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I have no backbone.
jhines4684
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:40 AM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:40 AM
I have no backbone.
I have no backbone when I need it.I asked a simply question, 'Who does this get sent to, client, or IRS?'My jerk of a boss GRABS my finger like a child and points to the IRS.
First of all, don't f**king touch me, and second of all, next time, use a post it. How do I know you have a power of attorney?
My husband told me to walk out.
Although that's what this guy deserves from me, I won't do that. After tax season, this guy is getting a 2 weeks notice from me (especially if I will need a W-2 for next year, I better at least keep my cool as much as it's killing me right now). I'm constantly angry, upset, and full complaints. I really felt like extending my arm and punching him sqaure in the face. You don't treat people like that.
I'm not having a very good week and it's only monday.
halfbaked
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:42 AM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:42 AM
Re: I have no backbone.
It's not that you have no backbone, it's that you're not acting rash. Hang in there.ETA: Is there an HR dept. you can speak to?
jhines4684
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:44 AM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:44 AM
Re: I have no backbone.
Posted by jilliibabiiIt's not that you have no backbone, it's that you're not acting rash. Hang in there.
ETA: Is there an HR dept. you can speak to?
No HR, it's a private business with 4 people working.
SummerBride10
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:51 AM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:51 AM
Re: I have no backbone.
no one should be treated that way.
Byrne2Be
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:57 AM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:57 AM
Re: I have no backbone.
I feel SO badly but I do think it is strategic/smart that you're keeping your cool as it sounds like you have a well thought out plan in place (ie - walking in 2 weeks so you can get a w2).I would have a VERY, VERY difficult time with someone grabbing my hand/touching me....
Hang in there!
cateydee
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:09 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:09 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
you seem to have a very cool head on your shoulders!!! I highly disagree that you have no backbone!!!!!!!!!!And arent they legally obligated to give you a W2 regardless of how you quit?
jhines4684
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:13 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:13 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
Posted by cateydee
you seem to have a very cool head on your shoulders!!! I highly disagree that you have no backbone!!!!!!!!!!
And arent they legally obligated to give you a W2 regardless of how you quit?
yeah they are but I just feel like this guy would give me a hard time for some reason. Also I did my tax return here. I made a copy and scanned it to my computer at home already so at least that's done.
I'm just so angry. I left my last job for petty crap like this, and I feel like I was completely lied to.
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:37 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:37 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
you probably did the right thing ... just take solice in the fact taht it won't be for too much longer!
SoontobeMrs.Brown
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:08 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:08 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.
He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.
jhines4684
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:09 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:09 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.
I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.
He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.![]()
I'm better off waiting. LOL....There;s tax season bonus...once I get it and clear the check, it's peace out time for me.
SoontobeMrs.Brown
Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:14 PM+

Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:14 PM
Re: I have no backbone.
Posted by jhines4684
Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.
I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.
He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.![]()
I'm better off waiting. LOL....There;s tax season bonus...once I get it and clear the check, it's peace out time for me.
Oh - yeah then wait for the bonus but if he EVER touches you again - walk out. Im so mad for you right now. Ugh - hang in there .. its almost over!
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