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Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me...
jeanla4c
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 02:08 PM+
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 02:08 PM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
Not at all...guess since I haven't lived with my parents since sophomore year of college and since then have lived 500 miles away...they were dying waiting for this day to come!!!
cindiella
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 02:39 PM+
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 02:39 PM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
I feel a little guilty about getting married. Though my wedding isn't until 2007, I think about what it is going to be like for my parents after the wedding. I'm the baby of the family and neither my sister nor I have ever been more than an hour and half away from my parents - even during undergrad and post-grad.By the time I get married, my sister will have moved to Fl and after I'm married I plan on moving to TX with my DH.
I feel like my parents are going to be so alone up here. They are actually thinking of leaving NY and moving to Fl in a few years.
ChrissynRicky
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 03:26 PM+
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 03:26 PM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
NOT SO MUCH GUILTY, BUT SAD. IT'S FUNNY B/C MY MOHER AND I HAVE GOTTEN A LOT CLOSER B/C OF THIS. SHE AND I LOOK FOR ANY SPARE MINUTE TO HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER....EVEN THOUGH WE BOTH KNOW I'LL PROBABLY MOVE DOWN THE BLOCK!
LuvMyMichael
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 04:08 PM+
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 04:08 PM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
I am so happy to get married and live with Michael, but I am sad to leave. My mom is widowed and my sister is away at college most of the year.....but she is happy for us and really excited.We are so close, and I don't think that will change.
curliegirl
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 05:14 PM+
Posted: Apr 21, 2005 05:14 PM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
I didn't feel guilty, so much as really sad. I am super close with my family, and they kept asking if I was going to sleep home after FI and I unofficially moved in together, and my Dad jokingly said 'Don't leave me all alone with your mother!'That was like a knife in my heart!
Especially since my brother is getting married on Saturday and me 6 months later !
I know they want me to be happy, but it's so sad to leave....bittersweet I guess....
AJsMommy122
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 01:57 AM+
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 01:57 AM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
When I first moved out of my mothers house I cried for DAYS b/c I felt so bad leaving my little brother!!!!! He was SO miserable when I was packing and when I first moved. I wanted to stay just so he wouldnt be sad!!! ( we are very close!!!)
anjerandunder
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 08:35 AM+
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 08:35 AM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
with my mom's recent passing, i feel terrible about leaving my dad. everytime i bring something else over to my co op he asks 'why are you rushing it.' i don't think he realizes how close it really is that he'll be in the huge house by himself. i wish there was a way to make it easier but there just isn't.
May05Bride
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 08:54 AM+
Posted: Apr 22, 2005 08:54 AM
Re: Does anyone feel guilty about getting married? I feel like my mom will feel so lonely, it makes me feel bad.
I haven't lived at home since I left for college. So, I think my parents are more or less ready for me to 'marry'My mom has been ready for a while!
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