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Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
MayWeddingGrl
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 05:06 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 05:06 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
it doesn't matter what neckline you have as long as the colors on the dresses match. when I was a BM for one of my friends, she had the MOH wear a different style, but the color and material was from the same designer and it looked great, plus gave the MOH more distinction.
MelissaH43
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:13 PM+

MelissaH43
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Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:13 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
No... it's actually nice to differentiate you MOH from the other girls. My BMs are wearing strapless and my MOH is wearing a tank... very similiar to what you want, but T length!They love it!
Summer07Bride
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:49 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:49 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I think that is fine
alissa5517
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:52 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 06:52 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
They will look great!
MyLobster
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:01 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:01 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I think it looks great!
OrangeGrl
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:11 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:11 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
Posted by cammolax23
i dont mind the different necklines at all- in fact it makes her stand out more as a MOH...
As your MOH she should stand out a little but...I think its fine
Jackie012100
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:16 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 07:16 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
no way!!! all my bms are wearing a different neckline
wundmoretime
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 11:42 PM+

wundmoretime
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Posted: Jan 22, 2008 11:42 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I just read an article the other day that said no 2 women will fit into the same dress and both look really good. My sister picked her color scheme and the BM pick their own dresses. I wanted the BM to have all the same, but I am worried because they are all different sizes and shapes.
NYCGirl2008
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 11:50 PM+

Posted: Jan 22, 2008 11:50 PM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I am lucky that all my bridesmaids are gorgeous gals, all slim too, hey they make me look bad LOL! The only difference is in chest size which is critical for the halter I wanted them to wear.
LongDistanceFiance
Posted: Jan 23, 2008 12:01 AM+

Posted: Jan 23, 2008 12:01 AM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
All of my BMs wore different dresses in the same color. It looked nice because they're all different sizes and they all smiled more because they were wearing something they were comfortable in...plus it made them complain about having to get a dress less, so bonuses all around!But if you only want one different one, it's good that its the MOH so she stands out as the second most important girl in the room.
MrsS4
Posted: Jan 23, 2008 12:57 AM+

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Posted: Jan 23, 2008 12:57 AM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
the different necklines-- is a better idea anyway-- the MOH manyy times looks different then the rest of the girls--
SummerBride10
Posted: Jan 23, 2008 10:56 AM+

Posted: Jan 23, 2008 10:56 AM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I have the same problem!! I don't think a different neckline is a big deal at all. You want to make sure your girls are wearing something that flatters them or they won't be comfortable
NYCGirl2008
Posted: Jan 24, 2008 02:36 AM+

Posted: Jan 24, 2008 02:36 AM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
So I asked her tonight and she says though she likes the halter better she doesn't want to stand out and have people wonder why she is wearing a different gown (she looks fab in both gowns anyway). So I think I will have her just with different flowers. I think she is worried people will think she is preg or something.
MrsD71208
Posted: Jan 24, 2008 06:51 AM+

Posted: Jan 24, 2008 06:51 AM
Re: Would it be strange to get two different dresses for my BMs with different necklines???
I think that the cut of the dress is the same so both necklines would go well since the rest of the dress compliments one another....great choice!Welcome New Vendors
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