i hate my dress - *sigh* updated with pics of fh in his outfit...

well my dress has arrived and from the moment they took it out of the package i hated it - i dont even like the material - now i am incredibly sad .
what makes it all worse is fh's outfit which was made for him finally arrived and it is georgeous! ( this of course makes me hate my dress even more)
i was trying to be a good frugal bride and get a low cost dress but now i am miserable - my bridesmaids think i should go with the dress i origionally wanted but it is almost 2,000
i am just frustrated what do you think i should do ?
this is the dress i origionally wanted - opinions needed pleeease

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I want to see the dress that you have also!!
But I also like the one you you originally wanted.

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You still have time to order something else. Put the one you've got on ebay!! You want to be 110% happy on your day but you won't be if you hate your dress!!
Good luck!

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I'm sorry you feel that way. Maybe it would help if we could see the dress you have now.

But for the dress you have now - try it on with shoes, makeup, veil/headpiece, etc. It might make a difference.

Good luck!


ETA - could you have your dream dress made? that may be cheaper than the $2000 price tag

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I was going to suggest the same...having that dress replicated....maybe even someone that makes costumes could design it since you're doing a theme wedding. Good Luck...the dress you're in love with is soooo gorgeous!

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I LOVE the one you posted. I know this may sound silly but, have you thought about checking out costume rental places? That dress is very Rennisance and it is poosible that you could find something to rent very similar.

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this is the dress i have now as you can see from the catalogue pic - it seems that the overlay is a solid color however from the picture of the actual dress it is little more than a total sheer . i think it makes the underskirt - which should have been soft and is actually that hard satin ( you know the kind that makes sounds when you walk) look really odd.

thanks for the suggestions i found a seamstress i am going to talk to that specialized in renaissance clothes - i will be driving to massachusettes to meet her monday

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Amy, I haven't responded to your e-mail yet. But I like both dresses alot, but if you don't like the one you have or are umcomfortable in it, you should definitely explore other options. This is your big day and we only get to do it once (or supposed to anyway ), wear a dress you LOVE!!!

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hi janine -
thanks hon - dont worry about the email - i am still here - you can always ring me if you dont have time
too bad you arent on my im - or we could chat - hee hee
hugs honey talk soon

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Good Luck!!! I hope you get something that will make your heart soar!!!

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Good luck.

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thanks gals you are just great - have made me feel alot better about this - now i dont feel like i am being horrible for not liking the dress
what would i do without you ?

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You HAVE to do what makes your heart happy!

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you defiantely should do what makes you happy...

wedding dresses are so difficult, some look some look better on the rack, some look better on the person..

maybe you can have the dress specifically made to the way you want it?

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I think you need to be happy about your dress. I also know how it feels to have a budget. The dress you like is gorgeous. See if you can have one like it made for less or call around and see if you can the dress cheaper (netbride, calling around, etc...) You have plenty of time. I just ordered my dress and my wedding is 2 months before yours. Good luck!!

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You still have time...get the dress you want, you need to be happy on your day!

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U have to do what makes u happy. U don't want have any regrets about that day.

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Both dresses are nice but go with the one that you love- you don't want to have any regrets about that day

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I love the picture of your first dress, but soemtoiesm things don't look the same in person. The $$$$ drss is gorgeous too. I've heard of a lot of people not being happy with their dress. Usually alterations can help, but if its the material you don't like, then you might be better trying to get a dress made.

Wow- massachusetts- I'm surprised there isn't someone around here.

good luck- don't settle.

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I agree with the others -- you HAVE to be happy and feel beautiful in your gown!!! I also had the problem that the gown I wanted was way over budget... I HAD to go for it anyway!

Anyway... I really think you should continue to shop around... I can tell the look you are going for so... did you like any of these gowns?

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wow who makes that last dress - it is beautiful
can yopu post who makes all those pleeeeeeease
thanks for the suggestions -

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David's has a dress or two like that too - they're also good for frugality.

GOOD LUCK!

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#1 - Anjolique Style Code: 330

#2 - Bridalane Style Code: 530 WC# 45137
Chiffon bodice and sleeves of this plus size gown are embellished with metallic floral inspired embroidery. Embroidery is accented with sequins. Neckline, edge of bustline and sleeves are studded with beadwork.


#3 - Bridal Originals Style Code: GO4OO WC# 48085
"Swarovski Crystals" accent the beaded sheer band complementing the dropped waistline of this "Poly Chiffon" over "Poly Crepe" gown with scooped neckline, poet sleeves, and a sweep train.

#4 - This one is going to be a little bit harder. I don't remember where I found the pick but I'm sure it's in one of my bookmarks so I'll keep looking....

Also try doing an advanced gown search on weddingchannel.com -- you can select all the features you want in a gown -- poet/Bell sleeves; a-line, etc. I believe the Bridal Originals are an affordable line also. Good luck!

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Hi Oakslady..

Here is a pic of my dress.. it's not totally renaissance (sp?) but I think it might be close to something like it. the sleeves give it a little bit of that renaissance flair.

It's a Paloma Blanca Diva, and I tried it on at Lillette's.

ETS: It was about $1200

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Message edited 2/28/2004 10:57:16 AM.