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mbscheer Posted: Nov 28, 2009 08:50 PM+

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Posted: Nov 28, 2009 08:50 PM

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I totally understand how you feel. My grandparents are not coming either but did not even send back the RSVP card just told my mom. Same thing as you too: no cards for anything. I know it hurts a lot but I try to remember how the people who are the closest to me will be there.

GR2010 Posted: Nov 28, 2009 08:57 PM+

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Posted: Nov 28, 2009 08:57 PM

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I am so sorry. I completely understand and would be heart broken if my grandmother didn't come to my wedding. What if you called her and asked if there was something you could do to help her get here for that day? Let her know how much it means to you.

MrsH37 Posted: Nov 28, 2009 11:26 PM+

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Posted: Nov 28, 2009 11:26 PM

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Ray8183 Posted: Nov 28, 2009 11:28 PM+

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Posted: Nov 28, 2009 11:28 PM

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BriansWifey Posted: Nov 29, 2009 12:06 AM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 12:06 AM

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aww im sorry to hear that. im sure when ure mom talks to her everything will be a little clearer why she isnt coming.

Nina1010 Posted: Nov 29, 2009 11:55 AM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 11:55 AM

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So sorry Sweetie....

SummerBride10 Posted: Nov 29, 2009 11:59 AM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 11:59 AM

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Awww Teri. I'm sorry..thats hard

cavvento Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:31 PM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:31 PM

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I know how you feel -- my grandfather, for health reasons, can't make the trip out to LI from Brooklyn and BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE LEFT AT HOME, my grandMOTHER is not coming either!!! This makes me so mad. He's not willing to discuss having an aide come to be with him so my grandmother can see me get married. I would only want her there for the ceremony part.

Your grandma may have just checked the box because it might be hard emotionally for her to articulate any further not being there. It might be bothering her as much as you. Have you had a conversation with your parents? Could they help fill in the blanks that her card has left?

Melvin1297 Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:45 PM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:45 PM

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grrulz Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:53 PM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:53 PM

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awww nooooooo i'm sorry Teri i would be feeling bad as well!! but stay strong feel better soon

T E R I Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:58 PM+

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Posted: Nov 29, 2009 09:58 PM

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Thank you all, you are all great!!!!

My mom called her and she gave alot of run around answers which we knew would be coming, so I'm just moving on with everything and focusing on the good right now and deal with these other issues latter