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I have no backbone.
jhines4684 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:40 AM+
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I have no backbone.

I have no backbone when I need it.

I asked a simply question, 'Who does this get sent to, client, or IRS?'My jerk of a boss GRABS my finger like a child and points to the IRS.

First of all, don't f**king touch me, and second of all, next time, use a post it. How do I know you have a power of attorney?

My husband told me to walk out.

Although that's what this guy deserves from me, I won't do that. After tax season, this guy is getting a 2 weeks notice from me (especially if I will need a W-2 for next year, I better at least keep my cool as much as it's killing me right now). I'm constantly angry, upset, and full complaints. I really felt like extending my arm and punching him sqaure in the face. You don't treat people like that.

I'm not having a very good week and it's only monday.
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halfbaked Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:42 AM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

It's not that you have no backbone, it's that you're not acting rash. Hang in there.

ETA: Is there an HR dept. you can speak to?
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jhines4684 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:44 AM+
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Re: I have no backbone.


Posted by jilliibabii

It's not that you have no backbone, it's that you're not acting rash. Hang in there.

ETA: Is there an HR dept. you can speak to?



No HR, it's a private business with 4 people working.
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SummerBride10 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:51 AM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

no one should be treated that way.
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Byrne2Be Posted: Mar 28, 2011 11:57 AM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

I feel SO badly but I do think it is strategic/smart that you're keeping your cool as it sounds like you have a well thought out plan in place (ie - walking in 2 weeks so you can get a w2).

I would have a VERY, VERY difficult time with someone grabbing my hand/touching me....

Hang in there!
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cateydee Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:09 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

you seem to have a very cool head on your shoulders!!! I highly disagree that you have no backbone!!!!!!!!!!

And arent they legally obligated to give you a W2 regardless of how you quit?
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jhines4684 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:13 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.


Posted by cateydee

you seem to have a very cool head on your shoulders!!! I highly disagree that you have no backbone!!!!!!!!!!

And arent they legally obligated to give you a W2 regardless of how you quit?



yeah they are but I just feel like this guy would give me a hard time for some reason. Also I did my tax return here. I made a copy and scanned it to my computer at home already so at least that's done.

I'm just so angry. I left my last job for petty crap like this, and I feel like I was completely lied to.
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AwaitingAugust Posted: Mar 28, 2011 12:37 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

you probably did the right thing ... just take solice in the fact taht it won't be for too much longer!
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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:08 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.

Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.

I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.

He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.
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jhines4684 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:09 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.


Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.

I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.

He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.



I'm better off waiting. LOL....There;s tax season bonus...once I get it and clear the check, it's peace out time for me.
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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:14 PM+
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Re: I have no backbone.


Posted by jhines4684


Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Youre a better person than I am .. if any boss ever grabbed my finger I think I wouldve broke their hand and then walked out.

I think youre being too nice for even putting up with this. I would never wait to give notice when you are being treated so poorly. Nobody should be treated this way.

He's a fukking animal. Im sorry you are going through this.



I'm better off waiting. LOL....There;s tax season bonus...once I get it and clear the check, it's peace out time for me.




Oh - yeah then wait for the bonus but if he EVER touches you again - walk out. Im so mad for you right now. Ugh - hang in there .. its almost over!
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Clover23 Posted: Mar 28, 2011 01:25 PM+
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