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a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

BriBri529 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 03:59 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 03:59 PM

a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

if you send out STDS and someone tells you they have a trip booked and can't make your wedding, do you still invite them to your shower and send them a wedding invite anyway?

SFP0214 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 03:59 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 03:59 PM

Re: a stupid question . . .

Not stupid...very good...ANYONE????

frosty Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:06 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:06 PM

Re: a stupid question . . .

I don't know whether it is proper or not, but I would still send them an invitation. You never know, plans get changed and they may end up being available to attend.

PerfectPair05 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:13 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:13 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I would still send it too... you never know, travel plans can change. And you also want to let the person know that you would like them to attend... even if you know they can't.

randella Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:13 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:13 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

you should still send them an invite. I had this happen with me and I am still sending an invite- also, after posting on this board and getting some feedback/

hmm8191 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:35 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I agree with everyone. I would send it too. I had a similar situation.

palebride Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:35 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I would send them an invitation anyway.
We had some cousins who told us in advance that they wouldn't be able to make it, but we sent them one anways....you never know what might change

Kosta's Kitty Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:52 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:52 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I would send an invitation out of courtesy regardless if theyare able to come or not.

jen110704 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:53 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 04:53 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I would send it. What if their trip falls through?

LO13LO13 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:09 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:09 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

i don't know the 'proper' answer, but i would still send the invitation

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:11 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:11 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

Id send it too.. Its still nice to be asked even if you cant come

mrswask Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:38 PM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 11:38 PM

Re: a stupid question . . . re: stds and invites

I would still send them. Plus - she may want to come to the shower since she can't come to the wedding. That happened to me two years ago - I had a friend who's wedding was the night we were leaving for a cruise. I still went to her shower and gave her a gift.