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Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

EJSD2006 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:55 AM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:55 AM

Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

I had my first cry yesterday. FH and I were arguing about the cost of my hair and makeup and I felt so badly because I just wanted to look pretty for the day of, I didn't know it would cause an argument. He felt really badly for making me cry though so he said he didn't care how much it was, he just wanted me to be happy.

Anyone else cry over wedding stuff yet???

dbleplay17 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:58 AM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:58 AM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

i did when my mom was azrguing with me about the guest list...mind u it was weeks after i was engaged that was the 1st of MANY!

ps i was engaged xmas eve of 04!

Goldi1021 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:59 AM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:59 AM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

EVERY DAMN DAY!

BKtoLI Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:11 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:11 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!

I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:12 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:12 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Never!!! Planning was the best!!!

We knew our budget, and on some things we splurged and on others we were more strict!!!

Don't stress, marrying the love of your life should be everything but stressful!!!

Enjoy every minute it b/c it goes so quick!!!

esb980 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:14 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:14 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Posted by BKtoLI

In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!

I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....

Thats how I felt/ feel. When all my friends had their big days (weddings, or other) I was right there in the front lines. Helping them w/ WHATEVER they needed! I feel like now that it's my turn, they all have vanished!

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:22 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:22 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

oh god i lost count already

Awhite80 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 01:47 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 01:47 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006

oh god i lost count already

you and me both!

hmpena Posted: Dec 31, 2005 01:52 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 01:52 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

I have only cried about family drama and things that I cannot control. Otherwise, no.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 02:38 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 02:38 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

kmkelly Posted: Dec 31, 2005 03:02 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 03:02 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Yup - this can all be very emotional. But most of the time the planning makes me happy and excited.

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 03:03 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 03:03 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

I dont cry about the wedding stuff. I cry about the MONEY stuff and where we will live after.

Preshy7 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:25 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:25 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

i mostly cry happily/excitedly...

though in private i have cried about some of my decisions and vendors

but im over it

STBH Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:58 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:58 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Posted by esb980

Posted by BKtoLI

In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!

I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....

Thats how I felt/ feel. When all my friends had their big days (weddings, or other) I was right there in the front lines. Helping them w/ WHATEVER they needed! I feel like now that it's my turn, they all have vanished!

Wow I feel exactly the same. Whenever my friends needed me I was there but it seems as though nobody is there for me!! My MOH is my sister and she keeps telling me that it is her senior year in college and that she has to concentrate more on that then her MOH duties which I understand but still.......

Steph62406 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 05:00 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 05:00 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

not yet...'knock on Wood' I hope I don't

beautyq115 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 05:39 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 05:39 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

YET??? Many times already

JennylovesBrian Posted: Dec 31, 2005 07:56 PM+

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Posted: Dec 31, 2005 07:56 PM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

in the beginning finding a venue, FH and I fought alot about that....also about my mother hating my invitations :(

junebride:) Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:16 AM+

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Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:16 AM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

My dear, you are not the only one!! ;) IT'S OK TO CRY.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:17 AM+

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Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:17 AM

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

Posted by hmpena

I have only cried about family drama and things that I cannot control. Otherwise, no.

I cried a LOT in the beginning! Mostly, because my dad's paying, my stepmom fought me on every one of my decisions, and I cried when they kep telling me I had plenty of time, when I wanted to book a vendor I liked for a June wedding!

psf80 Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:47 AM+

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Posted: Jan 01, 2006 11:47 AM