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What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

JBC12510 Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:26 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:26 AM

What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

Thanks ladies!! I dont feel as bad knowing I wasnt in the wrong

regy_k Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:31 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:31 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

u did the right thing

cateydee Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:32 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:32 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

your landlord's a moron. you did the right thing

2010BTB Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:37 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:37 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

Absolutely you did the right thing!!!!

mtk1605 Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:37 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:37 AM

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Posted by cateydee

your landlord's a moron. you did the right thing

This!

WeezyGirl2354 Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:41 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:41 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

You did the right thing... how does a parent do that (leaving her) if he obviously knows that she has some issues going on.

I'm so sorry you were put in that situation - I hope the LL says something to you soon about this

little j Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:45 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:45 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

you did the right thing. god forbid yyou took her in and more stuff went on. plus you can see she doesnt respect you/anyone, so why would she listen to your rules.

kshea23 Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:45 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:45 AM

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Posted by cateydee

your landlord's a moron. you did the right thing

totally agree. You shouldn't have to take responsibility for someone you barely even know.

ourwedding9510 Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:53 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:53 AM

Re: What would you have done? (I am sorry, its ridiculously long)

You DEF did the right thing!

There is NO WAY I would have taken in that girl. G-dforbid I was out (like you were) and she was smoking pot in MY apartment! Then I'm in trouble! The parents should know better then to leavea 16 year old home alone (against the law)!

You tried to make contact with him so hopefully he'll make contact with you and APOLOGIZE for his actions, as well as his daughters.

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:55 AM+

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Posted: Jun 06, 2011 09:55 AM

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i agree with the rest ... i totally would not have taken her in either. That's not your job, not your responsibility and TOTALLY unacceptable for the landlords to ask you in the first place!

What if she got into even more trouble?! then it would've been on YOU guys!

Her parents are insane for leaving her all alone knowing she's got issues!

(hugs because i feel bad you have to deal with this stupid drama):