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My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

KD1279 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:15 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:15 AM

My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

My myspace messages!!! ***!!!

I dont know what to do!

Yes, he admitted he has been checking my messages

But he said he is really sorry and its immature and he really couldn't explain himself b/c he felt so stupid. He trusts me and doesnt know why he would do this. But we live together, share everything, We have to talk!

I love him so much I just dont care I am so happy he admitted this to me.

MnM52607 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:17 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:17 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...

What's the matter with that?

D's Girl Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:27 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:27 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...

I am not on MySpace, but that would defiantly bother me also. I am sure you are not hiding anything, but to me that is a trust factor issue and it needs to be discussed now.

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:27 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:27 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...

?? Are you not ok with that?

KD1279 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:30 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:30 AM

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Posted by lilqtpie2181

?? Are you not ok with that?

No, I dont care if he reads them, I find it weird! There must be a trust issue with him. Its just weird, I logged on this morning and all my messages were read, like he went to work and that was the first thing he did???I am just shocked!

BrideChrissy Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:33 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:33 AM

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ohhhhh girl you need to say something about that. Ya know what you should do, change your password and don't tell him so the nexttime he logs on hell be like ***? And he prob won't mention it to you like y did you change your password because then hell give up that he snoops.

TnOiOnL Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:34 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:34 AM

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yea thats kinda weird... myspace RUINS relationships!!!!!!!! My FH REFUSES to have a page on there because of all the bullsh!t thats happened witth people we know, its so stupid! He actually made a page for his recording studio on it, and has ME check it because he just HATES the site LOL... but yea you might want to talk to him about that, its definatly a trust issue

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:43 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:43 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...

Posted by kdecamp

Posted by lilqtpie2181

?? Are you not ok with that?

No, I dont care if he reads them, I find it weird! There must be a trust issue with him. Its just weird, I logged on this morning and all my messages were read, like he went to work and that was the first thing he did???I am just shocked!

OOOOOOOOh i thought he was reading them in front of you... I would def have a talk with him about it. If it was me.. i wouldn;t care about the messages but i would care that there might be a lack of trust issue lurking.
Def talk to him about it. Good Luck sweety!

KD1279 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:55 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:55 AM

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I am really freaked out! I am just deleting the page my MOH had to b/c her FH always had something to say about it! I only have 11 friend on there!!! 2 bridesmaids, couple girlfriends, one friend of the family who is married, but he is the only guy I accepted. I am just deleting it, I am so into LIW, I dont have the time!

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:03 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:03 AM

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Posted by kdecamp

I am really freaked out! I am just deleting the page my MOH had to b/c her FH always had something to say about it! I only have 11 friend on there!!! 2 bridesmaids, couple girlfriends, one friend of the family who is married, but he is the only guy I accepted. I am just deleting it, I am so into LIW, I dont have the time!

LOL...I understand being into LIW.. but I still think u should tlk to him about it. not cuz he was reading ur messages but more about why he would?!

angnick Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:42 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:42 AM

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i dont think u should be too upset. it shouldnt be a big deal to you that he is reading yoru my space messages, unless u have something to hide!

rachel212 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:45 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:45 AM

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Posted by angnick

i dont think u should be too upset. it shouldnt be a big deal to you that he is reading yoru my space messages, unless u have something to hide!

I disagree with this. He is loggin in to her account with her password without tellign her. I wouldn't like ANYONE checking my e-mail. Not because I have anything to hide, I just think that's an invasion of privacy.

rachie Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:48 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:48 AM

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I wouldn't be upset at all ...
Just mention to him that you know.
dont delete it I am on myspace :)

bellaro782 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:50 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 10:50 AM

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Hummm, I would say something to him.. Explain how you feel...

kitty1224 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:09 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:09 AM

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I think that maybe he needs the reasurance, he probably knows but wants to be 100 positive that he has nothing to worry about. I don't think I would get mad, I would be a little concered that he feels he needs to , but guys are diffrent then girls, there's more drama with girl and more meaning behind things. I think you need to talk to him, do not change your password because that will make it seem like you know what is going and are hiding something. Talk to him, Good Luck

kitty1224 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:17 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:17 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

See he loves you and just wanted to get a little reasurance. aww

rachel212 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:28 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:28 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

Posted by kdecamp

My myspace messages!!! ***!!! I dont know what to do!

Yes, he admitted he has been checking my messages But he said he is really sorry and its immature and he really couldn't explain himself b/c he felt so stupid. He trusts me and doesnt know why he would do this. But we live together, share everything, We have to talk! I love him so much I just dont care I am so happy he admitted this to me.

Oh - that's good!!! I'm glad you worked this out and he was honest about it!! I'm sure that's a big relief.

thelastresort Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:28 AM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 11:28 AM

Re: My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

Posted by rachel212

Posted by angnick

i dont think u should be too upset. it shouldnt be a big deal to you that he is reading yoru my space messages, unless u have something to hide!

I disagree with this. He is loggin in to her account with her password without tellign her. I wouldn't like ANYONE checking my e-mail. Not because I have anything to hide, I just think that's an invasion of privacy.

Seriously...but at least he admitted and apologized..that's what matters!

lilangel Posted: Sep 05, 2006 01:00 PM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 01:00 PM

Re: My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

Yes but is he still doing it after he apologized? that's the question. There is a serious trust issue here. Sure it's miniscule to checking myspace. But what if it escalates to going through emails and im chat history. It is obvious it is bothering her and it would bother me too.

What brought on this need to go through your Myspace?

He is lucky he is not with me because I would intentionally start adding all those sexaholic people to my friends.

'SEXYLATINOMAN4U has been added to your friends'

JPC1125 Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:40 PM+

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Posted: Sep 05, 2006 09:40 PM

Re: My FH is reading ...Update I got him!

It's just Myspace....not the code for the Nuclear bomb

I wouldnt let it bother me...DH and I both check each other's e-mail and know all of each other's passwords.

Kepping messages and e-mail is more a problme IMO because then he shouldnt trust you if you are hiding something