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this is scary - everyone is saying YES!
MrsTC Posted: Aug 29, 2003 05:20 PM+
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this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

Whatever happened to that certain percentage of 'no's' ?! LOL ! Out of 120 people I have like 3 saying no. We are going to have to take out an emergency loan!
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lorimari Posted: Aug 29, 2003 05:21 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

NOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOO Don't tell me this

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smooch Posted: Aug 29, 2003 05:24 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

we found that to be true in the beginning. the people who responded 'no' took a while to send their responses in. the 'yes' people got them in right away... you'll be okay! or.. you'll have A LOT of loved ones around on your special day.
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lulu Posted: Aug 29, 2003 05:28 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

We didn't get most of our No's until after the response cards were due. We were really nervous also because were invited more people than our hall could hold.
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larryswife2be Posted: Aug 29, 2003 05:29 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

OMG,

Don't worry, hopefully they'll be a few no's here and there. I'm hoping to get quite a few no's or I might get that emergency loan! YIKES!
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butterfly20 Posted: Aug 29, 2003 06:05 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

im sure the no's will come in later, but the more the merrier
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DaniRN Posted: Aug 29, 2003 06:31 PM+
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Posted: Aug 29, 2003 06:31 PM bride-minus.png

Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

my no's also came in last.
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MarcellaBella Posted: Aug 29, 2003 06:41 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

It'll be fine!! Trust me.. I totally was flipping and it all worked out.. sh it happens, it'll work out.
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Shirley Posted: Aug 29, 2003 07:04 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

marcella
how many did you have?
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Alvatorre74 Posted: Aug 29, 2003 10:51 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

But be prepared that some of these Yes now, might turn in to No later!!!! Like it happen to me with about 8 or so people...And you cant get your Money Back!!!
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spel Posted: Aug 29, 2003 10:52 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

i'm jealous! we've got about 8 responses so far & 2 no's!
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michele31 Posted: Aug 30, 2003 12:00 AM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

Honestly, I always tell brides that when you invite someone plan on them attending in your budget and reception site counts. I have known people who were shocked at the amount of yes RSVPs they got.
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CutieLipps Posted: Aug 31, 2003 12:31 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

I invited 212 and got back 165 yes'es. I was getting a little nervous at the beginning because I wasn't getting any no's. But I feel good with 165. Now let's just hope we don't have 'no-shows'
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radiostar Posted: Aug 31, 2003 12:42 PM+
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Re: this is scary - everyone is saying YES!

An important lesson that I've learned is, the majority of the people who will wait until the last minute to drop their RSVP cards in the mail are the same ones who probably aren't coming. Also the ones who are too lazy to drop the cards in the mail probably aren't coming either.

Trust me....you'll get some 'NO's'....but at the last minute.

Father GOD....why can't people just DO WHAT THEIR SUPPOSED TO DO??!?!?!!?

**sorry for the mini rant**
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