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Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic! STD not Save the date!

myasmom Posted: Aug 18, 2004 03:58 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 03:58 PM

Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic! STD not Save the date!

Scenario: You meet a guy. You have an amazing relationship. He wants to get married but first wants everything on the table..including sexual history. You have been with 27 guys..would you tell him and risk him thinking you are promiscuous and not marry you or would you lie to save the relationship?

But wait there is a part II..you have HPV and the guy wants kids..which means unprotected Sex eventually and can put him at risk....

lilmrs Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:00 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:00 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

The man wants to marry a girl but the girl has not told him she has HPV yet?

allure Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:01 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:01 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

I'm at a loss for words

myasmom Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:02 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:02 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

yup. Scared of rejection.

btrflygrl Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

how long is the realtionship going on? I would be upfront about the # of guys....and the HPV in the proper context of a conversation

Maribelle7777 Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

I don't know if I'd tell him it was 27 guys...but I woudldn't say 5 guys either. However I would tell him about the HPV. And I would have told him LONG before he popped the question. That's just not something you hide in that sort of relationship.

june262004 Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:03 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

myasmom Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:04 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:04 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

1 year together.

070502 Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:04 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:04 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

If she can't tell the truth prior to marriage she isn't adult enough to be married.

nov04LIbride Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:04 PM+

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Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

lilmrs Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:05 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:05 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

Posted by Maribelle7777

I don't know if I'd tell him it was 27 guys...but I woudldn't say 5 guys either. However I would tell him about the HPV. And I would have told him LONG before he popped the question. That's just not something you hide in that sort of relationship.

I agree with this!

myasmom Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:08 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:08 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

From what I read on HPV he may have already been at risk..condoms dont help.

Bebalina Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:09 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:09 PM

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Posted by 070502

If she can't tell the truth prior to marriage she isn't adult enough to be married.

i agree...especially about HPV y hide that

Kriss2c Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:11 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:11 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

The truth should be told. However, from what I have read on HPV, while it is a disease and certainly cause for concern, it is by far not the worst STD out there.

palebride Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:14 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:14 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

She needs to be truthful with him....maybe not about the exact number of men she's been with.....I don't think the exact number is as important as the fact that she lets him know that she's been with more than maybe 10 or 15 men......
but about the STD....he needs to know now!

myasmom Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:32 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:32 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

Would you date someone who has an STD?

070502 Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:33 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:33 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

No! I waited for the right person. I think I deserve the same respect.

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:33 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:33 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

I dont think the number is relevant at all. But definitely the HPV...Absolutely...

palebride Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:35 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic!

I don't think i would date soeone with an STD....but I KNOW I couldn't date someone who didn't bother to tell my about an STD after a year of dating

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Aug 18, 2004 04:35 PM

Re: Would you tell the truth? Very adult topic! STD not Save the date!

Posted by myasmom

Would you date someone who has an STD?

I heard once (a long time ago) that 1 in 22 people has an STD...That information could be false/dated/etc...But that is just what I remember hearing once.