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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
I have to vent..Im so sorry, I think I have been doing this a lot lately!
Seems like since my post about everything going wrong last week, its getting worse and Im scared.
I seriously dont want to get married anymore..wait, scratch that, I dont want the wedding, I have no motivation...I cant get myself to go to work, I have had huge headaches and then this morning a PANIC attack...I cant even get myself to call the Dr which I know I should..
I cannot get myself out of this rut! I hate my job, we have no money at all, no food etc and ya think we'd be broke but have money saved..NOPE!
I cant even get up in the morning....
Thank god I have the best FH who is being so sweet but WHAT IS WRONG with me??
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Posted 10/4/04 11:14 AM 
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brooklynbridezilla
Ever After
Member since 4/04 6651 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/5/2005 12:30 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
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Posted 10/4/04 11:20 AM
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Sweetpea130000
TIME IS FLYING!!!!
Member since 7/04 4165 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/19/2005 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Riviera @ Massapequa A++++++++++
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Posted 10/4/04 11:21 AM
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Ronkonkomonga
Spoiled by the HOV
Member since 9/04 2236 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/16/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
nothing is wrong - it happens to all of us.
"this too shall pass!"
Just watch some TV! and veg out. It always helps
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Posted 10/4/04 11:22 AM
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Aga
take me back to my RIU
Member since 6/04 5459 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/3/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's - A+
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
is there a way that your parents or DH's parents can help financially? maybe they can loan you the money?
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Posted 10/4/04 11:24 AM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Posted by Aga
is there a way that your parents or DH's parents can help financially? maybe they can loan you the money?
no...right now theres no one who can help...I was going to just do a whole lot of over time at work..but I cannot GET myself to work...I just wish I could find that spark to kick me in the a$$ so to speak and get moving. I have been so sick and that makes it worse, now panic attacks? When will it stop...( play violins here...I know Im a drama queen sometimes  )
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Posted 10/4/04 11:32 AM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Posted by Ronkonkomonga
nothing is wrong - it happens to all of us.
"this too shall pass!"
Just watch some TV! and veg out. It always helps
Great quote, I am gonna need to remind myself today of that!
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Posted 10/4/04 11:32 AM
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QueensBride
I'm a married woman, wooo hooo
Member since 8/04 1016 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/1/2005 10:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Russo's On The Bay A+ all the way
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Don't worry, from what I hear from friends and family that have gotten married we the brides have most of the stress on my shoulders, at least that's how I feel. I think it will get much easier once we have all the major vendors booked. I have been breaking out in welts allover my body for the past month and have no idea what it is. People say your nerves get the best of you. I took the week off from planning last week and it helped me out a little, except that this whole weekend I had and still have huge hives that itch like crazy allover. Just call me Woogie (There's Something About Mary).
It will get easier take a week or two off from planning and just relax 
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Posted 10/4/04 11:34 AM
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Aga
take me back to my RIU
Member since 6/04 5459 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/3/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's - A+
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Posted by dm24angel
Posted by Aga
is there a way that your parents or DH's parents can help financially? maybe they can loan you the money?
no...right now theres no one who can help...I was going to just do a whole lot of over time at work..but I cannot GET myself to work...I just wish I could find that spark to kick me in the a$$ so to speak and get moving. I have been so sick and that makes it worse, now panic attacks? When will it stop...( play violins here...I know Im a drama queen sometimes )
I will kick your a$$ if you want 
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Posted 10/4/04 11:34 AM
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DMcK
I love my husband & puppies!
Member since 4/04 5037 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/13/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Sometimes it all feels like so much. Hang in there.
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Posted 10/4/04 11:36 AM
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WinterBride2005
Almost here....
Member since 10/03 1608 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Is there anything you can cut back on? Like someone mentioned already, this will pass. This whole wedding planning can get REALLY overwhelming. Hang in there. You don't have too much time of planning left.
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Posted 10/4/04 11:38 AM
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CubanBride
Yay! I am married!
Member since 6/04 4006 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonard's of Great Neck
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
You've got FM.
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Posted 10/4/04 11:51 AM
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hbradio
Our board is gone :-(
Member since 11/03 9840 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2005 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau Briand
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Ive had my share of panic attacks so AGAIN I understand you!!!
Best thing for me to do to put things in perspective is to write down everything that is stressing me out. I make lists, break them down into categories and see what I can tackle and when.
Sounds anal but it works for me!
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Posted 10/4/04 12:05 PM
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DebMaher
The Sassy BRUNETTE
Member since 8/04 6008 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/10/2005 7:00 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Listen, if you are really in a place where you are depressed enough to not be able to get up in the morning, you need help. THere are places that will not charge you to do it but you need to find someone to talk to. Are you eating?
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Posted 10/4/04 1:49 PM
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KimberlyBride
How did I get so lucky?
Member since 2/04 8871 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/15/2005 1:00 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Sorry you are having a hard time
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Posted 10/4/04 3:06 PM
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nylibride
Home improvement expert now...
Member since 3/04 1095 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/16/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
I'm so sorry that you are experiencing this. The severity of what you describe sounds like a clinical depression--which is a medical issue! You should REALLY consult your doctor or a psychologist or psychiatrist who will help you out and get you feeling like yourself again. I know that it's hard to motivate to do anything, but if nothing else, call the doc!!!
Please feel better!
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Posted 10/4/04 3:10 PM
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JoJoTeej
Board Enthusiast
Member since 7/04 234 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Hang in there!!
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Posted 10/4/04 3:14 PM
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Destiny117
Board Enthusiast
Member since 2/04 170 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Marina Del Rey
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
I am sending your way and I hope you feel better! My suggestion would be to take time off from the planning because it does get very overwhelming at times. I was feeling very weak in June and going to the doctor helped. Dont feel bad about venting! That is what we are here for!
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Posted 10/4/04 9:11 PM
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DebMaher
The Sassy BRUNETTE
Member since 8/04 6008 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/10/2005 7:00 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Donna:
Please, please get some assistance. It does not need to cost anything and I have had your post on my mind all day, thinking about how it would really be the thing you need. Please FM me and I would be glad to ask around for names and such. Please do not suffer alone. We are here, sounds like your FI is there and HELP is out there. You just need to ask.
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Posted 10/4/04 9:13 PM
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dm24angel
Take a full moon and add Wine!
Member since 2/04 8534 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Water Mill
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
Thanks deb..I do thank god for FH, and I am feeling a little bit better..physically I still have a migraine and am getting OFF the computer, but I did some food shopping today to try and get back on the healthy kick that always helps...and I may take tommorow off( how much MORe trouble could I possibly get in at this point) and clean the house..I think starting anew so to speak might help. Am going to call the Dr tommorow as well. I already take med's for panic and I hadnt had a feeling like this morning in over a year..it depresses you, but maybe she ( the dr) can advise me what to do since with the holidays coming up and then teh wedding I may need something more..THANKS to all..
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Posted 10/4/04 9:18 PM
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DebMaher
The Sassy BRUNETTE
Member since 8/04 6008 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/10/2005 7:00 PM
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Re: I know we are trying for a happy board today...but...
YES YES YES.
Call Dr. -- and please know that if we can be of help, we are here. FM me for my email and contact info so I can offer any assistance -- my friend is a family therapist and I bet I could ask him for a reference.
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Posted 10/4/04 9:21 PM
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