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I hate wedding planning!

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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!

Member since 2/04

8534 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Water Mill

I hate wedding planning!

I now offically hate this..I have a ton to do as we are making a lot ( menus, invites, programs, rb pillows, fg baskets etc) on our own to save money..it's almost 7 months away and I have yet to get a dress.., or book next to anything ...I cant freaking even get anyone to go with me to try dresses on...

My Mom and I ( always my BF, ) had it out tonight in a huge fight because she doesnt seem to care at all that I am getting married and need someone to focus/help me just a little bit...

I planned on starting to get the BM's dresses this week, as I have been asking them for 4-5 months now..the people planning on going with me this week, flaked out, now I dont even care if I have no bm's...

MY FSIL cannot decide if she wants her kids in our wedding, MY BM cannot deicde if her daughter wants to be a JR bm....and she calls me like once every 3 months so who knows when she will decide...

We are getting sued by a car insurance company and are having serious money issues..

I finally after 2 1/2 hours of hysterical crying tonight over this get my Mom to go to the bridal salon with me at 8:00 tonight ...of course...THEY ARE CLOSED...

I'm two seconds from eloping...

So sorry, needed to get that out!!

Posted 7/19/04 9:04 PM
 

julz33
Board Princess

Member since 8/03

11524 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/24/2004 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse

Re: I hate wedding planning!


If you need help making anything I wil have a lot of free time after September!

Posted 7/19/04 9:07 PM
 

nan&dave
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 10/03

2258 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/2/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Bridgeview Yacht Club

Re: I hate wedding planning!


I'd go with you to try on dresses but I work 7 days a week.

Posted 7/19/04 9:07 PM
 

FoxHollowbride0617
Finally Mrs. K

Member since 5/04

1305 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/17/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Posted 7/19/04 9:12 PM
 

MrsK-in-June05
Woot I'm here

Member since 6/04

2179 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/2/2005 11:30 AM

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Re: I hate wedding planning!

I will go with you to try on dresses!! I only work till 2pm. I will come over with julz and help make things, too. I am a Martha-in-training!


PS: I love Michael's and I know the Westbury store like the back of my hand!!

Message edited 7/19/2004 9:16:08 PM.

Posted 7/19/04 9:15 PM
 

LadyPrincess
My Alpha & Omega,My Love

Member since 2/04

8881 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/5/2005 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Ariana WaterFall

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I will GO WITH YOU TO TRY ON DRESSES

I am free this weekend. Let me know




Chris
aka LadyPrincess

Posted 7/19/04 9:21 PM
 

honeybee
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Member since 7/04

146 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/5/2005 5:00 PM

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Re: I hate wedding planning!

hang in there! i have 6 months to plan and i've done nothing, so i'm stressing out big time too.

good luck!!!! hope you make it through in one piece. and we're always here to listen if you need to vent.

Posted 7/19/04 9:21 PM
 

dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!

Member since 2/04

8534 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Water Mill

Re: I hate wedding planning!


You guys made me feel so much better, I cant even tell you!!!

Posted 7/19/04 9:28 PM
 

Summer05
We're Married!!!!

Member since 5/04

3789 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/21/2005 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Watermill

Re: I hate wedding planning!


I know how you feel I have a ton of stuff to do too! I love to go dress shopping, so let me know if you need someone to go with you

Posted 7/19/04 10:25 PM
 

Boop2704
It's A Sickness!

Member since 3/03

6050 total posts

Wedding Date:
2/7/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Stuart Thomas Manor A+++++++

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I'm unemployed for the summer and I am very crafty, so if you need help I am here!! I miss wedding planning so I would love to help!!

Posted 7/19/04 10:28 PM
 

nov.bride
Life is good ;)

Member since 1/04

1806 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/21/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Honestly, didn't we all think that this would be so much fun to plan?!? ( I know I did )

Well it's not! Hang in there......It will get better.


YOu are not alone... we are all in this together - I am noticing some days are great & productive and other days suck!

YOu are just going through a rough spot....we are here for you on those not so great days.



Posted 7/19/04 10:41 PM
 

GoingNutty
A year already!!

Member since 1/04

5372 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/18/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer - AMAZING!

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Posted 7/19/04 10:43 PM
 

hbradio
Our board is gone :-(

Member since 11/03

9840 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/29/2005 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand

Re: I hate wedding planning!

You know I am here for you - we are TWINS!

I feel your pain. You have to just sit down, write everything you need to do down and make a schedule and stick to it. Thats what I did. Call me anal but thats the only way I would get things done. And this way I was able to tell people in advance of my plans so they could make time for me.

You will be fine if you just come on LIW and vent to us!!!!

Posted 7/19/04 10:46 PM
 

vhollo01
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Member since 6/04

335 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/1/2006 2:00 PM

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Re: I hate wedding planning!


Posted by julz33


If you need help making anything I wil have a lot of free time after September!





OMG julz33 you are the smartest - I have free time too - I can help also. It would be fun!!!!

Posted 7/19/04 10:53 PM
 

allure
Pisces Princess!

Member since 12/02

14374 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/16/2011 1:55 PM

Wed. Location:
********

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Keep the Faith

Posted 7/19/04 10:55 PM
 

Bebalina
HAPPY HOMEOWNER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Member since 1/04

4893 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/14/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow Country Club 10+++++++++++++++

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Posted 7/19/04 10:59 PM
 

september2004
It's An Obsession

Member since 9/03

3384 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/18/2004 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:

Re: I hate wedding planning!

i hear ya! i am at my wits end as well!

Posted 7/19/04 11:10 PM
 

Butterflybride
Loving my baby boy!!!

Member since 7/04

6745 total posts

Wedding Date:
1/15/2005 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
The Swan Club (vow renewal-5/22/05)

Re: I hate wedding planning!

I'll help too!

Posted 7/20/04 12:16 AM
 

ckgmwedding
Baby Grace is 1 year old!

Member since 6/04

4817 total posts

Wedding Date:
7/16/2005 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Merchant Marine Academy- Melville Hall A++++++++++

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Ok- I will stop whining that I have to plan from LA!

Posted 7/20/04 3:33 AM
 

LadyPrincess
My Alpha & Omega,My Love

Member since 2/04

8881 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/5/2005 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Ariana WaterFall

Re: I hate wedding planning!


Posted by ckgmwedding

Ok- I will stop whining that I have to plan from LA!





It does not feel like yr in LA.....

One of my BM is in Encino

Posted 7/20/04 5:26 AM
 

dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!

Member since 2/04

8534 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Water Mill

Re: I hate wedding planning!


I just wanted to say thanks again because I felt better today then I have in a long time , I appreciate evryone soooo much...I did get to go dress shopping today, though my decision making skills are lacking and my MOH is coming over tommorow to look at bm's dresses( she lives 5 towns over and I havent seen her since like December so Im excited)
The planning, the money, the tons of things to do are getting overwhelming but I think I will take a step back and make some plans and then follow them through and to all who offered to help...YOU will be sorry...lol!!

THANKS!!!!!!!!!

Posted 7/20/04 10:37 PM
 

alfordk9
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Member since 12/02

204 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/4/2004 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Bedell's at West Wind

Re: I hate wedding planning!

i'm glad you feel better. Wait till you get closer to the end the down days seem more than the up days but you make it through. lawd I'm just so happy this is almost over. think of your beautiful end product you plus him plus love it's a beautiful thing!

Posted 7/20/04 10:42 PM
 

Pattili
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Member since 1/04

136 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 1:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Three Village Inn - Stony Brook

Re: I hate wedding planning!

Hang in there. At times everything seems so overwhelming, but you can't make yourself crazy. I find it i take it one day at a time, instead of trying to look at the big picture, i do better. Everyone on these boards are great. I'd offer to go shopping with you, but i work all day m-f. Take a deep breath and relax. It will ALL work out in the end!!!

Posted 7/20/04 10:42 PM
 
 

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