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what color tux/vest?

GsCM4EVA Posted: Oct 26, 2005 03:51 PM+

GsCM4EVA MEMBER SINCE: 2/05 TOTAL POSTS : 2837 WEDDING DATE: Jul 13, 2006

Posted: Oct 26, 2005 03:51 PM

Re: Groomsmen Question w/Poll

Posted by mtdr1106

oh well.....sorry girl....but what's done is done now. and you know what - be thankful. your last arguement was that his sister would not care - which is obviously wrong - otherwise she wouldn't have invited herself and her BF into the BP. so its better than you or FH approaching her saying - 'do you think he will really care?'

it is what it is - and sometimes you have to do things for family.....they are your family now...

oh....and give ginzaloon a break - he got cornered and probably didn't know what to do.

so sorry....

ginzalooon always gets cornered w/his family...its ridiculous....i'm just so upset, i almost just cried at work, LOL.

i'm just stressed w/work, pickin DJ/photo...EVERTHING

what i would love is if he suddenly had to 'work' that night...

mtdr1106 Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:06 PM+

mtdr1106 MEMBER SINCE: 7/05 TOTAL POSTS : 4443 WEDDING DATE: Nov 11, 2006

Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:06 PM

Re: Groomsmen Question w/Poll

Posted by JeanineHubert

Posted by mtdr1106

oh well.....sorry girl....but what's done is done now. and you know what - be thankful. your last arguement was that his sister would not care - which is obviously wrong - otherwise she wouldn't have invited herself and her BF into the BP. so its better than you or FH approaching her saying - 'do you think he will really care?'

it is what it is - and sometimes you have to do things for family.....they are your family now...

oh....and give ginzaloon a break - he got cornered and probably didn't know what to do.

so sorry....

ginzalooon always gets cornered w/his family...its ridiculous....i'm just so upset, i almost just cried at work, LOL.
i'm just stressed w/work, pickin DJ/photo...EVERTHING

what i would love is if he suddenly had to 'work' that night...

i know - it totally $ucks - but i think that this jerky bird psuedo BIL is probably the least of your worries. Its ok to get upset - but unfortunately what is done is done...

i think you are just super stressed.....just book duet already and get your photographer out of the way....you will feel so much better...

N.Y.bride Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:09 PM+

N.Y.bride MEMBER SINCE: 3/05 TOTAL POSTS : 7207 WEDDING DATE: Jul 28, 2005

Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:09 PM

Re: Groomsmen Question w/Poll

No way! This is your WEDDING! Not just a party or anything. Its one of the most important days of your life and if you dont want him in the bridal party - then NO WAY! Dont do it just because you feel bad or because the other boyfriends are in it. Trust me if its one thing I learned the hard way, ask only the people who you REALLY want to be in it.

mka06 Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:12 PM+

mka06 MEMBER SINCE: 7/05 TOTAL POSTS : 1171 WEDDING DATE: Jun 24, 2006

Posted: Oct 26, 2005 05:12 PM

Re: Groomsmen Question w/Poll

Don't invite someone you don't want and who doesn't make an effort for family to be in your wedding!

I was the girlfriend to get asked 5 years ago... the gf of my ex. We'd been together over 5 years and everybody thought it ws a given we'd end up married. Didn't happen. I love ex's bro and sis-in-law, but haven't seen them in years because of breakup issues. I'm sure at this point they regret having me in it.... And, I don't blame them if they feel that way!

julybride06 Posted: Oct 27, 2005 07:03 PM+

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Posted: Oct 27, 2005 07:03 PM