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Please tell me how does the Shower thing work does the MOH

julissa Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:07 AM+

julissa MEMBER SINCE: 7/02 TOTAL POSTS : 181 WEDDING DATE: Jan 10, 2004

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:07 AM

Please tell me how does the Shower thing work does the MOH

really take care of everything all by herself. I mean if you give her a list of who you want to invite or around when it is a good time to do it. Wouldn't that eliminate the element of suprise.

Tell me how does this work

OctBride03 Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:13 AM+

OctBride03 MEMBER SINCE: 9/02 TOTAL POSTS : 6768 WEDDING DATE: Oct 19, 2003

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:13 AM

Re: Please tell me how does the Shower thing work does the MOH

Hi! I happened to have a take charge MOH who took care of mostly everything with the help of my mother and my bridesmaids. My shower was amazing and they totally surprised me! The only thing I gave my MOH was a guest list other than that I left it up to her!

I did not give her a time as to when is good to have it. That may give away the surprise! Good luck!

ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:16 AM+

ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 10:16 AM

Re: Please tell me how does the Shower thing work does the MOH

Traditionally, the MOH & the bridesmaids make the shower but I think a lot of times the mother of the bride &/or the groom help out also.

When they ask, you should only need to provide a guest list. Most people are obvious but they wouldn't want to exclude someone by mistake. The rest of it should be without your input.

Your FH will probably be asked to suggest alternate plans so that you will be surprised at the shower. Even if you figure it out - you will be overwhelmed.