I kind of feel bad...

my future step-daughter (10 1/2 yo) let it slip that there is going to be a 'surprise' for me next weekend. I was telling her that I wanted to bring her to see the Princess Diaries 2 and for ice cream at a new place that opened up here and she said there wasnt time with everything going on next weekend. My FH is mad but I explained that she didnt know what she was doing. I still dont know whether its Sat or Sun or where or what time.

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Awwww....she must feel bad too

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Don't feel bad, these things happen. It's not like she set out to ruin the surprise for you and I think it's a little unfair for your FH to be upset with her. I can understand him being disappointed that now you won't be surprised, but his daughter is just a little girl, I'm sure she feels bad enough as it is.

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oh- that's so sad How does your future step-daughter feel? I hope she dosen't feel too bad for ruining it.. she's only 10 1/2! You can tell her at least the DAY (sat/sun) will be a surprise!)

Look at the positives... at least you can plan what you wear each day to make suer it's someing nice... that's what i'm afraid of (being dressed like a bum... ahhhh)

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awwww!!! i feel bad for her.. she is only 10!!

i wish someone would slip for me!!

-Jenn

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At least she's 10 and has an excuse.

One of my co-workers (way over the age of 10) just called me and said 'I got the nicest invitation to your bridal shower, but I don't think I can go - I'll be away on the ....' and I stopped her before she could say the date.

No excuse!!



You're still going to have a great time, no matter what and no one else needs to know that you got a clue!!

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Posted by lorsin

At least she's 10 and has an excuse.

One of my co-workers (way over the age of 10) just called me and said 'I got the nicest invitation to your bridal shower, but I don't think I can go - I'll be away on the ....' and I stopped her before she could say the date.

No excuse!!



You're still going to have a great time, no matter what and no one else needs to know that you got a clue!!

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OMG! some people!

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Posted by lorsin

At least she's 10 and has an excuse.

One of my co-workers (way over the age of 10) just called me and said 'I got the nicest invitation to your bridal shower, but I don't think I can go - I'll be away on the ....' and I stopped her before she could say the date.

No excuse!!



You're still going to have a great time, no matter what and no one else needs to know that you got a clue!!

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My friend called me and said, 'I got your shower invitation in the mail today but I don't know if I can make it.' I said, 'I'm not having a shower. I talked about it with my family. I think you mean my bachelorette party.' And she said, 'No, I mean your shower.' And I said, 'You must be confused. I know my bachelorette party invites went out via email yesterday...you probably misread it.' And she said, 'Nope, it's your shower, and I got it via snail mail. It's on XX/XX/02 at XXXX place.' I was SO PISSED at her! I said, 'Oh, well it must have been a surprise...' And she said, 'Not anymore!' She also RSVP'd to my wedding with a guest and backed out a week before saying she can't find someone to go with. Needless to say, I no longer speak to this 'friend' anymore. But, if a 10 year old ACCIDENTALLY did it? Aaw, how sad! At least you'll be dressed up!