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Posted by wifey08

as i posted yesterday i was goin for blood test and everything to see if i was preg...well i just got back ..they had me do the urine one first even though i just wanted a blood test the second line kinda appeared or somethin i heard her talkin with the other lady so they wanted me to do the blood test anyway...ill find out for sure mon!!!


they just called its negative ...im kinda sad but its better cause we wanted to wait till after the wedding to have kids anyway. thank you girls for all ur responses....im still worried why i didnt get my period yet gonna get that checked out ...my FH is like do you think the blood test was wrong? like it didnt show yet he was all excited in a way to have one to

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sorry youre a little disappointed that youre not but dont worry soon enough it will happen...Better to concentrate on the wedding now and then after you can focus all your attention on this.

Its actually pretty normal to not get your period here and there...It used to happen to me once a year, your body is just regulating itself. Also differences in your lifestyle can cause this and also stress.

BUT if this happens for a long period of time where youll get it then be late again next month and continues to long then go to a doctor...I had this happen to me for 8 months...my doctor said anything more than 2 months of an irregular period is not good and i had to get a bunch of tests done

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I'm sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for, but I think it'll all work out for the best. And hey, this makes you know now how MUCH you and your FH want a baby. A lot of couples are pretty unsure when they first get married how long they want to wait - it's great that you two know that you're on the same page and both want kids right away.

Please do go get checked out though about missing your period - it's probably nothing, but you have to make sure.

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thank girls...im gonna wait another week to see if i do get my period and if not im going to get checked out.

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Posted by DavaDay

I'm sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for, but I think it'll all work out for the best. And hey, this makes you know now how MUCH you and your FH want a baby. A lot of couples are pretty unsure when they first get married how long they want to wait - it's great that you two know that you're on the same page and both want kids right away.

Please do go get checked out though about missing your period - it's probably nothing, but you have to make sure.

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it kinda is wat we were hopin for we really wanted to wait till AFTER the weddin so we had our own place ...we werent tryin to have one now but if it happened it happened but honeymoon nite were concevin!!!!

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Posted by wifey08

thank girls...im gonna wait another week to see if i do get my period and if not im going to get checked out.

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for me it was a hormonal imbalance, but mine was off for 8 months though so probably wont be that...I would say its stress, also one thing that effects it alot is if you are having more sex than you have in a while or if you used to have alot and it slowed down

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I am sorry you didnt receive the results you thought you wanted...

but look on the bright side..when you finally do get pregnant you will know just how much more excited you will be cause by then you will know you are married have your own place to raise a baby and not that it wouldnt have been great now...but maybe this is showing you that it was meant to be for oyu to concentrate on you and Fh right now and the wedding and then after that you will have such a wonderful time concentrating on getting pregnant, being pregnant and then raising a little or

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aww..sorry you're disappointed..but you're lucky to have a FH that's so supportive and excited to start a family with you! i'm sure there will be some news from you coming our way soon enough

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Sorry that you got your hopes up! But I guess less stress the better during the wedding planning

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It might just be stress. Planning a wedding is insane, we all know that. :) I actually threw myself off by a week this month. FH and I were nervous I might be pregnant but then I got it. We were relieved but we were actually disappointed. So I kinda know how you feel. And i'll tell you what he said to me 'I'm happy you're not, but i'm kinda sad too. This just proves to me that I know I'm with the right woman and that I cannot wait to start a family with you.'
So, it's weird, but that feeling of disappointment just lets you know that this is it, this is the guy your babies will call Daddy. :) But even still, definitely get checked out if you're still late.

I wish you all the best!!!
Jesi

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every thing happens for a reason....and exactly when it is meant to happen...maybe this is a blessing in disguise...god luck with the results...I can't wait to hear...