Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

I have. Not because I'm stressed (thank God) but more because I feel really alone when it comes to planning in general. My mom has been awesome but my FI isn't really interested. I try to involve him with everything and he's so non-chalant alot of the time and it's really frustrating.

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

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Posted by hmpena

I have only cried about family drama and things that I cannot control. Otherwise, no.

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I cried a LOT in the beginning! Mostly, because my dad's paying, my stepmom fought me on every one of my decisions, and I cried when they kep telling me I had plenty of time, when I wanted to book a vendor I liked for a June wedding!

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I had the same problem with this, my family kept telling me that I had plenty of time and of course I had no choice but to wait until they were ready to book something, so it really frustrated me when I was right all along and a lot of the vendors that I wanted to book were already booked for a June wedding, I cried a few times about that, now I feel like I have so much more to do with almost 5 months to go that could have been done already

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Posted by esb980

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Posted by BKtoLI

In the beginning I did because it took my MOH forever to get back to me, and it seemed like no one was willing to help me. I understood everyone had life changing events of their own going on, but it would have been nice to hear a 'I'm here if you need any help' which I only heard once from my SIL who didn't want to be in the wedding!!!

I'll probably be crying again soon over the finances....

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Thats how I felt/ feel. When all my friends had their big days (weddings, or other) I was right there in the front lines. Helping them w/ WHATEVER they needed! I feel like now that it's my turn, they all have vanished!

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Wow I feel exactly the same. Whenever my friends needed me I was there but it seems as though nobody is there for me!! My MOH is my sister and she keeps telling me that it is her senior year in college and that she has to concentrate more on that then her MOH duties which I understand but still.......

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Same here too, wow I can't believe how many of you have the same problems, I thought I was alone in all the insanity and drama of planning, my sister is also in her last year of college and so to begin with she is never home except vacations to help or support me and then of course it is her last year and so she is busy and worrying about graduation, etc.

Re: Have you cried about wedding stuff yet?

I have over the hall,and the BM dresses. Basically all the stress.