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nov04LIbride Posted: Aug 09, 2005 11:57 AM+
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


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Posted by Jax430
If anything, I would say it is more likely to approximate their intelligence, but I do not even think this is the case, as people frequently do not care about their grammar or spelling on the internet.



I agree with this. And not even judging from grammar or spelling, I think the content of what is written can indicate the level of intelligence.



The content? In what sense? (I'm not asking this to be obnoxious -- I'm really just wondering.)




Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.
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Beth1210 Posted: Aug 09, 2005 12:00 PM+
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

I don't think intelligence and education are the same thing

you can be intelligent w/o being highly educated

George Bush went to Yale - he's not the smartest and doesn't speak very well
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by nov04LIbride


Posted by sweetadeline


Posted by nov04LIbride


Posted by Jax430
If anything, I would say it is more likely to approximate their intelligence, but I do not even think this is the case, as people frequently do not care about their grammar or spelling on the internet.



I agree with this. And not even judging from grammar or spelling, I think the content of what is written can indicate the level of intelligence.



The content? In what sense? (I'm not asking this to be obnoxious -- I'm really just wondering.)




Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.



I agree with you in that respect, as someone who often doesn't participate in discussions unless I have a well thought out and supported response. However, I also think that the difference can be due to level of impulsivity and emotional responses. Someone may be intelligent and impulsive and respond to something that hits her emotionally with her gut reaction, while someone else may be able to control their impulses, put emotion aside and think about their response. Just another aspect to think about.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

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Beth1210 Posted: Aug 09, 2005 12:08 PM+
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

I agree- alot more goes into how a person presents themselves then where they went to school and what level of education they completed

there are definatley expections to every rule- I know 2 of them
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by nov04LIbride


Posted by sweetadeline


Posted by nov04LIbride


Posted by Jax430
If anything, I would say it is more likely to approximate their intelligence, but I do not even think this is the case, as people frequently do not care about their grammar or spelling on the internet.



I agree with this. And not even judging from grammar or spelling, I think the content of what is written can indicate the level of intelligence.



The content? In what sense? (I'm not asking this to be obnoxious -- I'm really just wondering.)




Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.



Yes, those examples make sense. Last year, during election season, some posters had clearly thought through their ideas and opinions, while others were just spouting one of the usual party lines without offering any evidence to back up their claims. I have to say that I was much more interested in the posters who offered nuanced, detailed discussion rather than knee-jerk reactions. Even if I disagreed with the political positions of these posters, I found myself respecting their intelligence.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by sweetadeline


Posted by nov04LIbride

Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.



Yes, those examples make sense. Last year, during election season, some posters had clearly thought through their ideas and opinions, while others were just spouting one of the usual party lines without offering any evidence to back up their claims. I have to say that I was much more interested in the posters who offered nuanced, detailed discussion rather than knee-jerk reactions. Even if I disagreed with the political positions of these posters, I found myself respecting their intelligence.



SweetAdeline, that was key for me as well! I'm a rabid liberal, but during election season there was a staunch republican with some really excellent and well thought out arguments and beliefs. I didn't agree with her but I absolutely respected her for not only having convictions, but taking the time really analyze them and not resorting to trite sound bites.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by MonkeyLuv


Posted by sweetadeline


Posted by nov04LIbride

Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.



Yes, those examples make sense. Last year, during election season, some posters had clearly thought through their ideas and opinions, while others were just spouting one of the usual party lines without offering any evidence to back up their claims. I have to say that I was much more interested in the posters who offered nuanced, detailed discussion rather than knee-jerk reactions. Even if I disagreed with the political positions of these posters, I found myself respecting their intelligence.



SweetAdeline, that was key for me as well! I'm a rabid liberal, but during election season there was a staunch republican with some really excellent and well thought out arguments and beliefs. I didn't agree with her but I absolutely respected her for not only having convictions, but taking the time really analyze them and not resorting to trite sound bites.



I agree with both of you here. I am not very political, and my views tend to be middle-of-the-road, leaning toward the left. However, I really enjoyed reading the well thought-out debates and discussions from both sides.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by nov04LIbride

If you read all my posts you would see that I am in a doctoral program. But I do feel that any idiot can complete a dissertation if they are really motivated. It's not that hard, it is just tedious. I think the ABDs lacked the commitment and drive, not the intelligence to complete it.



I agree with most of your posts, Beth, but here I respectfully disagree. I think a lot of it depends on the discipline of the degree and the university where one is studying. I have degrees in Education and engineering. From my own experience, I would say that it was much easier to get a PhD or an EdD in at the University where I got my masters in education than it would be to get a PhD in engineering just about at any school. This is my opinion, but also based on personal observations.

Also, I do think going to an Ivy does open up doors to people because of connections and the cache of the school. I didn't go to an Ivy for engineering, but my school is consistently ranked one of the most competitive to get into in the US and it has made a difference in getting job interviews.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by MonkeyLuv


Posted by sweetadeline


Posted by nov04LIbride

Sometimes on here we get into more serious questions, and those times I can tell who has thought out, supported ideas versus those who just say the sky is blue because everyone says it is blue. Do you know what I am saying? I also think in order to be funny you need to be intelligent--humor falls flat when many people try, especially in writing. So when I read something that really makes me laugh (with the person, not at them), I think to myself that that person must be very clever to have written that.



Yes, those examples make sense. Last year, during election season, some posters had clearly thought through their ideas and opinions, while others were just spouting one of the usual party lines without offering any evidence to back up their claims. I have to say that I was much more interested in the posters who offered nuanced, detailed discussion rather than knee-jerk reactions. Even if I disagreed with the political positions of these posters, I found myself respecting their intelligence.



SweetAdeline, that was key for me as well! I'm a rabid liberal, but during election season there was a staunch republican with some really excellent and well thought out arguments and beliefs. I didn't agree with her but I absolutely respected her for not only having convictions, but taking the time really analyze them and not resorting to trite sound bites.



Word -- we're probably thinking of the same person!
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by Annieb

Another explanation for the detailed response with factual support is the time and energy of the poster. I can see simply wanting to give your opinion without having the time or the desire to go into a diatribe as to why you feel that way.



That's definitely a good point, but I also think that there are some issues deserving of a well-thought-out response rather than just a quick emoticon or remark.
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Beth1210 Posted: Aug 09, 2005 12:29 PM+
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

Not sure what exactly you are directing at me

but then again I went to state schools- so in your opinion I am no where near as smart as you

Personally I could care less where a person went to school or what degree they have- it's meaningless to me- it does not equate happiness, success, or anything else in my opinion

In fact I went to FIT- and I got a job with a top retailer right out of school- right along side people who went to Ivy's and private schools- of everyone in my training class, I was promoted first and hold the highest position to this day

It doesn't matter where I went to school- or what degree I have, I speak well, I present myself well- and that goes just as far as education- if not further
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nov04LIbride Posted: Aug 09, 2005 12:31 PM+
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by dpli


Posted by nov04LIbride

If you read all my posts you would see that I am in a doctoral program. But I do feel that any idiot can complete a dissertation if they are really motivated. It's not that hard, it is just tedious. I think the ABDs lacked the commitment and drive, not the intelligence to complete it.



I agree with most of your posts, Beth, but here I respectfully disagree. I think a lot of it depends on the discipline of the degree and the university where one is studying. I have degrees in Education and engineering. From my own experience, I would say that it was much easier to get a PhD or an EdD in at the University where I got my masters in education than it would be to get a PhD in engineering just about at any school. This is my opinion, but also based on personal observations.

Also, I do think going to an Ivy does open up doors to people because of connections and the cache of the school. I didn't go to an Ivy for engineering, but my school is consistently ranked one of the most competitive to get into in the US and it has made a difference in getting job interviews.



I hear what you're saying. I think if the goal is just to have a doctorate, not minding what discipline or school, almost anyone could get into a program. Whether or not they do the work to get out is another story. My ex from college is getting his PhD in engineering at Stanford now and I know he is working much harder than I am on mine. He is making nanobots to perform surgery, and my research, while original, is more running numbers and writing results.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by Beth1210

Not sure what exactly you are directing at me

but then again I went to state schools- so in your opinion I am no where near as smart as you

Personally I could care less where a person went to school or what degree they have- it's meaningless to me- it does not equate happiness, success, or anything else in my opinion

In fact I went to FIT- and I got a job with a top retailer right out of school- right along side people who went to Ivy's and private schools- of everyone in my training class, I was promoted first and hold the highest position to this day

It doesn't matter where I went to school- or what degree I have, I speak well, I present myself well- and that goes just as far as education- if not further



Nothing was directed at you - I was quoting Nov04LIbride, who is also named Beth

And for the record, I agree with you, I don't think it matters where you went to school, it is what you do after you get out that matters. I also don't think someone going to a state school is less intelligent than someone else. But what you said sort of reinforced my point. FIT is probably very well respected in your field, perhaps more so than an Ivy education, and may have opened doors for you because you went there - in addition to you being a smart, articulate person.

Edited for spelling
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by dpli


Posted by Beth1210

Not sure what exactly you are directing at me

but then again I went to state schools- so in your opinion I am no where near as smart as you

Personally I could care less where a person went to school or what degree they have- it's meaningless to me- it does not equate happiness, success, or anything else in my opinion

In fact I went to FIT- and I got a job with a top retailer right out of school- right along side people who went to Ivy's and private schools- of everyone in my training class, I was promoted first and hold the highest position to this day

It doesn't matter where I went to school- or what degree I have, I speak well, I present myself well- and that goes just as far as education- if not further



Nothing was directed at you - I was quoting Nov04LIbride, who is also named Beth

And for the record, I agree with you, I don't think it matters where you went to school, it is what you do after you get out that matters. I also don't think someone going to a state school is less intelligent than someone else. But what you said sort of reinforced my point. FIT is probably very well respected in your field, perhaps more so than an Ivy education, and may have opened doors for you because you went there - in addition to you being a smart, articulate person.

Edited for spelling



LOL it's true, I am Beth too.
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by nov04LIbride

My ex from college is getting his PhD in engineering at Stanford now and I know he is working much harder than I am on mine. He is making nanobots to perform surgery, and my research, while original, is more running numbers and writing results.



nanobots!
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

oh- no wonder why I was confused- sorry
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?

wait a second......$35,000 is not that bad of a salary, is it?
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Re: Spinoff: Do you think you can tell what level of education a person has from reading their posts?


Posted by palebride

wait a second......$35,000 is not that bad of a salary, is it?



yes, because she can't even afford the minimum payment on her 10 year loan, while living at home rent-free
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