Re: Ladies, please stop the fighting. Especially on a day like today!

agreed

Re: Ladies, please stop the fighting. Especially on a day like today!

I SAID THE EXACT SAME THING!!! we should be putting all of energy in rememberance of 9/11 and the THOUSANDS OF INNOCENT LIVES THAT WERE LOST..not this garbage..wheres my rememberance thead?

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Posted by EverlovingEv

Seriously - come on. Who cares at this point? We all have different opinons, just let it go.

Let's remember what today represents and forget this nonsense.

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I am bumping this post...people need to read this, calm down and like you said Ev, honor and respect the memory of those Americans we lost on 9/11.

I posted this on 07, and I need people to read and think about this:
I want to tell everyone about an article I read a while back in Glamour, about 6 women who lost people in 9/11-Two of those women were brides like us, whose fiances perished in the Towers. One girl was to marry a few weeks after. She was on the phone with her FH and the phone went dead. (His body was never recovered)

Please remind yourselves that there is nothing worse than this, and tell your loved ones every day that you love them, because with life, you never know when it is the last time you will be able to. I wish everyone on here a long happy healthy life and marriage-but please don't forget 9/11 and the lessons we should learn-don't hold grudges, don't stay angry, and remind your FH/DH/DW/FW-whomever, that you love them!


Please, for one day, and if possible, for the future, think about it-do we really need to jump down someone's throat? Do we need to perpetuate intolerance and hate among our wedding community? THINK ABOUT IT

Respect each other and you will respect the memories of all of those men and women who lost their life on this very day 6 years ago-the enemy is the terrorists who hate us, not each other! Even if we are a small population of all Americans, perpetuating hate and venom only makes the terrorist's job easier and says that all of those who died did so in vain.

One last observation everyone should think about before making another hurtful post-it is sad that there are more responses and pages of responses to drama related posts than to those posts meant to remember 9/11

I ask that everyone thinks and let bygones by bygones

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wow! very well said!!!!!!!!!!! and agreed..i made a rememberance post that is now on page 5 and probably had far less posts that the 'drama' one..thats so sad..

Re: Ladies, please stop the fighting. Especially on a day like today!

I wasnt around for the drama today... because i purposely scheduled myself to work 10.5 hours to keep myself busy.
I acted like a fool and was silly and play fought with coworkers all day in order to avoid the raw emotion today's date brings to the surface.

I wasnt involved with the drama...but if i was on, i'm sure i would have been. For some people, it was probably a nice distraction from the hurt.

That doesnt mean i condone fighting.
Drama provides entertainment for some, I don't really understand why it bothers people, since no one is being forced to participate, but at the same time, i hate seeing my friends fight so i guess it's just unpleasant.

and happy trees with happy clouds to all of you. i hope tomorrow isnt as heated as today seems to have been.

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I wasnt around for the drama today... because i purposely scheduled myself to work 10.5 hours to keep myself busy.
I acted like a fool and was silly and play fought with coworkers all day in order to avoid the raw emotion today's date brings to the surface.

I wasnt involved with the drama...but if i was on, i'm sure i would have been. For some people, it was probably a nice distraction from the hurt.

That doesnt mean i condone fighting.
Drama provides entertainment for some, I don't really understand why it bothers people, since no one is being forced to participate, but at the same time, i hate seeing my friends fight so i guess it's just unpleasant.

and happy trees with happy clouds to all of you. i hope tomorrow isnt as heated as today seems to have been.

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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Posted by bemyyoko

I wasnt around for the drama today... because i purposely scheduled myself to work 10.5 hours to keep myself busy.
I acted like a fool and was silly and play fought with coworkers all day in order to avoid the raw emotion today's date brings to the surface.

I wasnt involved with the drama...but if i was on, i'm sure i would have been. For some people, it was probably a nice distraction from the hurt.

That doesnt mean i condone fighting.
Drama provides entertainment for some, I don't really understand why it bothers people, since no one is being forced to participate, but at the same time, i hate seeing my friends fight so i guess it's just unpleasant.

and happy trees with happy clouds to all of you. i hope tomorrow isnt as heated as today seems to have been.

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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exactly-if people want to be distracted, what is wrong with wedding related posts or even jokes or silliness about random observations? Luckily, the poster who was attacking was banned!

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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thank you soo much, they both leave in 2 days, and FH is so upset to see his baby sister going to iraq, and to see people fighting about nonsense just makes me soo super upset, so I'm so thankful to those like you who are trying to get people to understand the importance of today!

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by bemyyoko

I wasnt around for the drama today... because i purposely scheduled myself to work 10.5 hours to keep myself busy.
I acted like a fool and was silly and play fought with coworkers all day in order to avoid the raw emotion today's date brings to the surface.

I wasnt involved with the drama...but if i was on, i'm sure i would have been. For some people, it was probably a nice distraction from the hurt.

That doesnt mean i condone fighting.
Drama provides entertainment for some, I don't really understand why it bothers people, since no one is being forced to participate, but at the same time, i hate seeing my friends fight so i guess it's just unpleasant.

and happy trees with happy clouds to all of you. i hope tomorrow isnt as heated as today seems to have been.

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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exactly-if people want to be distracted, what is wrong with wedding related posts or even jokes or silliness about random observations? Luckily, the poster who was attacking was banned!

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you're totally right, there are BETTER ways to distract yourself. i was just saying for me... i've been picking stupid fights all day b/c i'm upset about bigger things. a lot of people do that when stressed.
I doubt that's the reason for the majority of whatever was going on today, but i wouldnt doubt it played a role.

fighting is never the best solution to anything, and on days like this, silence and hugs are the better way to go rather than yelling or fighting. even on the internet.

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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thank you soo much, they both leave in 2 days, and FH is so upset to see his baby sister going to iraq, and to see people fighting about nonsense just makes me soo super upset, so I'm so thankful to those like you who are trying to get people to understand the importance of today!

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yep..we don't have to think about it every second ( i mean i agree some people just want to distract themselves) but fighting ..is that really necessary?

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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thank you soo much, they both leave in 2 days, and FH is so upset to see his baby sister going to iraq, and to see people fighting about nonsense just makes me soo super upset, so I'm so thankful to those like you who are trying to get people to understand the importance of today!

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Sorry to hear your FSIL is going to Iraq. I know how hard it is to have family over there. I pray for her safe return

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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thank you soo much, they both leave in 2 days, and FH is so upset to see his baby sister going to iraq, and to see people fighting about nonsense just makes me soo super upset, so I'm so thankful to those like you who are trying to get people to understand the importance of today!

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Sorry to hear your FSIL is going to Iraq. I know how hard it is to have family over there. I pray for her safe return

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thank you .. and I'm not sure if you meant you have family over there as well, if you do I pray for there safe return as well

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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sometimes i don't mind it either! but there are other ways to distract ourselves..like wedding related posts, jokes, etc..not FIGHTS! i just find that our troops are away fighting for our freedom..thats the only fighting i respect..especially today

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AMEN kristen!! so very well said! I pray everyday for my FSIL safe return from Iraq as well as her husband, and all those men and woman who are risking there lives everyday for all of OUR freedom!

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I pray for his safe return also..and thank him very much for defending our country!

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thank you soo much, they both leave in 2 days, and FH is so upset to see his baby sister going to iraq, and to see people fighting about nonsense just makes me soo super upset, so I'm so thankful to those like you who are trying to get people to understand the importance of today!

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Sorry to hear your FSIL is going to Iraq. I know how hard it is to have family over there. I pray for her safe return

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thank you .. and I'm not sure if you meant you have family over there as well, if you do I pray for there safe return as well

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My younger brother and thank you.

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yes i agree but......it did take out minds off the sadness so many people are feeling