like it when they are flirted with (within their own boundaries, of course)...I think flirting is totally harmless

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:03 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:03 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Exactly Marcella, FI says that if men look it's just an ego boost for him because I'm with him!

Latina511 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:07 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:07 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

My husband doesn't do anything if they are looking at me or anything, he feels proud. If a guy comes up to be talking to me as if he's hitting on me right next to my DH, of course there will be a reaction.

Enzo and I have an open relationship. I can look at a guy and say he's hot, he doesn't care. Same thing vice versa.

Jenny5150 Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:09 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:09 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

My FH used to tease me b/c he couldn't leave me alone when we went out. It was guaranteed that someone would come up and talk to me while he went to the men's room.

A lot of guys don't realize I'm with my FH. I think it's because I'm so much taller, courtesy of heels.

My FH's reaction varies. It depends on how they hit on me. Some get in my face and get very aggressive, others are friendly.

(The only reason why I get hit on is because I'm tall w/big boobs.

But I know my FH likes the attention I receive.)

smooch Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:13 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:13 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

I think it bothers FH, maybe he thinks I'll leave him for them, but NOOOOO, I'd never. I usually ignore it when guys hit on me, because I know it makes FH uncomfortable.

eroxgirl Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:20 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:20 PM

Re: WHat does FI do when men hit on you in front of him?

Its tough to say, half the time I don't even notice, but if someone flirts w/ me in front of him he usually says something like, 'don't matter buddy, she's going home w/ me'

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:21 PM+

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Posted: Jul 18, 2003 04:21 PM