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Everytime I look at my proofs..
MattandTricia07
Posted: Jan 04, 2007 11:34 PM+

Posted: Jan 04, 2007 11:34 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
Posted by ellebelle1
Wow, after reading your compliments, I can't believe it. It's funny because almost everyone who has posted I have thought had amazing pictures (that I was jealous of). Maybe, I have low self-esteem or something.I guess this is personal, but I think in a weird way I had an idea in my head of what a bride is supposed to look like and when I saw my own pictures that mental picture didn't match. I really feel better hearing all of your opinions. I've kept my anxst to myself for a long time.
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when I think of an elegant and classy bridal look- you definitely come to mind! I am so happy you are feeling a little bit better
ellebelle1
Posted: Jan 04, 2007 11:38 PM+

Posted: Jan 04, 2007 11:38 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
Posted by MattandTricia07
Posted by ellebelle1
Wow, after reading your compliments, I can't believe it. It's funny because almost everyone who has posted I have thought had amazing pictures (that I was jealous of). Maybe, I have low self-esteem or something.I guess this is personal, but I think in a weird way I had an idea in my head of what a bride is supposed to look like and when I saw my own pictures that mental picture didn't match. I really feel better hearing all of your opinions. I've kept my anxst to myself for a long time.
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when I think of an elegant and classy bridal look- you definitely come to mind! I am so happy you are feeling a little bit better![]()
Thanks so much. Everyone is so sweet.
Btw, Nicole- I guess this proves that everyone is their own worst critic because I think you look like the epitomy of a beautiful bride. It's amazing, isn't it, how we defeat ourselves with negative thoughts.
luvabul
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 12:25 AM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 12:25 AM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
i totally agree!!!
Pencils
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 01:11 AM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 01:11 AM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
Are you sure you're really upset about the photos and the dress, and not more the letdown of the wedding being over? I just looked at the pictures you had posted, and your dress looks beautiful, your hair is pretty--and the main thing: you look incredibly happy! And you sound incredibly happy in your review. If your wedding day was that great, why be bothered now? No one, not even you, noticed at the time that there was an issue with your dress, and I'm sure everyone thought your hair was beautiful. Your wedding day was real life, not a photo shoot. Your hair gets mussed, your dress may get rumpled. The important parts are the expressions of joy on the faces of the people in the photos.And if it still bothers you, do a bridal shoot where you can control everything--your hair, have your dress fixed, etc.
miss nee
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:21 PM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:21 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
LET ME CHECK IT OUT .. IM SURE YOU LOOKED GREAT NO MATTER WHAT ANGLE
LBride
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:32 PM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:32 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
I know how you feel, my bra is showing in every picture, you think they would have corrected that....
kns11
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:33 PM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:33 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
First off I'm sorry you are feeling anxiety over this. Then let me tell you that your pictures are all so wonderful. You have quite a lovely assortment. Your happiness of the day shines through in each and everyone. I especially love the one where you and FH are sitting at the table. Sending you hugs
Regal Beagle
Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:38 PM+

Posted: Jan 05, 2007 07:38 PM
Re: Everytime I look at my proofs..
You girls are nuts! Your proofs and Dom N Nic's are great!I am probably going to feel the same way because I hate myself in photos. I have very low-self estemm too. I can't even look at pictures of me in my dress. I think I look so fat.
Honeslty, you girls look amazing!
I guess the grass is always greener.....................
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I guess this is personal, but I think in a weird way I had an idea in my head of what a bride is supposed to look like and when I saw my own pictures that mental picture didn't match. I really feel better hearing all of your opinions. I've kept my anxst to myself for a long time. 















