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ladybug78 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:04 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:04 AM

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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Soon2BMrsB Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:05 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:05 AM

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I am so sorry. The same thing happened to a cousin of FH. Their uncle passed away 3 weeks before her wedding and everyone was devastated. She wanted to postpone everything but we all told her that her uncle would have been at her wedding if he were alive and would have a a blast as he always did. He would have wanted her wedding to go on. So your FFIL is right. Yes, it will be very sad (the uncle's name was in the 'In Memory' section of the program which was so painful), but you both have to try your best to make your wedding day a happy one. You may not be able to see her but she will be there with you, so make sure you're smiling!!

Best of luck. You're in my prayers

maria5-6-05 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:07 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:07 AM

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I am soo sorry for your loss. These things really put things into perspective. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

BernandRob Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:10 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:10 AM

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I am terriby sorry for your loss.

and prayers for you and you fi

MrsH1156 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:13 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:13 AM

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I am in tears just reading this. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom a few years ago and I know there are no words that can make it better. Please know you, your FH and his family are in my prayers.

nov2004bride Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:15 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:15 AM

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I am so sorry for your loss.

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:18 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:18 AM

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Wow I am truly sorry for your loss. You are right though - the wedding should go on. I am sort of in the same boat with my father having just passed away this summer. Parents want the best for their children. Celebrate in her honor as well as in her memory. Enjoy your day and know she will be with you. Many prayers.

prentiss20 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:24 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:24 AM

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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family...(new family... future in-laws). Be strong and let your love of your FH give you both strength in this difficult time.

Your wedding will bring you all a wonderful ray of sunshine during this difficult time ... enjoy it!

MrsFudge Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:26 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:26 AM

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I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen2999 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:29 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:29 AM

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You. FH and your families will be in my prayers!!

I am so sorry this is happening to you guys right now.

wendy1220 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:29 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:29 AM

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Aga Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:30 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:30 AM

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omg, I am sooo sorry

I dont even know what to say cause it wont make you feel any better... just hang in there and stay strong

Noiva06 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:40 AM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:40 AM

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I am so sorry for you loss...

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 01:46 PM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 01:46 PM

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I have just tears and hugs for you. I'm so sorry.

MrsD06 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 01:50 PM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 01:50 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss

L&M2006 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 02:05 PM+

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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 02:05 PM

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Oh my goodness that is so sad to hear - I have tears in my eyes. I'm so sorry for you and FH and family to be going through this now. I'm thinking about you all and wish you strength to get through this