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Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?
julesn5 Posted: Apr 07, 2004 08:50 PM+
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Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

The same question goes for the ushers as well...the same exact brown shoes or just shoes that are brown??
If I want to have the BM were silver strappy sandles do you think they have to be the same shoe? Will it matter that much in pictures?
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julesn5 Posted: Apr 07, 2004 08:51 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

Oh no, I meant 'wear' in the title, not 'where'!!
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AUG21-04 Posted: Apr 07, 2004 08:54 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

Well for your ushers I would have them wear the same shoes in the same color. For the BM dff girls feel diff ways of just how gorgeous their feet are so I would just let them wear whatever shoe they wanted but it had to be in the exact color that you want.
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soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Apr 07, 2004 09:45 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

JMO I think all BM shoes should be the same and all GM shoes should be the same. That way when you take pics everything looks uniform. Like I said though it is JMO
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Stacey04 Posted: Apr 07, 2004 09:45 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

I think that the girls could all wear different as long as you give some direction...

Open toe..
CLosed toe...
Strappy...
color..

-PS I don't remember is you clarified any of that in your question.
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MegLehner Posted: Apr 07, 2004 10:18 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

I think BMs and GMs should wear the same shoes in the same color.
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groovypeg Posted: Apr 07, 2004 10:24 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

i think your bms should wear whatever makes them feel comfortable, but in the same color. you cant expect someone to wear 3 inch heels all night long if they are not used to it. speaking as someone who has had many foot surgeries, i would not be happy. JMHO
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prncssrachel Posted: Apr 07, 2004 10:25 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

same color only
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marymoon Posted: Apr 07, 2004 11:46 PM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

I think same color and style is fine..for my sister's wedding we just said 'open toe, low heel'. Etc...and it was fine..everyone ahd shoes they loved and were comfy in, and no one really loks at the shoes, as long as they're the smae color, they should be fine.
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Marcela1654 Posted: Apr 08, 2004 12:13 AM+
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Re: Opinions: Should BMs where the same shoes or just the same color shoes?

I told my Bms to get silver opened toed shoes. I don't want to pick a shoe for them to wear as some like high heels and some like low heels.

The GMs are all wearing the same shoes.
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