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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by VickiR510

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

Forgive me for perpetuating the drama but I must say something at this point.

I don't know exactly what happened, but can infer that an email was sent between a group of friends in which the rest of us were referred to as kiss a sses and herbs. Somehow, this email was placed in the hands of someone who has enough character to show Allegra and/or Cindy, unless it was an accident because I thought Cindy was also part of this circle of friends. Anyway, here it is out in the open.

I also find it absolutely hilarious that once again this same group of girls is involved in another 'scandal' in which they talk so poorly about other women. Have you nothing better to do? The only difference is now one of your 'friends' that you used to gossip with on your fabulous DFZ board() is now being talked about. How pathetic is that?! You would think that you would have learned the first time that these things always get out and people always find out about the nasty things you say. And I hate to say it, but I vaguely remember the same defense being used that 'I didn't say it...they did' last time...I would think that such strong, independent and good willed women wouldn't even choose to associate with such fake and pathetic people. I suppose I am wrong.

For the rest of us, I am excited to hang out with herbs and kiss a sses. I would much ratehr spend my time with herbs and kiss a sses than fake and down right mean women.

See you at TWOTY and at the luncheon!

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WRONG! The same group of girls are not involved. It involves people that were never involved in the origional drama that once again i was not apart of but grouped in. So until you KNOW dont talk. Yes im pissed Lauren cause some of us didnt say anything . BUT WHATYEVER i dont have to prove anything to any of you,. I m just sick of this cr ap which i told Ang in an FM a few weeks ago. I cant take the baby crap. If it happens & u have no control or dont even notice how can u be the wronged one here!???? One girl was having a bad day & said something stupid & she will now forever be apart of something that was so heinous. Get over it cause lets face it we all have bad days & say things we dont mean. And dont say it has never happened to any of u. So STOP

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Sorry you wre 'grouped' in this again however last tiem you DID say things (which I read with my eyes, so I KNOW) and I inferred that you were involved this time too. Perhaps you didnt say anythign but clearly you hvae some sort of involvement since you are trying to defend the poor woman who was having a bad day. I dont talk badly about you or those who might also have been involved, i couldnt care less. I actually thought you were pretty cool.

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Really what was that Lauren?? I know what i said & that person for sure knew how i felt.But i never said anything about anyones weight or looks or last names thats what your luncheon head siad not me. Im not the type to talk behind anyones back. Never have never will cause i got enought o back it up& no prob to say it to u.

And while i have not to prove a freakin thing to u since u r interested i was CC'd only on that email. Which in my response was.... I woul dliek to go to the luncheon too & they do have great prizes. B im there with you (meaning at the luncheon). Also in a small email from Allegra she did happen to say how you all spoke about us & how we talk abotu u all at gtgs funny! Isnt that something??? hmmmj btw WE SO DONT!

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Posted by VickiR510

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by VickiR510

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

Forgive me for perpetuating the drama but I must say something at this point.

I don't know exactly what happened, but can infer that an email was sent between a group of friends in which the rest of us were referred to as kiss a sses and herbs. Somehow, this email was placed in the hands of someone who has enough character to show Allegra and/or Cindy, unless it was an accident because I thought Cindy was also part of this circle of friends. Anyway, here it is out in the open.

I also find it absolutely hilarious that once again this same group of girls is involved in another 'scandal' in which they talk so poorly about other women. Have you nothing better to do? The only difference is now one of your 'friends' that you used to gossip with on your fabulous DFZ board() is now being talked about. How pathetic is that?! You would think that you would have learned the first time that these things always get out and people always find out about the nasty things you say. And I hate to say it, but I vaguely remember the same defense being used that 'I didn't say it...they did' last time...I would think that such strong, independent and good willed women wouldn't even choose to associate with such fake and pathetic people. I suppose I am wrong.

For the rest of us, I am excited to hang out with herbs and kiss a sses. I would much ratehr spend my time with herbs and kiss a sses than fake and down right mean women.

See you at TWOTY and at the luncheon!

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WRONG! The same group of girls are not involved. It involves people that were never involved in the origional drama that once again i was not apart of but grouped in. So until you KNOW dont talk. Yes im pissed Lauren cause some of us didnt say anything . BUT WHATYEVER i dont have to prove anything to any of you,. I m just sick of this cr ap which i told Ang in an FM a few weeks ago. I cant take the baby crap. If it happens & u have no control or dont even notice how can u be the wronged one here!???? One girl was having a bad day & said something stupid & she will now forever be apart of something that was so heinous. Get over it cause lets face it we all have bad days & say things we dont mean. And dont say it has never happened to any of u. So STOP

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Sorry you wre 'grouped' in this again however last tiem you DID say things (which I read with my eyes, so I KNOW) and I inferred that you were involved this time too. Perhaps you didnt say anythign but clearly you hvae some sort of involvement since you are trying to defend the poor woman who was having a bad day. I dont talk badly about you or those who might also have been involved, i couldnt care less. I actually thought you were pretty cool.

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Really what was that Lauren?? I know what i said & that person for sure knew how i felt.But i never said anything about anyones weight or looks or last names thats what your luncheon head siad not me. Im not the type to talk behind anyones back. Never have never will cause i got enought o back it up& no prob to say it to u.

And while i have not to prove a freakin thing to u since u r interested i was CC'd only on that email. Which in my response was.... I woul dliek to go to the luncheon too & they do have great prizes. B im there with you (meaning at the luncheon). Also in a small email from Allegra she did happen to say how you all spoke about us & how we talk abotu u all at gtgs funny! Isnt that something??? hmmmj btw WE SO DONT!

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Thanks for your response and glad you clarified. And yes, we spoke about the DFZ board at gtgs because of how pathetic it was. I never once would waste time bad mouthing each individual person or the way you look especially since most of you have been nice to me at times making it unclear as to what you actualy feel about me. I agree, these things are childish and pathetic. Im done. off to the TWOTY rhearsal dinner! have a nice night

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whats a dfz board??

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Look lets drop it!!!!!!!!!!!!! The past is the past....life is too short to have to even go back and forth over stuff like this. We are going to have a great luncheon and whoever will be attending will have a great time.

Woosaw everyone, LOL!

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Posted by KerriJohnS

whats a dfz board??

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ok ladies get the popcorn out for this one.....

A long time ago there were these other girls on these boards. So we all (well nto all apparently they chose who they wanted to meet them which i had no idea until later) had a gtg at the movies. Afterward they said they go on this other chat board. So me & Jenn & mady & some other gilrs go on thsi board (literally wasnt even a week) when all of a sudden on this board the girls started saying it was a private board and allof this very mean & rude things were being said about some of the girls. Me Jenn & Mady for sure had no idea because they were pages way before we got there & honestly i had no idea. But i did addmitedly say one thing about a person at the time i was a bit pissy at but they knew i was cause i made it clear in a FM . I also apologized for the comment to her & spoke to her about it again recently. It wasnt anything abotu looks or weight or wedding things it was simply a statement that she pi ssed me off. Not nice tho. In any case when the girls here read all fo those pages prior obviously they got so upset. When we learned what was actually written on thos epages Jenn & I felt terrible. cause really we like everyone on here. Obviously not everyone will jive to the point of friendship but whatever we were silly brides going crazy at that point. So everyuone was really offended (rightly so of course). Anyway i was the one who really stuck around & took the lumps for what everyone else wrote and for teh one thing i wrote. Most of those girls left. Some didnt post for a very very long time & then came back. I thought i made myself clear as to teh fact that i have no problems with anyone like everyone & really am just here to help if i can. But i guess because my name was on that board for even teh slightest amoutn of time im forever grouped with them. Sad but true. lol So itake the lumps but i will never back down to anyone. I also will & would never talk about someone behind their back. ill just say it to you. Its how i am.

I hoep that was enough. lol

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hhmmm all these secret groups.

I knew of one too (with a motto of... if anyone asks just say we deleted it).
I don't get them really. I mean why post here then talk about it elsewhere? Isn't LIW enough of a time consumption? Just say it here. Are people really itching THAT badly to talk nasty crap about other people? Makes me just think they aren't happy with themselves and someone needs a life... desperately.

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Posted by KerriJohnS

hhmmm all these secret groups.

I knew of one too (with a motto of... if anyone asks just say we deleted it).
I don't get them really. I mean why post here then talk about it elsewhere? Isn't LIW enough of a time consumption? Just say it here. Are people really itching THAT badly to talk nasty crap about other people? Makes me just think they aren't happy with themselves and someone needs a life... desperately.

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Totally agree with you. Which is why i always say if you have a problem take it to where it belongs. Dont circumvent through others or something else like a chat board.

When they told us about that board we all thought it was another LIW type board. So cool hey we will go. And when we did we saw alot of the girls from LIW on there so we didnt think anything of it. Until teh shiznit hit. lol

I never heard of that delte it thing but i guess they find ways to be who they are. Not nice

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still trying to figure out what a 'herb' is... I asked DH & he told me he wishes if I was, that I would be Caynne Pepper - b/c I need to be more spicy !...lol - MEN!

OK ladies let's keep those prizes coming in!



*CINDY* what is the final cutoff date to send you the balance for the luncheon??

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Posted by Tomlaur0808

still trying to figure out what a 'herb' is... I asked DH & he told me he wishes if I was, that I would be Caynne Pepper - b/c I need to be more spicy !...lol - MEN!

OK ladies let's keep those prizes coming in!



*CINDY* what is the final cutoff date to send you the balance for the luncheon??

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Its March 1st

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Posted by Just Cindy


Its March 1st

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THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Tomlaur0808

still trying to figure out what a 'herb' is... I asked DH & he told me he wishes if I was, that I would be Caynne Pepper - b/c I need to be more spicy !...lol - MEN!

OK ladies let's keep those prizes coming in!



*CINDY* what is the final cutoff date to send you the balance for the luncheon??

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Oh my gosh Laurie, I stealing you away from your DH because you are too cute!

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Is it too late to come?

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Nope not at all
You can still mail the check to Cindy !
Hope to see you there !

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Posted by vnv126

Nope not at all
You can still mail the check to Cindy !
Hope to see you there !

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Oh Good!!! =)

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Hey Ladies I'm going to come to the luncheon!!!!! I'm so excited to finally meet all of you ladies!!! I live in holbrook and DH said he would drive so if any of you are in the area and wanna carpool I think it could be fun! Let me know!!

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bump

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Posted by KerriJohnS

hhmmm all these secret groups.

I knew of one too (with a motto of... if anyone asks just say we deleted it).
I don't get them really. I mean why post here then talk about it elsewhere? Isn't LIW enough of a time consumption? Just say it here. Are people really itching THAT badly to talk nasty crap about other people? Makes me just think they aren't happy with themselves and someone needs a life... desperately.

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That group did in fact eventually get deleted. That motto didn't work out well and the moderator deleted it.

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Am I going to be able to let you know in mid-february (or even early March) if I can make it?

Because of the distance, I won't know until much much closer still. But I want to come.

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Posted by springsandra

Am I going to be able to let you know in mid-february (or even early March) if I can make it?

Because of the distance, I won't know until much much closer still. But I want to come.

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The balance is due March 1st since I have to get them the final count the week before and pay the balance as well. If you could let me know by then and send me the check ASAP that would be great

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Posted by MrsCM

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Posted by KerriJohnS

hhmmm all these secret groups.

I knew of one too (with a motto of... if anyone asks just say we deleted it).
I don't get them really. I mean why post here then talk about it elsewhere? Isn't LIW enough of a time consumption? Just say it here. Are people really itching THAT badly to talk nasty crap about other people? Makes me just think they aren't happy with themselves and someone needs a life... desperately.

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That group did in fact eventually get deleted. That motto didn't work out well and the moderator deleted it.

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i was told that before about that group..... and it turned out to be still thriving. the problem with it.... you can never really know the truth. it was a hidden private group that you couldn't search for anyway.... how would anyone ever know if it were truly deleted or not??
truth is.... i don't care if it's still there or not. doesn't affect my life in the least bit. i dont care if its still up and running.

and i actually like most of the girls who were in it. most of the girls.

my statements were general for anyone who would start a group for that purpose.