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oakslady
Ajax my poofy baby :)

Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

feeling unloved

goodness gracious - been wondering what the he double hockey stix i did to folks - just had 5 more cancellations today -
bringing us back down below 100 again
i can believe after over 300 invited i cant even get 100 people to say yes

feeling like a big looser - sorry just had to vent

Posted 10/24/04 9:00 PM
 

aimerliny
Not a newlywed anymore...

Member since 5/04

1861 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/6/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Island Hills Golf & Country Club

Re: feeling unloved

Awww.....we're still coming! Just think, there will be plenty of room on the dance floor for dancing!

Posted 10/24/04 9:06 PM
 

julz33
Board Princess

Member since 8/03

11524 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/24/2004 6:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Huntington Townhouse

Re: feeling unloved

Aww don't feel bad Amy. I wish I could come to help you out but we are closing on the 28th... Try not to get upset. The most important 2 people - You and your FH - will be there

Posted 10/24/04 9:21 PM
 

chris605
HOMEOWNER and Loving it.....

Member since 6/03

2235 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 3:30 PM

Wed. Location:

Re: feeling unloved

The same thing happened to me - Hey if you need more guest - I am sure a few of us LIW girls would love to come....

Seriously - I was sad and mad about it, the day of - I never even tought about it...

Posted 10/24/04 9:41 PM
 

halloweenbride04
Proud Mommy!

Member since 8/03

2665 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/31/2004 2:30 PM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: feeling unloved

You're NOT a loser!!! I had 3 cancellations on Friday!

Posted 10/25/04 12:04 AM
 

oakslady
Ajax my poofy baby :)

Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: feeling unloved

thanks gals
just been a rough week - i had 11 cancel on friday and now 5 more -
my guest list is just pathetic

oh well - what can we do - no point in worrying about it


luckily i will see a few ever so nice liw gals in person

Posted 10/25/04 12:49 PM
 

no stress bride
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 11/03

2672 total posts

Wedding Date:
9/10/2004 6:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Atlantis Marine World

Re: feeling unloved

I'm sure everything will be great!! I can't wait for the pictures Amy!!

Posted 10/25/04 1:55 PM
 

TracyInQueens
Not a Queens Girl Anymore :(

Member since 6/04

3301 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/15/2004 5:00 PM

Wed. Location:
George Washington Manor

Re: feeling unloved



FH and I invited so many people who didn't come, and we didn't make our minimum either. And you know what? The day of I really didn't care. The people who came were the ones who wanted to be there and they all had a good time. With a couple of exceptions (old friends who lived far away and could not come because of distance/new baby/etc.) I didn't miss anyone who was not there. And I was able to at least chat briefly with all the guests. I've been to weddings that were so huge, we hardly saw the B&G all night.

People will love that your wedding is intimate and cozy and you will have a wonderful time.

Posted 10/25/04 3:32 PM
 

rrdm782004
Board Fanatic

Member since 4/04

610 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/28/2004 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
The Huntington Townhouse

Re: feeling unloved

What is your min

Posted 10/25/04 5:21 PM
 

rrdm782004
Board Fanatic

Member since 4/04

610 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/28/2004 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
The Huntington Townhouse

Re: feeling unloved

I just want to say it doesn't matter who is there that day will go by so fast. The most important thing is that you and your new hubby will enjoy yourself.

Posted 10/25/04 5:25 PM
 

Robeymuse
happily married :-)

Member since 1/03

3000 total posts

Wedding Date:
5/16/2004 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club

Re: feeling unloved

don't feel bad Amy. You will be surrounded by so many people that love you that day, you won't even notice. We invited well over 300 too (alot of OOT guests) and we barely made our min.
But I still felt that everybody who was supposed to be there was!

Posted 10/25/04 5:50 PM
 

bellepoque
Very happy!

Member since 8/03

1287 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/7/2004 7:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Vanderbilt Mansion, Oakdale

Re: feeling unloved

We had people cancelling up to five days before the wedding! Just remember that everyone who is coming wants to be there, loves you and is so excited for both of you!

Posted 10/25/04 6:44 PM
 

Maribelle7777
It's A Sickness!

Member since 5/03

5699 total posts

Wedding Date:
4/30/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:

Re: feeling unloved

We love you!!!! Don't worry you will still have a fantastic wedding!!!!

Posted 10/25/04 8:51 PM
 

nov.bride
Life is good ;)

Member since 1/04

1806 total posts

Wedding Date:
11/21/2004 12:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace

Re: feeling unloved

DOn't worry your day will be special whether there's 2 or 222. IT's thier loss!

Don't feel bad

Posted 10/25/04 9:25 PM
 

sandj100304
"I'm Addicted"

Member since 7/03

2631 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/3/2004 11:30 AM

Wed. Location:
Woodbury Country Club

Re: feeling unloved

I had 17 cancellations the week of the wedding. I was sad about it but it didn't even faze me that day. Your day will be perfect with or without all those people!

Posted 10/26/04 9:18 AM
 

oakslady
Ajax my poofy baby :)

Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: feeling unloved

thanks gals

4 days left

Posted 10/26/04 12:18 PM
 

patti08
So Happy Together!

Member since 11/03

1117 total posts

Wedding Date:
12/4/2004 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Riviera at Massapequa

Re: feeling unloved

We love you!

We've had 26 no's...more room to dance!

Posted 10/26/04 5:24 PM
 

oakslady
Ajax my poofy baby :)

Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: feeling unloved

26 i wish i only had 26 - i invited 337 and 94 are comming

Posted 10/27/04 5:40 PM
 

MsKitty1274
My little Monster!!

Member since 7/04

3544 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/25/2006 2:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace

Re: feeling unloved

Amy , We'll be there! Sebastian and I! He got the day off! YEAH! We got costumes too!! I am SOOO excited to meet you and other LIW gals!!!!

Posted 10/29/04 3:32 PM
 

cindy_bride
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/04

276 total posts

Wedding Date:
6/6/2004 3:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Giorgio's

Re: feeling unloved

i hope everything went well!!

Posted 11/23/04 3:06 PM
 

oakslady
Ajax my poofy baby :)

Member since 11/03

2433 total posts

Wedding Date:
10/30/2004 1:00 AM

Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn

Re: feeling unloved

the final number - and i kid you not was 57

you can never tell - half the people who said yes didnt show up

but it was a good time and i really didnt miss having more people

Posted 11/25/04 4:03 PM
 

Moehick
So Happy Together

Member since 9/03

7333 total posts

Wedding Date:
3/14/2004 4:00 PM

Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor

Re: feeling unloved

Hey as long as you guys had a great time, thats all that matters!!

Posted 11/25/04 10:12 PM
 

rrdm782004
Board Fanatic

Member since 4/04

610 total posts

Wedding Date:
8/28/2004 11:00 AM

Wed. Location:
The Huntington Townhouse

Re: feeling unloved

I am glad you had a wonderful day regardless of the amount of people who didn't show

Posted 11/26/04 4:53 PM
 
 

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