Re: I HATE THE PEOPLE AT MY OLD JOB!!! UPDATE!!

well at least you know you have grown up! they apparently haven't!

Re: I HATE THE PEOPLE AT MY OLD JOB!!! UPDATE!!

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Posted by hmpena

Update(it's long!):

I called and spoke to the person who claims I said something and my boss (from my p/t job) who should have addressed this with me (and not FI).

I was accussed of saying something that I did not that was confidential. I called up the person who told my boss that I 'said' stuff. She denied ever saying this and stated she told my boss that I didn't say anything. In my conversation with this person, I told her that I was going to tell the boss that we spoke and this is what we said. She was fine with it. I then worked out on my lunch to calm down, as I would have bitten off the head of my boss. I called her a little while ago and told her that I wanted to talk about the situation. She was standoffish but I continued. I calmly, but you could hear anger in my voice, told her that I do not appreciate FI discussing an issue with me that she should have. I also told her that I spoke to the person who claims I said something and she agreed that I never said anything confiential. My boss sounded surprised but told me that this person said that I leaking info. I then told my boss that I would like the 3 of us to sit down together and discuss this, as I would never do this. My boss felt it wasn't a good idea (probably because she concocted this whole scheme! Sick B!TCH!). I continued to state that I never said anything and that the person who she is accusing of telling her this told me she never used my name. I admitted that if I had said something, I would own up to it and take whatever consequences come with it. My boss then said that she didn't make this up (liar!). My boss said she would take it up with this person and that she would take care of it. I don't care if she believes me, but I made it known that I have nothing to hide.

I just don't appreciate being blamed for something I didn't do. Thanks for listening to me. Please keep your fingers crossed that FI is offered this position. he said he did well on the interview, so please put out good vibes. Thanks!

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is this your current boss or your previous boss? wow i'm sorry you're dealing with this. i hope your FH gets the position he interviewed for.

Re: I HATE THE PEOPLE AT MY OLD JOB!!! UPDATE!!

yeah, working *****

Re: I HATE THE PEOPLE AT MY OLD JOB!!! UPDATE!!

Hollie, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. I'll definitely keep my fingers crossed for John.

To be honest it just sounds like its definitely NOT worth the aggravation for a P/T job. You are talented and I'm sure you can get a P/T job elsewhere where you are appreciated and don't have to deal w/ such BS.

Re: I HATE THE PEOPLE AT MY OLD JOB!!! UPDATE!!

Thanks ladies! I don't have to see my boss for 3 weeks, so it should be smooth sailing for the next few weeks. However after she returns, I have to make a decision if I want to continue to keep this job. I think I am going to start looking elsewhere. FI said that yesterday was quiet in the office. No one said anything to him and he has washed his hands of it, as have I. The best thing that came out of yesterday was my workout! It made me work out much harder! Now I just need to lose another 8 pounds and I am all set!

Again, thanks so much for your support ladies. It really means a lot to me.