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Dawn5403 Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:37 PM+

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Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:37 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

I just asked FH if we are going to abstain and he said, lets start now, baby! LOL seriously, if I wanted to he would have no problem with it. I just don't think its that big a deal. I agree that the wedding night will be special no matter what.

JodiBabe Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:45 PM+

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Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:45 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

I had to abstain for 3 weeks after I had some surgery during the summer & let me tell you it SUCKED!!!!! We would never make it a month.....a week maybe but that is it!!!!

DaniRN Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:50 PM+

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Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:50 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

Go Jodi

Dawn5403 Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:52 PM+

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Posted: Jan 03, 2003 11:52 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

hey, can anyone tell me what happened to the guys view post? i responded and then it disappeared?

Crisco718 Posted: Jan 04, 2003 01:01 AM+

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Posted: Jan 04, 2003 01:01 AM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

We decided to abstain for 3 months. This started already, but we fell off the wagon. For us abstaining is only going to build up the anticipation for that night (if we can do it). We are also ttc on our honeymoon, so we want to save up all the good stuff!!!

112903 Posted: Jan 04, 2003 01:30 PM+

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Posted: Jan 04, 2003 01:30 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

I think it is a personal decision to be made by you and FI. We haven't discussed it yet

drjenn10 Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:02 PM+

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Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:02 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

No discussion needed for this topic btwn FI and I, I can see those last few weeks(months) being very stressful. Abstaining from 'relations' will make me even more stressed!! Therefore, I plan to have more relations than usual during those final weeks!!!!

What-Now Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:22 PM+

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Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:22 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

LOL! You go, DrJenn! You are going to be a great looking bride: all the after sex glow!

We will try to increase the usual dosage as well for stress reduction purposes of course!

BillysBride Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:36 PM+

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Posted: Jan 04, 2003 05:36 PM

Re: Not asking this question to be inapropriate but....

Yeah well we haven't discussed this yet but I agree w/drjenn that abstaining will probably cause us to be more stressed than usual during that time, so I guess I'll ask FI tonight what he thinks about it.

But I pretty much know what he's going to say!