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oakslady
Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:00 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:00 PM
feeling unloved
goodness gracious - been wondering what the he double hockey stix i did to folks - just had 5 more cancellations today -bringing us back down below 100 again
i can believe after over 300 invited i cant even get 100 people to say yes
feeling like a big looser - sorry just had to vent
aimerliny
Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:06 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:06 PM
Re: feeling unloved
Awww.....we're still coming! Just think, there will be plenty of room on the dance floor for dancing!
julz33
Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:21 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:21 PM
Re: feeling unloved
Aww don't feel bad Amy. I wish I could come to help you out but we are closing on the 28th... Try not to get upset. The most important 2 people - You and your FH - will be there
chris605
Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:41 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:41 PM
Re: feeling unloved
The same thing happened to me - Hey if you need more guest - I am sure a few of us LIW girls would love to come....Seriously - I was sad and mad about it, the day of - I never even tought about it...
halloweenbride04
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:04 AM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:04 AM
Re: feeling unloved
You're NOT a loser!!! I had 3 cancellations on Friday!
oakslady
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:49 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:49 PM
Re: feeling unloved
thanks galsjust been a rough week - i had 11 cancel on friday and now 5 more -
my guest list is just pathetic
oh well - what can we do - no point in worrying about it
luckily i will see a few ever so nice liw gals in person
no stress bride
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 01:55 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 01:55 PM
Re: feeling unloved
I'm sure everything will be great!! I can't wait for the pictures Amy!!
TracyInQueens
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:32 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:32 PM
Re: feeling unloved
FH and I invited so many people who didn't come, and we didn't make our minimum either. And you know what? The day of I really didn't care. The people who came were the ones who wanted to be there and they all had a good time. With a couple of exceptions (old friends who lived far away and could not come because of distance/new baby/etc.) I didn't miss anyone who was not there. And I was able to at least chat briefly with all the guests. I've been to weddings that were so huge, we hardly saw the B&G all night.
People will love that your wedding is intimate and cozy and you will have a wonderful time.
rrdm782004
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:21 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:21 PM
Re: feeling unloved
What is your min
rrdm782004
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:25 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:25 PM
Re: feeling unloved
I just want to say it doesn't matter who is there that day will go by so fast. The most important thing is that you and your new hubby will enjoy yourself.
Robeymuse
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:50 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:50 PM
Re: feeling unloved
don't feel bad Amy. You will be surrounded by so many people that love you that day, you won't even notice. We invited well over 300 too (alot of OOT guests) and we barely made our min.But I still felt that everybody who was supposed to be there was!
bellepoque
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 06:44 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 06:44 PM
Re: feeling unloved
We had people cancelling up to five days before the wedding! Just remember that everyone who is coming wants to be there, loves you and is so excited for both of you!
Maribelle7777
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 08:51 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 08:51 PM
Re: feeling unloved
We love you!!!! Don't worry you will still have a fantastic wedding!!!!
nov.bride
Posted: Oct 25, 2004 09:25 PM+

Posted: Oct 25, 2004 09:25 PM
Re: feeling unloved
DOn't worry your day will be special whether there's 2 or 222. IT's thier loss!Don't feel bad
sandj100304
Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:18 AM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:18 AM
Re: feeling unloved
I had 17 cancellations the week of the wedding. I was sad about it but it didn't even faze me that day. Your day will be perfect with or without all those people!
oakslady
Posted: Oct 26, 2004 12:18 PM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2004 12:18 PM
Re: feeling unloved
thanks gals
4 days left
patti08
Posted: Oct 26, 2004 05:24 PM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2004 05:24 PM
Re: feeling unloved
We love you!We've had 26 no's...more room to dance!
oakslady
Posted: Oct 27, 2004 05:40 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2004 05:40 PM
Re: feeling unloved
26 i wish i only had 26 - i invited 337 and 94 are comming
MsKitty1274
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 03:32 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 03:32 PM
Re: feeling unloved
Amy
, We'll be there! Sebastian and I! He got the day off! YEAH! We got costumes too!! I am SOOO excited to meet you and other LIW gals!!!!
cindy_bride
Posted: Nov 23, 2004 03:06 PM+

Posted: Nov 23, 2004 03:06 PM
Re: feeling unloved
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