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I hate wedding planning!

dm24angel Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:04 PM+

dm24angel MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 8533 WEDDING DATE: Mar 11, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:04 PM

I hate wedding planning!

I now offically hate this..I have a ton to do as we are making a lot ( menus, invites, programs, rb pillows, fg baskets etc) on our own to save money..it's almost 7 months away and I have yet to get a dress.., or book next to anything ...I cant freaking even get anyone to go with me to try dresses on...

My Mom and I ( always my BF, ) had it out tonight in a huge fight because she doesnt seem to care at all that I am getting married and need someone to focus/help me just a little bit...

I planned on starting to get the BM's dresses this week, as I have been asking them for 4-5 months now..the people planning on going with me this week, flaked out, now I dont even care if I have no bm's...

MY FSIL cannot decide if she wants her kids in our wedding, MY BM cannot deicde if her daughter wants to be a JR bm....and she calls me like once every 3 months so who knows when she will decide...

We are getting sued by a car insurance company and are having serious money issues..

I finally after 2 1/2 hours of hysterical crying tonight over this get my Mom to go to the bridal salon with me at 8:00 tonight ...of course...THEY ARE CLOSED...

I'm two seconds from eloping...

So sorry, needed to get that out!!

julz33 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:07 PM+

julz33 MEMBER SINCE: 8/03 TOTAL POSTS : 11524 WEDDING DATE: Sep 24, 2004

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:07 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

If you need help making anything I wil have a lot of free time after September!

nan&dave Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:07 PM+

nan&dave MEMBER SINCE: 10/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2257 WEDDING DATE: Apr 02, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:07 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I'd go with you to try on dresses but I work 7 days a week.

FoxHollowbride0617 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:12 PM+

FoxHollowbride0617 MEMBER SINCE: 5/04 TOTAL POSTS : 1304 WEDDING DATE: Jun 17, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:12 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:15 PM+

MrsK-in-June05 MEMBER SINCE: 6/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2179 WEDDING DATE: Jan 02, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:15 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I will go with you to try on dresses!! I only work till 2pm. I will come over with julz and help make things, too. I am a Martha-in-training!

PS: I love Michael's and I know the Westbury store like the back of my hand!!

LadyPrincess Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:21 PM+

LadyPrincess MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 8881 WEDDING DATE: Mar 05, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:21 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I will GO WITH YOU TO TRY ON DRESSES

I am free this weekend. Let me know

Chris
aka LadyPrincess

honeybee Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:21 PM+

honeybee MEMBER SINCE: 7/04 TOTAL POSTS : 146 WEDDING DATE: Mar 05, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:21 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

hang in there! i have 6 months to plan and i've done nothing, so i'm stressing out big time too.

good luck!!!! hope you make it through in one piece. and we're always here to listen if you need to vent.

dm24angel Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:28 PM+

dm24angel MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 8533 WEDDING DATE: Mar 11, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:28 PM

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You guys made me feel so much better, I cant even tell you!!!

Summer05 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:25 PM+

Summer05 MEMBER SINCE: 5/04 TOTAL POSTS : 3789 WEDDING DATE: Jul 01, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:25 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I know how you feel I have a ton of stuff to do too! I love to go dress shopping, so let me know if you need someone to go with you

Boop2704 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:28 PM+

Boop2704 MEMBER SINCE: 3/03 TOTAL POSTS : 6048 WEDDING DATE: Feb 07, 2004

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:28 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I'm unemployed for the summer and I am very crafty, so if you need help I am here!! I miss wedding planning so I would love to help!!

nov.bride Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:41 PM+

nov.bride MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 1806 WEDDING DATE: Nov 21, 2004

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:41 PM

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Honestly, didn't we all think that this would be so much fun to plan?!? ( I know I did )

Well it's not! Hang in there......It will get better.

YOu are not alone... we are all in this together - I am noticing some days are great & productive and other days suck!

YOu are just going through a rough spot....we are here for you on those not so great days.

GoingNutty Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:43 PM+

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Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:43 PM

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hbradio Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:46 PM+

hbradio MEMBER SINCE: 11/03 TOTAL POSTS : 9836 WEDDING DATE: Apr 29, 2005

Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:46 PM

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You know I am here for you - we are TWINS!

I feel your pain. You have to just sit down, write everything you need to do down and make a schedule and stick to it. Thats what I did. Call me anal but thats the only way I would get things done. And this way I was able to tell people in advance of my plans so they could make time for me.

You will be fine if you just come on LIW and vent to us!!!!

vhollo01 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:53 PM+

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Posted: Jul 19, 2004 10:53 PM