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beautyq115
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Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
My FI insists on inviting this guy who I HATE..My FI doesn;t really even consider him a friend he is just someone he knows through someone else and my FI hangs out with him from time to time. We have fought over this many many times! I do not want him at the wedding! I refuse to compromise on this.
Anyone have a similiar situation???
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Posted 10/13/05 11:15 AM 
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/15/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
I have not had that situation. I would think that if it is someone that your FH is NOT close to and you feel strongly about him not being there, then your FH should understand. I could see if it was one of his good friends but if it is just an acquaintance (sp) then your FH should respect your wishes. Good luck !!
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Posted 10/13/05 11:17 AM
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MrsFelix
Almost two years!!!!
Member since 9/05 2383 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Villa Barone Manor - A++++++++
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
The BM brother!!! He got drunk at my FI's 30th b-day party and he tried to dance with my 14 year old niece. I had the only FIT!!!! I told FI I didn't want him at the wedding, but he said that if he talked to him about his behavior would I let him come. So I agreed. ONLY if he spoke to him about getting drunk and acting like a fool!!
It's a very hard situation to handle. Good luck!!!
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Posted 10/13/05 11:18 AM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by stephanief
I have not had that situation. I would think that if it is someone that your FH is NOT close to and you feel strongly about him not being there, then your FH should understand. I could see if it was one of his good friends but if it is just an acquaintance (sp) then your FH should respect your wishes. Good luck !!
Well unfotunetely he doesn't! He insists on inviting this loser..He in fact has already told him that he is invited!
I feel that my day will be ruined because of this
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Posted 10/13/05 11:19 AM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
there are a few people that i dont think we should invite and he is making a big deal out of it .......there invitation might get lost in the mail 
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Posted 10/13/05 11:19 AM
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cantwait2bewed
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 11/04 2587 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/29/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Yes. This girl that FH dated for a little while. They are just friends. But i dont really like her. She called me something i didnt like when i first met her. Anyway, it doesnt really matter b/c i get to rub my beautiful dress in her face anyway. I might just forget to send her the invite. 
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Posted 10/13/05 11:20 AM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by kellwolfe
there are a few people that i dont think we should invite and he is making a big deal out of it .......there invitation might get lost in the mail
Thats what I am thinking to..or maybe leave his name off of the list when I get the envelopes made up
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Posted 10/13/05 11:20 AM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by kellwolfe
there are a few people that i dont think we should invite and he is making a big deal out of it .......there invitation might get lost in the mail
Thats what I am thinking to..or maybe leave his name off of the list when I get the envelopes made up
I agree honey ...I know it sounds mean but what they dont know wont hurt them ....
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Posted 10/13/05 11:41 AM
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M&S Sept12006
2 Years Down...
Member since 3/05 5843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor - A
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
One of our GM is dating this friggin trick from LI (no offense to you LI girls but she is just a true bimbo) and he will most likely bring her along...I hope they're not together by the time our wedding rolls up.
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Posted 10/13/05 11:43 AM
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SIBride06
Member since 4/05 7317 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/26/2006 2:00 PM
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Yes definately.. my future In laws!!!
j/k
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Posted 10/13/05 11:45 AM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/15/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by stephanief
I have not had that situation. I would think that if it is someone that your FH is NOT close to and you feel strongly about him not being there, then your FH should understand. I could see if it was one of his good friends but if it is just an acquaintance (sp) then your FH should respect your wishes. Good luck !!
Well unfotunetely he doesn't! He insists on inviting this loser..He in fact has already told him that he is invited!
I feel that my day will be ruined because of this
That is wierd that your FH would not respect your wishes.....hmmmm that seems odd. I'm sorry I don't know what else you can do then. You stated your opinions and he doesn't seem to care so I guess you will have to suck it up...or tell FH that it's either him or you at the wedding....
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Posted 10/13/05 11:46 AM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by stephanief
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by stephanief
I have not had that situation. I would think that if it is someone that your FH is NOT close to and you feel strongly about him not being there, then your FH should understand. I could see if it was one of his good friends but if it is just an acquaintance (sp) then your FH should respect your wishes. Good luck !!
Well unfotunetely he doesn't! He insists on inviting this loser..He in fact has already told him that he is invited!
I feel that my day will be ruined because of this
That is wierd that your FH would not respect your wishes.....hmmmm that seems odd. I'm sorry I don't know what else you can do then. You stated your opinions and he doesn't seem to care so I guess you will have to suck it up...or tell FH that it's either him or you at the wedding....
Well I basically told him that already and he said that isn't fair. I also told him that since my mother is paying for the reception that she will not pay for his side of the family if this loser is invited
Message edited 10/13/2005 11:50:43 AM.
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Posted 10/13/05 11:49 AM
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JessicaM.
totally
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4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by stephanief
I feel that my day will be ruined because of this
Kath, only you can let him ruin your day. if he acts up, have your brothers or your dad bounce his a$$ out at the first sign...but other than that, don't even let him be a bleep on your screen and concetrate on those you WANT to be there.
it's your wedding!   
eta: I didn't delete properly when quoting this post, and for confusions sake, I was quoting Kathleen's post.
Message edited 10/13/2005 11:51:01 AM.
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Posted 10/13/05 11:50 AM
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beautyq115
Board Princess
Member since 12/04 16774 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 3:00 PM
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Swan Club...AMAZING
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by JessicaM.
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by stephanief
I feel that my day will be ruined because of this
Kath, only you can let him ruin your day. if he acts up, have your brothers or your dad bounce his a$$ out at the first sign...but other than that, don't even let him be a bleep on your screen and concetrate on those you WANT to be there.
it's your wedding!
eta: I didn't delete properly when quoting this post, and for confusions sake, I was quoting Kathleen's post.
I just hate this guy so much!
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Posted 10/13/05 11:51 AM
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luvmypup
Board Fanatic
Member since 10/05 544 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/1/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
scotto brothers
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
MY FH WANTED TO INVITE THIS GIRL THAT USED TO BE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS W/ HIM UNTIL I STARTED DATING HIM. SHE THREATENED TO FIGHT ME AND ALL SORTS OF THINGS. SHE STILL TRIES TO CALL HIM ON OCCASION. BUT HE IGNORES THE CALLS.
I HAVE THOUGHTS OF HER TRYING TO MESS UP THE WEDDING. AND I THINK SHE WOULD. I FORBID HER FROM BEING INVITED. AND TOO BAD IF HE DOESNT LIKE IT. LOL
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Posted 10/13/05 11:52 AM
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/15/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by luvmypup
MY FH WANTED TO INVITE THIS GIRL THAT USED TO BE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS W/ HIM UNTIL I STARTED DATING HIM. SHE THREATENED TO FIGHT ME AND ALL SORTS OF THINGS. SHE STILL TRIES TO CALL HIM ON OCCASION. BUT HE IGNORES THE CALLS.
I HAVE THOUGHTS OF HER TRYING TO MESS UP THE WEDDING. AND I THINK SHE WOULD. I FORBID HER FROM BEING INVITED. AND TOO BAD IF HE DOESNT LIKE IT. LOL
you go girl. We need to be firm with our FH sometimes
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Posted 10/13/05 11:57 AM
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Tina120206
THAT IS ME???? wow
Member since 8/05 1214 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/2/2006 3:30 PM
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DeSeversky a+
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Oh yeah. My FH cousin and her mother. They have something against me from the getcko. Last time I saw them they told me I wear cheap Tiffany jewelery. And anybody who is anybody comes from Manhasset, not Massapequa where i'm from. There invites are so lost.
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Posted 10/13/05 11:57 AM
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October Bliss
Beyond Obsession
Member since 8/05 7629 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2006 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Country Gardens @ East Wind
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
There is this one couple, friends of my mother's that I do not particularly care for AT ALL. I thought they were very nice until we all went to Las Vegas together (them, me & Mom). If there was any way not to invite them I would, but no such luck. I am seating them as far away from me as possible. I am also NOT doing the anniversary dance for my bo-k because they would most certainly "win" it.
My mother has been friends with them for 20 years. They travel together, go out to dinner, movies etc all the time. And she (the wife) is just so excited  I am getting married and can't wait. 
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Posted 10/13/05 12:05 PM
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sarahthegreat
sweet pea
Member since 11/03 6398 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/4/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
stewart manor country club
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
umm, yea - one of his GM's.....have so many issues that i cannot go into it. i told him, thats his side, i am not goint to try to control it....
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Posted 10/13/05 12:35 PM
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Beth1210
I want to do it again!
Member since 6/05 4048 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/10/2005 7:30 PM
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Flowerfield
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
a few people- but they are his freinds
I woul dbe upset if he tried to tell me not to invite one of my freinds
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Posted 10/13/05 12:37 PM
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M&S Sept12006
2 Years Down...
Member since 3/05 5843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
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Westbury Manor - A
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by SexyEsq
I am also NOT doing the anniversary dance for my bo-k because they would most certainly "win" it.
I think I figured out why you dont like them...
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Posted 10/13/05 12:56 PM
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jenny26
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Wedding Date:
8/5/2006 3:00 PM
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Two of my FH freinds. They are sooooooooo annoying. Oh, and their wives too.
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Posted 10/13/05 1:14 PM
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roxyspark
Good times!!
Member since 8/05 1334 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 7:00 PM
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Milleridge Cottage
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Message edited 10/19/2005 7:49:02 PM.
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Posted 10/13/05 1:23 PM
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esb980
2 years........
Member since 7/05 3150 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/2/2006 4:00 PM
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Beach Club Estate
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
Posted by SIBride06
Yes definately.. my future In laws!!!
j/k
LOL...
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Posted 10/13/05 2:09 PM
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july06bride
Happy First Anniversary to Us!
Member since 12/04 7796 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2006 2:45 PM
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East Wind Estate
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Re: Question..Is there someone your FI wants to invite to the wedding that YOU CANNOT STAND!!??
yes a girl he dated when they were teenagers, but I HATE HER, not cause they dated, but because when i am near her she makes it a point to be a b*tch to me, she is rude, she flirts with him, i have spoken about her before... they are friends, well its more that she is friends with the group... she was not invited to the housewarming party we had cause i refused to serve her in my own home...and have her be rude to me in my own home and although he would like to invite her since she is part of group it wont be happening!
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Posted 10/13/05 2:24 PM
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