Anyone else doing this Sand Ceremony - as an alternative to the Unity Candle

Sand Ceremony - an alternative to the Unity Candle


If for whatever reason you choose not to use a Unity Candle during your ceremony, the sand ceremony can be a beautiful and meaningful addition to your vows. Simply find three containers, one for you and your fiance to pour the sand into, two for each of you to pour the sand from. You can find coloured or plain sand at most craft stores. After the officiant reads the text below (or any text you choose) pour the two containers of sand into the third container simultaneously. You may wish to leave a small amount of sand in each containter to symbolize that although you are now joined as one, you each remain individuals.

_______ and _______, you have just sealed your relationship by the giving and receiving of rings and the exchange of a kiss, and this covenant is a relationship pledge between two people who agree that they will commit themselves to one another throughout their lives. The most beautiful example of this partnership is the marriage relationship. You have committed here today to share the rest of your lives with each other. Today, this relationship is symbolized through the pouring of these two individual containers of sand one, representing you, _______ and all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will ever be, and the other representing you, _______, and all that you were and all that you are, and all that you will ever be. As these two containers of sand are poured into the third container, the individual containers of sand will no longer exist, but will be joined together as one. Just as these grains of sand can never be separated and poured again into the individual containers, so will your marriage be.

Re: Anyone else doing this Sand Ceremony - as an alternative to the Unity Candle

Trista and Ryan did this for their ceremony on tv. Cute but I would definitely choke on the sand blowing around.

Re: Anyone else doing this Sand Ceremony - as an alternative to the Unity Candle

I loved it when Trista & Ryan did it. If you want to be unique I would go for the sand!

Re: Anyone else doing this Sand Ceremony - as an alternative to the Unity Candle

Yes I think we are going to do this!!

Re: Anyone else doing this Sand Ceremony - as an alternative to the Unity Candle

we thought about it but might go with candles (not having a religous ceremony).... we havn't ruled it out