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DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

julz33 Posted: Nov 16, 2003 10:47 PM+

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Posted: Nov 16, 2003 10:47 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

My FI likes to talk about the wedding! We plan everything together! I am the only one who goes on wedding planning websites though.

butterfly91804 Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:42 PM+

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Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:42 PM

Re: DOes yo-ur FI like talking about the wedding plans?

He likes talking about it but not as much as I do!

Smolokoff Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:50 PM+

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Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:50 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

He likes to talk about it to an extent. He has been very helpful in the planning, and he gives his opinion if he has a definite one. A few things didn't matter much to him, so he let me have the final say. But if he really doesn't like something, or really wants something, he lets me know. But what he really likes is watching me talk about it. He says I get this cute look on my face and he loves watching my smile grow as I get excited.

He thinks it's cute when I read him little tidbits off this site. He just knows I'm happy and that makes him happy.

Xelindrya Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:55 PM+

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Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:55 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

Yep.. he's into it.

He went with me for my makeup trial and goes with me while I view BM dresses.. no problem.

He's awesome!

EvenEdan Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:57 PM+

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Posted: Nov 16, 2003 11:57 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

He likes talking about it, though not as much as I do. Also I make it a point not to burn him out on wedding talk, he is into the planning and we certainly talk alot about the wedding, but I don't overwhelm with talk of BM dresses or centerpieces etc. I don't think he could take too much of that.

J.Lo24 Posted: Nov 17, 2003 10:00 PM+

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Posted: Nov 17, 2003 10:00 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

Suzieq Ditto! FH is not involved at all. He says 'whatever makes you happy, this is your thing.' I must say though, it is nice he is not involved. I am able to do everything I want and not have to argue or settle for something I might not like. The only thing he really is interested in is the music.

butterfly20 Posted: Nov 17, 2003 10:25 PM+

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Posted: Nov 17, 2003 10:25 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

my fh needs breaks when i overtalk it, but he does like being a part of the decision making process and having say in it, and he has even come up with some good ideas!

almostmarried Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:43 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:43 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

I think he's mentioned it once or twice.
Went to see some bands with me but really wasn't into it.
His family lives 10,000 miles away and can't make it so I think that's why he isn't so into it.

DrmnBlnd Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:45 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:45 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

He gets stressed when we start talking about it. He feels that there is way too much money being spent on it, yet he wants to have the big wedding.

Robeymuse Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:50 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2003 12:50 PM

Re: DOes your FI like talking about the wedding plans?

Ditto DrmnBlnd!
He likes to be involved and when he brings it up, it is fine. But when I remind him of any of the million details, he gets overwhelmed. I have learned what and when to bring it up.