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nferrandi Posted: Jan 20, 2005 11:47 PM+

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Posted: Jan 20, 2005 11:47 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by june262004

Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.

Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?

Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.

june262004 Posted: Jan 21, 2005 12:08 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2005 12:08 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by june262004

Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.

Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?

Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.

Thats kind of what I was thinking. I might have to invest in this Thanks.

Melissa Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:04 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:04 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Thanks girls... My DH and I have used lotions, I just didn't consider it as outside stimulation. They don't do much for us though. We were just thinking of doing something 'different'. I can't believe it took us over 11.5 years to say it to one another. I mean I am a shy person, but I just thought, 'What the hell!'

Janice Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:12 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:12 AM

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Melissa seriously role play!! set up a parlor, and use the oils. um and if you are toyless, do yourself a favor and get one, even for downtime.

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:53 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2005 10:53 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

ummm...I don't know how to say this without sounding pornographic ----->How about a cock ring?

Kate Posted: Jan 22, 2005 12:10 AM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 12:10 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by june262004

Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.

Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?

Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.

ok Nicole one more question...
Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!

nferrandi Posted: Jan 22, 2005 12:20 AM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 12:20 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by Kate

ok Nicole one more question...
Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!

I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol

J/K (well kind of)

june262004 Posted: Jan 22, 2005 01:42 AM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 01:42 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by Kate

ok Nicole one more question...
Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!

I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:27 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by oct.2004bride

i think that really depends on how open your husband is....
there are MANY things out there

and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!

RedHead Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:36 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:36 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by MrsK-in-June05

Posted by oct.2004bride

i think that really depends on how open your husband is....
there are MANY things out there

and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!

not in the bedroom

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:46 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 09:46 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by oct.2004bride

Posted by MrsK-in-June05

Posted by oct.2004bride

i think that really depends on how open your husband is....
there are MANY things out there

and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!

not in the bedroom

*dials therapist*

RedHead Posted: Jan 22, 2005 10:07 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 10:07 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by MrsK-in-June05

Posted by oct.2004bride

Posted by MrsK-in-June05

Posted by oct.2004bride

i think that really depends on how open your husband is....
there are MANY things out there

and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!

not in the bedroom

*dials therapist*

Emma2-22 Posted: Jan 22, 2005 11:28 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 11:28 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself
check out the Fleshlight

Butterflybride Posted: Jan 22, 2005 11:46 PM+

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Posted: Jan 22, 2005 11:46 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by Emma2-22

if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself
check out the Fleshlight

Interesting....I'd be a little afraid of DH using that too much when I'm not around. If we were to get a toy I'd rather it be something we'd both get satisfaction out of.

Imagin916 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 04:12 AM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 04:12 AM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by Emma2-22

if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself
check out the Fleshlight

If you go on this link and go to womens toys, check out 'Mr. Limpy'

Kate Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:03 PM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:03 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by june262004

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by Kate

ok Nicole one more question...
Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!

I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)

Kristin, I think next time you are at work you should imagine all the shoppers with bullets in their knickers... would make for an interesting shift!

june262004 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:05 PM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:05 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by Kate

Posted by june262004

Posted by nferrandi

Posted by Kate

ok Nicole one more question...
Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!

I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)

Kristin, I think next time you are at work you should imagine all the shoppers with bullets in their knickers... would make for an interesting shift!

OMG now Im going to have BAD visions at work

june262004 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:07 PM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 02:07 PM

Re: VERY personal sex question...

Posted by Imagin916

Posted by Emma2-22

if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself
check out the Fleshlight

If you go on this link and go to womens toys, check out 'Mr. Limpy'

Adrianna Posted: Jan 23, 2005 05:00 PM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 05:00 PM

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I would recommend blindfolds. Its not outside stimulation but, when you loose one of your senses your other ones become stronger and it can be very exciting not knowing were you will be touched next and if you are doing the touching it fun to tease your spouse. As far as outside stimulation I would suggest a good vibrator for you. Whether he uses it on you or you use it on yourself while he watches, it will definitly turn him on maybe a card sex came that you guys play together to try new positions and different places in the home. Have fun!

marymoon Posted: Jan 23, 2005 06:05 PM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2005 06:05 PM

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I keep going to bridal shows and seeing these ads for 'Slumber parties' they bruing all of this stuff and show it to you and EXPLAIN things and explain how to use it. I'd love to do that, but my friends would be too shy, probably..I think it would be a good way to learn about a lot of new stuff