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natiepie1028
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/04 571 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
North Ritz Club
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Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
My parents want to invite some of their friends, friends which I dont even know, so do i send them an STD or just relatives, people who are close to me and OOTers.
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Posted 2/18/05 10:56 AM 
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Stacey04
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 2/04 2288 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/27/2004 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Leonards of Great Neck
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
I only sent STD's to family and our friends and only b/c it was Thanksgiving weekend.
I didn't see the need to send them to any of our parents friends. I guess it also depends on your parents, if they are paying for the wedding, then they may want you to.
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Posted 2/18/05 10:58 AM
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BlondeJD
La vie en rose
Member since 1/04 4988 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/1/2003 12:00 AM
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
We sent them to everyone, but most of the guest list is our friends and family not parents' friends.
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Posted 2/18/05 11:09 AM
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littlebookworm4
Old and married
Member since 10/03 4789 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Thatched Cottage
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
sending them to everyone but only 1 or 2 are my parents friends
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Posted 2/18/05 11:16 AM
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RVCBride
Board Fanatic
Member since 9/04 798 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/4/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
We are sending them to everyone. There are a lot of my parent friends on the list and I want them to definitely come because they are all so much fun! So we're sending them to everyone, with the exception of my mother-in-law's friends.
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Posted 2/18/05 2:21 PM
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nov2004bride
I am two!!!!!!
Member since 8/03 4659 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/5/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
Yup! We sent them to everyone
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Posted 2/18/05 2:22 PM
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JimmysBride
Board Princess
Member since 7/03 10135 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
No. We only sent out about 50 - 60 and we invited around 230. We sent them to our closest family and friends and our OOT guests.
You never know who you might have to cut from your guestlist towards the end and if you sent them an STD you really can't!
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Posted 2/18/05 2:25 PM
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divabride
Being Bridezilla aint so bad!
Member since 12/03 7026 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
Posted by JimmysBride
No. We only sent out about 50 - 60 and we invited around 230. We sent them to our closest family and friends and our OOT guests.
You never know who you might have to cut from your guestlist towards the end and if you sent them an STD you really can't!
I totally agree with this. I was going to send them out to everyone until I read a post here. The bride sent them out to everyone and then had to cut her original guest list. I ended up sending to family and OOT guests.
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Posted 2/18/05 2:30 PM
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Goldi1021
Growing a miracle in my belly!
Member since 1/05 12772 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Temple Avodah
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
I plan on sending them to out of town guests. Everything else will be word of mouth as I have two MOUTHY sisters. Perhaps an email or two along with a wedding website update now and again.
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Posted 2/18/05 2:35 PM
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suebride
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/04 651 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/11/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Carltun
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
we only sent to those coming from out of town...
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Posted 2/18/05 2:39 PM
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katieshope
I'm MARRIED!!!
Member since 1/05 1215 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2005 11:30 AM
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
I sent one to everyone, with the exception of about 5 who I don't have addresses for yet.
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Posted 2/18/05 3:50 PM
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May05Bride
Hawaii is AWESOME!
Member since 10/03 4006 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/29/2005 7:30 PM
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
I sent it to everyone because we are getting married during Memorial Day Wedding.
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Posted 2/18/05 3:53 PM
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stacy&joe
Board Fanatic
Member since 4/04 627 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/19/2005 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Inn at East Wind
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
Posted by JimmysBride
No. We only sent out about 50 - 60 and we invited around 230. We sent them to our closest family and friends and our OOT guests.
You never know who you might have to cut from your guestlist towards the end and if you sent them an STD you really can't!
I sort of agree with this. On one hand, my friend sent them only to OOT and close family and friends, but when certain people didn't get one, they were mad.  On the other hand, I sent them to everyone on the list - to avoid her problem - and then had a heart attack when certain parents tried to add more people to the list after the STDs went out. We ended up saying, if they don't fit in the room, they can't be invited, and you have to pay for your extras, and now, we actually had about 15% say no so far. So, it worked out ok. But it was stressful for awhile - I didn't know how I would cut people who got STDs!
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Posted 2/18/05 5:06 PM
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MissMelissa
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Member since 12/03 793 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/24/2009 6:30 PM
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
i sent them to everyone i was positive i would definitely want there and evn though i sent them quite some time ahead, plenty of people did not save the date!!
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Posted 2/18/05 5:26 PM
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IrishBride-05
Celebrating 1 Year next week!!
Member since 7/04 1838 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Timber Point C.C.
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
Posted by divabride
Posted by JimmysBride
No. We only sent out about 50 - 60 and we invited around 230. We sent them to our closest family and friends and our OOT guests.
You never know who you might have to cut from your guestlist towards the end and if you sent them an STD you really can't!
I only sent about 60 of a 160 list, mostly to close friends, girlfriends and OOT guests - I didn't think my FH's single friends would appreciate them. Then, we had a few people who mentioned they didn't get one and were expecting to be invited, so I had to send a couple of extras!
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Posted 2/18/05 5:50 PM
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jeanla4c
THREE YEARS already!
Member since 8/04 5242 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/9/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: Do you send STDs out to everyone on your invite list?
I sent them to mostly everyone...a few people we weren't sure we were inviting so left them out.
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Posted 2/18/05 5:54 PM
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