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I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

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nov2004bride
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Wedding Date:
11/5/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

My FI has no clue what time and energy is going into this wedding. He is not involved and sometimes gets me so angry!!! He thinks it's no big deal that our supposed organist has not called me back after 10 phone calls over the past couple of months. He said that he has to call us back

He just doesn't get it

Posted 6/14/04 8:33 PM
 

diamondgrlie
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Member since 2/04

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Wedding Date:
6/3/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club - A+

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

All I can say is... MEN!

Seriously though, you should talk to him and tell him how much effort you are putting into the planning and to be a little more sensitive. JMHO

Posted 6/14/04 8:35 PM
 

MRSJLK
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Member since 3/04

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Wedding Date:
5/1/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing

Message edited 6/16/2004 10:15:30 PM.

Posted 6/16/04 10:14 PM
 

Summer05
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Wedding Date:
7/21/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

men!

Posted 6/16/04 10:15 PM
 

september2004
It's An Obsession

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Wedding Date:
9/18/2004 2:00 PM

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Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

my FH just told me he can't wait til it's all over...

Posted 6/16/04 10:16 PM
 

Julestrd
Back From Tahoe

Member since 2/04

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Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

I guess I am lucky FH understands now after all my drama with my MOH. He is attempting to help out a little more now also

Posted 6/16/04 10:16 PM
 

nov2004bride
I am two!!!!!!

Member since 8/03

4659 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/5/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Flowerfield

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!


Posted by Soontobekunz

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing



Jen, didn't Chris tell you we are waiting for marriage for sex

Posted 6/16/04 10:18 PM
 

amy0405
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Wedding Date:
4/30/2005 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club :)

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Mine told me I bring the stress onto myself b.c Im making the centerpieces, menus, placecards, etc.

Posted 6/16/04 10:23 PM
 

cocoa
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Member since 1/04

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Wedding Date:
8/8/2004 12:00 PM

Wed. Location:
thatched cottage

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

that is so funny b/c my fh feels the same way. i told him that on this stress test where they give events points as to how stressful they are, getting married, moving and starting a new job are like three of the highest. he says well, getting married and moving are worth 2 points and this job is worth 50 points...i'm like, nooooo, i'm trying to tell you that all three are horrendously stressful and it is normal right now for us to be stressed!!!

Posted 6/17/04 9:27 AM
 

MRSJLK
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Member since 3/04

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Wedding Date:
5/1/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!


Posted by nov2004bride


Posted by Soontobekunz

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing



Jen, didn't Chris tell you we are waiting for marriage for sex



Oh Ya that's right - silly me

Posted 6/17/04 9:29 AM
 

kazee525
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Wedding Date:
8/28/2004 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
milleridge cottage

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

my FI seems to think the secret wedding fairy comes and takes care of everything...he came over last weekend and we addressed about 30 envelopes (out of like 125!) and i heard him telling someone we are sending the invites out this week....i was like, um, HOW do you think the rest of the envelopes are getting addressed? men have no clue how much goes on behind the scenes!!!

Posted 6/17/04 9:35 AM
 

charlotte227
Married Life is Wonderful

Member since 10/03

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Wedding Date:
8/21/2004 1:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

same her but mine smiles i want to slap him so his hid spends around and around!

Posted 6/17/04 10:17 AM
 

charlotte227
Married Life is Wonderful

Member since 10/03

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Wedding Date:
8/21/2004 1:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!


Posted by kazee525

my FI seems to think the secret wedding fairy comes and takes care of everything...he came over last weekend and we addressed about 30 envelopes (out of like 125!) and i heard him telling someone we are sending the invites out this week....i was like, um, HOW do you think the rest of the envelopes are getting addressed? men have no clue how much goes on behind the scenes!!!



where is the wedding fairy, where, where

Posted 6/17/04 10:18 AM
 

mskimmy98
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Member since 8/03

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Wedding Date:
9/19/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
The Riviera

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

make him do one task, and then he will understand what your going through.. that is what i do with my fh... Revenge!!!!

Posted 6/17/04 10:34 AM
 

james'pokey
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Wedding Date:
6/25/2005 12:00 AM

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Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Sounds like a typical man!

Posted 6/17/04 10:35 AM
 

CaCRmr
It's An Obsession

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10/23/2004 3:00 PM

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Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

MEN....Ugh!

Posted 6/17/04 10:36 AM
 
 

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