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Ok since I have been stopping by here I wanted to see future brides opinions.

esb980 Posted: Dec 09, 2005 01:58 PM+

esb980 MEMBER SINCE: 7/05 TOTAL POSTS : 3149 WEDDING DATE: Jun 02, 2006

Posted: Dec 09, 2005 01:58 PM

Re: Ok since I have been stopping by here I wanted to see future brides opinions.

My last boyfriend was HORRIBLE!! We fought all the time and he truly treated me like dirt. After we broke up, one of my VERY good friends told me she 'liked' him. I found this VERY insulting!

#1 Like you said, did she NOT believe me about all the crap he did? DId she NOT see w/ her own 2 eyes how poorly he treated me?

#2 what did she want me to do? go on a double date w/ her and him? Yeah, that would be fun.

#3 Did she like him the WHOLE 4 years we were together?

So, we're not friends anymore.... I mean I don't hate her, but she crossed some line, ya know?

akaMrsT Posted: Dec 09, 2005 02:07 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2005 02:07 PM

Re: Ok since I have been stopping by here I wanted to see future brides opinions.

Posted by mable

SO as most of you know I am happily married for a month, I love my husband to death..
anyway one of my good friends decided to start dating my ex boyfriend .. there are no feelings here but he is the last guy I was w/ before my husband and she knows things about us.. A LOT!!!!
Now they want to know if I am mad or ok w/ it..
I can't stop it (plus it happened already) I just think it is WEIRD!!!!
WHat do you think, and what do you say to them about it..

First of all EEEEEeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! Just the thought of that is gross.

Second, why are they asking your opinion - they are already dating

Unless you actually care (other than thinking it's gross) tell them to go for it.

If he makes her happy then so be it....although it's still gross.

mable Posted: Dec 09, 2005 02:59 PM+

mable MEMBER SINCE: 11/04 TOTAL POSTS : 1698 WEDDING DATE: Nov 04, 2005

Posted: Dec 09, 2005 02:59 PM

Re: Ok since I have been stopping by here I wanted to see future brides opinions.

See thats what makes me think, has this been happening for a while, when did it really start stuf flike that , that I should not have to think about..
we are all adults but some things are not to be touched.. I have told them to go for it.. and regardless they are goign to do it no matter what.. they did already.. ya know..
Thanks guys.. they are making me crazy.. and now they want us to sit down and talk..
ABOUT WHAT!!!!!!! Do what you want.. GEEZE!!
No need on a Friday aftenoon, when in reality I do not care..

VogueBride Posted: Dec 09, 2005 03:01 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2005 03:01 PM

Re: Ok since I have been stopping by here I wanted to see future brides opinions.

Posted by tracy2246

I would not say anything because the dynamics have changed now-I can see why you would feel weird about it-I understand that no feelings are involved but it is kind of creepy to think that two people who know you that well now date-

I would just wish them well and enjoy your new hubby-

wonderfully put!