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Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

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jesseskylar
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5/29/2006 3:30 PM

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The Crescent Beach Club

Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

I apointed both of my sisters as joint maid od honor. Recently, I had a HUGE blow out with my older sister who is one of my maids of honor. Everyone has been fitted for their dresses exept her. She wont even give me a date when she could go to to get fitted and I am getting REALLY PISSED. My wedding is in May for gods sake, I dont have the time to baby her. She should be helping me and she wont answer my calls and calls me a "stalker" to the rest of my family. What should I do!!!???

Posted 12/27/05 10:52 PM
 

Goldi1021
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2/18/2006 7:00 PM

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Temple Avodah

Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

Let her cool down. Have you ordered the dresses yet?

Posted 12/27/05 10:56 PM
 

08/06
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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

Let her look like an idiot in a dress that doesn't fit!

Posted 12/27/05 10:57 PM
 

jesseskylar
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Wedding Date:
5/29/2006 3:30 PM

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The Crescent Beach Club

Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

I am waiting for her, the bridal place said order them all at the same time so that they are all the same die lot.

Posted 12/27/05 10:57 PM
 

Goldi1021
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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

Well if you know her dress size that she wears, simply order her dress for her BUT order it two sizes bigger than what she wears. Each of my BM's/MOH's and I did that.

Posted 12/27/05 10:59 PM
 

xcalystax
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11/17/2006 2:00 PM

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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!


Posted by Goldi1021

Well if you know her dress size that she wears, simply order her dress for her BUT order it two sizes bigger than what she wears. Each of my BM's/MOH's and I did that.



I totally agree. The show must go on regardless of your sis.

Posted 12/27/05 11:48 PM
 

weddingbunny
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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

is there somebody in the family that she listens to? what about asking your other sister to say something? Or calling in one of your parents?

maybe she needs to hear from somebody besides you that she needs to step it up.

Also, is she always like this? Could there be something going on that's making her so difficult?

Posted 12/27/05 11:52 PM
 

scocaj
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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

I agree, I would order the dress for her..

Posted 12/27/05 11:53 PM
 

EmberLynn
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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

Hontestly if she doesn't want to be maid of HONOR she should have the possion any longer.

Posted 12/28/05 1:06 AM
 

SIBride06

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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!


Posted by Goldi1021

Well if you know her dress size that she wears, simply order her dress for her BUT order it two sizes bigger than what she wears. Each of my BM's/MOH's and I did that.



I agree with Les.. I actually had to do something silimar MOH. She went to get fitted but never left the deposit, so after asking her a gazillion times, I just went & left the deposit myself. I dont have the patience to wait for other people sometimes.

Posted 12/28/05 8:34 AM
 

serendipity0680
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7/8/2006 3:00 PM

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The Harbor Club - Huntington

Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

Let her cool down.

Posted 12/28/05 9:02 AM
 

seta
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10/21/2006 12:00 AM

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Re: Maid of Honor drama NEED HELP BAD!!

I would let her calm down for 1 week. Then call her and say that despite the tiff you are having she must get fitted because the dresses have to be ordered. I would give her one week to do it and tell her if she doesn't, you are going to either order it for her or order it w.out her.

jmo..good luck!

Posted 12/28/05 9:08 AM
 
 

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