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Kguardz Posted: Mar 24, 2012 03:10 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 03:10 AM

I cannot believe I am writing this

But fh and I have broken up. If you have told me last week that this would happen I would say absolutly not no way no chance. But its happened. I think I've been lying to myself for a long time and there were just red flags I was choosing to ignore. Everything just exploded on thursday night. I'm still in shock, I thought on friday we'd talk figure things out we got into a drunken argument that was apprently about a lot more than I thought it was. But in hindsight now I'm realizing I think this just wasn't meant to. Sorry for all the spelling and grammer erros but as you can imagine I am a mess right now. I'm a mess and yet I'm ok. I know what went wrong and I was just choosing to ignore it hoping it'd all go away I guess with the wedding and ring and all that crap. Well ladies its been a pleasure and I know your all going to have beautiful weddings!! Thank you for all the support and laughs you've all given me since i joined. I'm sad to go

Sweetpea1 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 04:14 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 04:14 AM

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Wow I'm so sorry for you. It's always tuff when it first happens but at least you found out now rather than after the wedding. It's best to lean on good friends and family for support right now. Take care.

Lau1007 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:47 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:47 AM

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I'm so, so sorry. Thinking of you!

4Everhisgirl Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:51 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:51 AM

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I am so so sorry!

mattandjess2013 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:57 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 07:57 AM

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I'm so sorry

csteen85 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 08:07 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 08:07 AM

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I'm so sorry this has happened, but you can be sure it's for the best. You'll be proud of the hard decision you made and will be able to move on from this and be much happier.

I wish you the best!

jmo488 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:03 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:03 AM

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Oh no! I'm so sorry!

MommaMia Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:15 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:15 AM

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I'm so so so sorry!! I know it's hard but find comfort in your strength and follow your gut!! It's knows things our head and heart doesn't want to hear! Xoxo

Pretty_In_Pink Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:22 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:22 AM

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ugh my heart goes out to you,..... stay hopeful! God bless

KristyANDMatt224 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:55 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:55 AM

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I am so sorry! We are all here for you

fdnybride163 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:57 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 09:57 AM

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it sounds like you have a clear head about it, which is a really good thing. you will have closure and in the end know that it was better to do it before the wedding, then after.

you are welcome back here anytime to vent/laugh/breathe/escape!

Courtz Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:02 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:02 AM

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Posted by MommaMia

I'm so so so sorry!! I know it's hard but find comfort in your strength and follow your gut!! It's knows things our head and heart doesn't want to hear! Xoxo

Please know that we are all still here for you. You have an extended family with us girls and any support or venting you need to do, please don't hesitate to contact me or any other girls. XOXO

Kris10nGerard Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:37 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:37 AM

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So sorry. Were all here if you need to talk.

torresm Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:41 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 10:41 AM

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I am so sorry! Sending you my love and prayers

As the girls said, if you ever need to talk, we are always here for you

Kristin31613 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:06 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:06 AM

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I so sorry. That is terrible news but as long as you are confident in your decision it is def for the best!

JenniBella Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:52 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:52 AM

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Posted by Courtz

Posted by MommaMia

I'm so so so sorry!! I know it's hard but find comfort in your strength and follow your gut!! It's knows things our head and heart doesn't want to hear! Xoxo

Please know that we are all still here for you. You have an extended family with us girls and any support or venting you need to do, please don't hesitate to contact me or any other girls. XOXO

I am so sorry! We are all still here for you!

LeeKyle Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:53 AM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 11:53 AM

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I'm sorry.

I always get by with 'this too shall pass'

Jack84 Posted: Mar 24, 2012 12:41 PM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 12:41 PM

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That is terrible news & I am so sorry this is happening to you. I always say 'Better to know now, than later.' As sad as it is, you will one day meet someone else who will make you realize why it never worked out the your ex. Better to happen now then waste all that money, time & possibly have a family with this man only to realize it was a mistake.

Keep your head up. We are all here for you!

Kguardz Posted: Mar 24, 2012 04:37 PM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 04:37 PM

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thanks so much everyone for the support. We just did the whole exchanging of each others crap. I never thought I could hurt so bad, but life goes on I guess!

SummerBeauty Posted: Mar 24, 2012 05:06 PM+

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Posted: Mar 24, 2012 05:06 PM