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matron Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:25 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:25 PM

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Posted by tp329

Does your DH know you about any of this?

Of course. DH knows everything. He feels bad for the guy (reminds him of his BF) but thinks on Monday that I should go home regardless of how much he asks me out bc he's making me uncomfortable. He said that if I was in the wife's shoes, I'd be PISSED, and I would be! He trusts me though, and was so happy that I found a job that I had fun at and made friends at. Oh well.

matron Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:26 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:26 PM

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DH actually met me at work for lunch the other day and I pointed my boss out to him. My boss was upset I didn't introduce them.

marymoon Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:30 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:30 PM

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Posted by matron

DH actually met me at work for lunch the other day and I pointed my boss out to him. My boss was upset I didn't introduce them.

That doens't amke the guy innocent.

You remind me of me. I always try to think the best of people and be there for them, and I swear I could see myself in the same situation, but I think you need to cut down contact with this guy. Once in awhile is ok, but you have to ask yourself if you're with him more than you would be with any other normal co-worker. He seems to dependent. And he got u[set about inviting that otehr guy..sooo...You know the answer.

matron Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:34 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:34 PM

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I guess you're all right. My sister is married with 2 kids at home and her DH works two jobs. I told her the story and she lectured me for 2 hours about how stupid I was. I figured I'd come on here to see if I got the same response (bc I thought she was blowing it out of proportion) but I guess she wasn't. Monday is going to be weird.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:34 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:34 PM

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Posted by marymoon

Posted by matron

DH actually met me at work for lunch the other day and I pointed my boss out to him. My boss was upset I didn't introduce them.

That doens't amke the guy innocent.

You remind me of me. I always try to think the best of people and be there for them, and I swear I could see myself in the same situation, but I think you need to cut down contact with this guy. Once in awhile is ok, but you have to ask yourself if you're with him more than you would be with any other normal co-worker. He seems to dependent. And he got u[set about inviting that otehr guy..sooo...You know the answer.

You remind me of me too! I guess all 3 of us should have 'SUCKA' stamped on our heads

matron Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:36 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:36 PM

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You remind me of me too! I guess all 3 of us should have 'SUCKA' stamped on our heads

Totally! Thanks for the laugh. I needed that. It also helps to know that I'm not the only one that feels this way.

marymoon Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:39 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 08:39 PM

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You are definitely not theonly one!

palebride Posted: Oct 08, 2004 11:47 PM+

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Posted: Oct 08, 2004 11:47 PM

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i think he sounds liek trouble!
but i think it sounds like you're a good person who sees the good in people, and is disappointed when they turn out to be creeps.....not necessarily a bad thing though! you have a positive outlook and you love life and people!!! don't lose that!

but this guy seems like he'd be willing to take advantage of your kindess!
plese be careful!!