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so my fh sister backed out of the wedding because she is prego and the baby will be about 7-8 months by the time we get married .
ans it would be too much for her that day which i understand.......

the only thing is now IM SHORT A GIRL. both fh and I are very anal about things like this. everything has to be even ..lol andhe really cant cut anyone off his list..

so he has this girlfriend who is has been friends with since h.s (they are only friends i talk to her too lol)and i was thinking of maybe giving him the option of asking her to be in our BP because i really dont have anyone else .
I mean i have a few options with friends but it's like you can't pick one over the other type thing lol. and they are good friends .
so what do you think?????

but then i was alsoooooooooooooo thinking of asking his friends girlfriend lol .
but with his best friend . i have hung out with her also and we have spoken at one point we were good frineds

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i think that would be nice if you let him ask her....

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To be honest, I have an uneven wedding party and it doesn't bother me one bit.

However, if you are set on the idea, then ask your FH's girl friend (not 'girlfriend'!! LOL). This way, you won't insult any of your friends if you pick one and not the other.

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I can't say that I would be crazy about the idea to be honest.

Good luck with that lmao!

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yeah .. i picked the girls and he picked the guys.. If i had a boyfriend not boyfriend boy friend lol that i was close to and he needed the guy i would want him to ask him too .

im not going to say anything yet ... i might make a friend by then lol but it's an option

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you know I am in the same situation but FSIL decided to stay apart of the wedding....We still have uneven BP bc FH's has a HUGE family & they are all guys!

I think it would be very nice of your FH to ask his friend from HS...I think she would be honored & considering you are also friends with her, it would be nice...Remember, do not ask just for the sake of asking bc it is uneven...

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Posted by Vicky1706

I can't say that I would be crazy about the idea to be honest.

Good luck with that lmao!

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trust me there is nothing to worry about lol

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I think you should choose the person you feel most comfortable with ( because you will have to rely on them to get the dress ,shoes and be on time) . I would also take into consideration the person who will be more supportive and helpful on your wedding day.

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

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Posted by Vicky1706

I can't say that I would be crazy about the idea to be honest.

Good luck with that lmao!

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trust me there is nothing to worry about lol

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ok lol, I figured there wouldn't be or you woulnd't even have given the idea a sceond thought! take some time & think about it...unless you HAVE to decide right away.

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Posted by Vicky1706

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

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Posted by Vicky1706

I can't say that I would be crazy about the idea to be honest.

Good luck with that lmao!

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trust me there is nothing to worry about lol

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ok lol, I figured there wouldn't be or you woulnd't even have given the idea a sceond thought! take some time & think about it...unless you HAVE to decide right away.

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nah like i said its an option lol
i might make a friend by then lol

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

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Posted by Vicky1706

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

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Posted by Vicky1706

I can't say that I would be crazy about the idea to be honest.

Good luck with that lmao!

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trust me there is nothing to worry about lol

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ok lol, I figured there wouldn't be or you woulnd't even have given the idea a sceond thought! take some time & think about it...unless you HAVE to decide right away.

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nah like i said its an option lol
i might make a friend by then lol

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exactly lol

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

yeah .. i picked the girls and he picked the guys.. If i had a boyfriend not boyfriend boy friend lol that i was close to and he needed the guy i would want him to ask him too .

im not going to say anything yet ... i might make a friend by then lol but it's an option

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I hear you about the anal part - so are we! I KNOW that it doesn't matter but my mother, my FH, me, his mother - we all are alike - we HAVE to have it even...isn't that silly? but to each its own!

we haven't fully decided on anything yet, but are considering one of his good friends - however, I am friendly with her too. In this case, we would both ask her together!

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Posted by leese

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

yeah .. i picked the girls and he picked the guys.. If i had a boyfriend not boyfriend boy friend lol that i was close to and he needed the guy i would want him to ask him too .

im not going to say anything yet ... i might make a friend by then lol but it's an option

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I hear you about the anal part - so are we! I KNOW that it doesn't matter but my mother, my FH, me, his mother - we all are alike - we HAVE to have it even...isn't that silly? but to each its own!

we haven't fully decided on anything yet, but are considering one of his good friends - however, I am friendly with her too. In this case, we would both ask her together!

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yeah we would ask her together also
i brought it up to him the other day and he said if he had to pick a girl he would pick her

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I think you should wait it out until the last possible moment and see what happens. You never know who u'll become friends with or more friendly with in the future.