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Hey guys--we got invited to the wedding of our ONLY non-gifter couple!

Mrs. Powell Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:45 AM+

Mrs. Powell MEMBER SINCE: 10/05 TOTAL POSTS : 3105 WEDDING DATE: Sep 04, 2005

Posted: Jan 23, 2006 10:45 AM

Re: Hey guys--we got invited to the wedding of our ONLY non-gifter couple!

Posted by Blu-ize

I'm in the minority. I would take the high road. I would go if I could and give a gift that I would normally give. If we couldn't go, then I would send a card and check as well.

Two wrongs don't make a right JMHO.

I totally agree. Sometimes you have to be the better person.

Blu-ize Posted: Jan 23, 2006 11:33 AM+

Blu-ize MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 8304 WEDDING DATE: Feb 28, 1998

Posted: Jan 23, 2006 11:33 AM

Re: Hey guys--we got invited to the wedding of our ONLY non-gifter couple!

Posted by Mrs. Powell

Posted by Blu-ize

I'm in the minority. I would take the high road. I would go if I could and give a gift that I would normally give. If we couldn't go, then I would send a card and check as well.

Two wrongs don't make a right JMHO.

I totally agree. Sometimes you have to be the better person.

The main reason I say this is that -will there be a good outcome? Will they say oh, sorry I forgot to give you a check..here let me get my check-book out..embarrasing already...why add to it.

lrs2005 Posted: Jan 23, 2006 01:01 PM+

lrs2005 MEMBER SINCE: 6/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2065 WEDDING DATE: Aug 28, 2005

Posted: Jan 23, 2006 01:01 PM

Re: Hey guys--we got invited to the wedding of our ONLY non-gifter couple!

Have you decided whether or not you will attend? I am not sure what I would do. I think I would just decline and not send a gift because I would feel way to guilty for going and not giving what I usually do.

Mrs. Powell Posted: Jan 23, 2006 01:54 PM+

Mrs. Powell MEMBER SINCE: 10/05 TOTAL POSTS : 3105 WEDDING DATE: Sep 04, 2005

Posted: Jan 23, 2006 01:54 PM

Re: Hey guys--we got invited to the wedding of our ONLY non-gifter couple!

Posted by Blu-ize

Posted by Mrs. Powell

Posted by Blu-ize

I'm in the minority. I would take the high road. I would go if I could and give a gift that I would normally give. If we couldn't go, then I would send a card and check as well.

Two wrongs don't make a right JMHO.

I totally agree. Sometimes you have to be the better person.

The main reason I say this is that -will there be a good outcome? Will they say oh, sorry I forgot to give you a check..here let me get my check-book out..embarrasing already...why add to it.

Exactly.