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The occasional one doesn't bother me...but yeah, I've noticed an influx lately around here.

I think the only times I ever posted on the NW board before I was married was to offer congratulations to anyone that announced their pregnancy.

'Course, I stalked on here...but posting was super limited.

Wasn't there a disclaimer at the top of the board a long time ago that this was just for Newlyweds?

Anyway, I do agree that it should be kept to the BHB board. Those NWs that still enjoy the aspects of wedding planning do pop over there to answer things, and those NWs that are done with the process and happy that it's over don't have to see 'em.

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Wasn't there a disclaimer at the top of the board a long time ago that this was just for Newlyweds?

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Kris- I was looking for that disclaimer before. I thought there was one also.

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bear.

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Posted by Clover23

bear.

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Well said.

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Clover23

bear.

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Well said.

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Re: Always a post like this

I have to say, this board has remained drama free for quite a while. I remember posts like this from before 2010 and we (& the 2009ers) would always get flamed. I think we're being nice about it!!

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yes.

I want to be left alone about wedding stuff LOL

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i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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I think it's just a different group of girls. We didn't like it when some 09'ers jumped down our throats so why would we do it to the 11'ers? They cause no problems.

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Posted by AdriandSteve

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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I think it's just a different group of girls. We didn't like it when some 09'ers jumped down our throats so why would we do it to the 11'ers? They cause no problems.

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ITA... at this point Megan it sounds like youre looking for a little drama to start...

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That's not ENTIRELY true.

I seem to remember something about penisss straws and vodka drinking.

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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This post = just trying to be a poop stirrer...maybe they saw it and said 'yeah, maybe we should limit the posting over there'.

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Posted by AngnShaun

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Posted by AdriandSteve

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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I think it's just a different group of girls. We didn't like it when some 09'ers jumped down our throats so why would we do it to the 11'ers? They cause no problems.

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ITA... at this point Megan it sounds like youre looking for a little drama to start...

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i'm not looking to start any drama, i'm just expressing that it really does annoy me. AND with that, i had the 2008 and 2009 girls after me for a lot of stuff. and that was for posting on the bhb... they'd post things like 'hey 2009'ers...' and i'd reply and they'd freak.

idk. if everyone else ignores it, then obv i will too, but it was brought up and i do have my opinion on it.

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Posted by flibbertigibbet

That's not ENTIRELY true.

I seem to remember something about penisss straws and vodka drinking.

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Here's your disclaimer:

For Newlyweds Only
Long Island Newlyweds Unite!
From engagement to honeymoon, the planning and all the bumps along the way, you made it! You're married, congratulations. But, you still have questions and concerns? Well, here's the place for you.
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Other than that - I was terrified to post here before I was a NW.

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Posted by barbtony


Other than that - I was terrified to post here before I was a NW.

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me too! don't know why!

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Posted by mariedsgn

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Posted by barbtony


Other than that - I was terrified to post here before I was a NW.

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me too! don't know why!

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by Future Mrs H

I always thought that only NW's posted here.

I have noticed that there are alot of crashing here. Sometimes it bothers me other times it doesnt. I guess it depends on whats posted.

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I have to agree. I like the 2011 girls, but when I wasn't married yet, I felt like I wasn't allowed to post on this board, so I never did.

Sometimes this board is slow though, so the occasional post doesn't bother me, but yeah, it's a little weird.

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i agree

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Hey. I haven't crashed over here at all because I know it is the 'For Newlyweds Only' board. I do like to lurk though.

Like I said I can't really speak for the other '11ers since I don't really post here, but I think the reason a lot of the girls are crashing over here is that the 2010 board is dead and they know you are all over here.

I personally very rarely look at the BHB board or think to post there. I'm thinking that a lot of the other 2011ers feel the same way.

Gotta say you guys are very helpful though, so thanks!

Hopefully we can all pay a little more attention to BHB!

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I really never thought of it...I guess it doesn't bother me, haha. And the questions that they ask when they crash are really tailored to asking a NW opinion, so I don't mind answering at all!

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

i'm a little surprised that the 2011'ers aren't talking about this post.

AT ALL.

i remember when we had this convo on the 2010 board it was a WAR!
idk, again, it does really bother me.. i mean, a post here or there is one thing.. but like.. i swear we're being bombarded with 'crashing's' i mean, if you look at the forum name it says:

wedding forums>newlyweds>FOR NEWLYWEDS ONLY

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it 100% sounds like you're looking for drama

like grkbarbie said in the spinoff, what is the big deal?? are we still in HS? do we need to be bullies that behind computer screens?

some 11 girls are looking for help, isn't that what this entire board is about???

and since the 10 board is dead, we turn to the NW board to get answers to our questions...like my post today, i really needed a NW perspective, so that's why i posted here...

I dont see the need or reason to bully other women??!!

why can't people just be NICE and WANT to help...if youre one of those who doesn't want to offer help, just don't respond!

and I am 100% guilty of crashing but only when I have the opportunity to help someone out or offer advice...from now on, I won't offer advice to the NWs on here, not a problem

I will however post something, if I need help that only a NW can offer bc there have been so many girls on here nice enough and willing to help and to those girls thank you