Search Forums

Wedding Forums > Brides Helping Brides ™ > I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.
I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.
AlliCatB Posted: May 23, 2007 10:21 AM+
AlliCatB MEMBER SINCE: 10/06 TOTAL POSTS : 1214 WEDDING DATE: May 27, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:21 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

what a monster-in-law. I would just not speak to her. And tell FH any communication with her must now be done through him. You don't need the stress. f--k her
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
WilliesBride Posted: May 23, 2007 10:24 AM+
WilliesBride MEMBER SINCE: 3/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1895 WEDDING DATE: Oct 27, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:24 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

I feel your pain........It seems like you are telling my story too......I just really stay as far way as possible at all times. It's hard to deal with but I have come to realize that nothing I do is going to please her not matter how hard I try........so I know it sounds horrible but really........why even try!!!!

I am sorry for what you are going though but know that you are not alone by any means.....
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
PurpleGrl156 Posted: May 23, 2007 10:47 AM+
PurpleGrl156 MEMBER SINCE: 3/06 TOTAL POSTS : 266 WEDDING DATE: May 27, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:47 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

What a nasty FMIL you have there. I feel for ya girl - it s*cks when people, esp FH's Family, can't be happy for you at this awesome time in your life; it's only cause they are miserable - Don't let her get you down. So sorry that you are dealing with this!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
MF9282 Posted: May 23, 2007 10:52 AM+
MF9282 MEMBER SINCE: 8/06 TOTAL POSTS : 2596 WEDDING DATE: Oct 26, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:52 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

She is a miserable woman and that is that. What does FH say about this? It's hard to ignore wha people say about wedding details since they are so important but it seems to me she just wants to be down right mean so try not to let her rain on your parade. Someone needs to have a long chat with her and put her in her place!!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
JennysMOH Posted: May 23, 2007 11:08 AM+
JennysMOH MEMBER SINCE: 5/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1162 WEDDING DATE: Jul 28, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 11:08 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

Oh my God, what a horrible woman.

You have to be strong and make sure FH is strong against her as well. If she brings up about putting extra guests on the list tell her that the money that you, FH and your parents have allocated for the receiption has reached its limit. Neither of you can afford to put in more money for more guests, that is unless she wants to give you money. If she says yeah sure make sure you have the money in hand prior to sending out extra invitations.

And with regards to ruining Thanksgiving, how are you doing that???? Its the day after. Don't pay attention to her she's probably pissed that someone has won her baby boy's heart.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
brady37 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:22 AM+
brady37 MEMBER SINCE: 10/06 TOTAL POSTS : 796 WEDDING DATE: Aug 02, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 11:22 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

I totally feel your pain!!!!! FMILs can be horrible! But at the end of the day, it's your wedding and if they are not helping you pay for it then they don't have a right to give you a big guest list! She sounds like she's the type of person that you can't even talk to, so I don't know what advise to give you about that! All I can say is once you are married you have every right to open your mouth to her... you will be starting your own family and she needs to mind her own!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Shorty McBride Posted: May 23, 2007 11:25 AM+
Shorty McBride MEMBER SINCE: 4/05 TOTAL POSTS : 12785 WEDDING DATE: Nov 23, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 11:25 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

Thanks ladies

I can't believe I even vented about this last night....some things will just never change, and this is one of them.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
GinaBambina08 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:36 AM+
GinaBambina08 MEMBER SINCE: 9/06 TOTAL POSTS : 8291 WEDDING DATE: Dec 20, 2008
Posted: May 23, 2007 11:36 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

OMG! MIL from hell...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
medic6809 Posted: May 23, 2007 09:10 PM+
medic6809 MEMBER SINCE: 5/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1300 WEDDING DATE: Jun 01, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 09:10 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

My advice...


Get a bowl, fill it with water, let it sit outside for 1 day, say a prayer over the bowl, and then you see her next throw the water on her......If she screams then you know she's the devil

Just ignore her, this is your wedding and her son is going to marry you. She will have to atleast ack it sometime. I'm sorry
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
B22 Posted: May 23, 2007 09:15 PM+
B22 MEMBER SINCE: 2/07 TOTAL POSTS : 4156 WEDDING DATE: Feb 14, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 09:15 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

**** that *****... lol
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
luvabul Posted: May 23, 2007 09:23 PM+
luvabul MEMBER SINCE: 7/06 TOTAL POSTS : 7191 WEDDING DATE: Jul 04, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 09:23 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

sounds like my FMIL
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
sugarkube4 Posted: May 23, 2007 09:56 PM+
sugarkube4 MEMBER SINCE: 2/06 TOTAL POSTS : 10395 WEDDING DATE: Apr 29, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 09:56 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

Can someone say MONSTER IN LAW????

Jeez Nic.. what a witch.. At least she talks to you.. FH's mother didn't even have the balls to RSVP to my shower and we did NOT invite her to the wedding..

Some people can just s*ck!!!!!!

For You!!!!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Dee606 Posted: May 23, 2007 10:24 PM+
Dee606 MEMBER SINCE: 7/06 TOTAL POSTS : 4371 WEDDING DATE: Sep 29, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:24 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

omg! I am speechless.....
I feel for you.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Bella77 Posted: May 23, 2007 10:40 PM+
Bella77 MEMBER SINCE: 3/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2735 WEDDING DATE: May 02, 2008
Posted: May 23, 2007 10:40 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.


Posted by carolinep24

**** that *****... lol



my thoughts exactly!

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
HamptonsBride Posted: May 23, 2007 11:20 PM+
HamptonsBride MEMBER SINCE: 2/06 TOTAL POSTS : 6716 WEDDING DATE: Jun 08, 2007
Posted: May 23, 2007 11:20 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

yikes!!! Sounds like she was spawn from the same seed as my friend's MIL...a woman who walked her daughter down the aisle wearing pants....socks with sandals & a shirt...after not letting her Ex walk the bride down the aisle...oh and the whole time wearing this sour puss...i swear i wanted to beat her!!! Beatings can be arranged!!! good luck...try and focus on how much you love FH and stay positive!!!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
marymoon Posted: May 27, 2007 08:59 AM+
marymoon MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 12220 WEDDING DATE: Jun 19, 2010
Posted: May 27, 2007 08:59 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

I can't believe her. She is pure evil and insanity.

I don't think you can chang her. The only thing you cvan do is to try not to let it get to you. If she wants to sh*t on everything, why include her? DOn't tell her about anything you pick our or plan, and tell your sister and mom to do the same.

I'm so sorry. I feel you. I have the evvvvil in-laws too
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
JassyandOscar Posted: May 27, 2007 09:03 AM+
JassyandOscar MEMBER SINCE: 7/06 TOTAL POSTS : 1486 WEDDING DATE: Sep 03, 2007
Posted: May 27, 2007 09:03 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I say left, she says right. Front? Back. Round? Square.

Wow!!!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
No Posts Found With Your Match.
  • Chat With Local Long Island Brides
  • Chat With Local Brides
  • Dortoni Bakery-Dortoni Bakery
  • Heritage Club at Bethpage-Heritage Club at Bethpage
  • Limousines-
 
Welcome New Vendors
X
X
X
X
Email to Friend
X
Submit a Report