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ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:14 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:14 PM

OMG, so feakin' rude

On my friendster profile, I put a picture of my ring as my pic, like how it is in my avatar, and my supposedly 'best' guy friend (background, he hasn't done anything with his life since graduating from college, and is gay and can't meet anyone ever)...wrote me the rudest e-mail...

His e-mail:

subject: your picture is disgusting
e-mail: you've become one of those disgusting japs that we hated in college. Uhg, you make me sick by that picture..

My reply: It's only disgusting to you for reasons that do not need to be said. If you want an invite to the wedding, think before you type.

He's always been jeaous and rude (displaying it by obnoxious comments), but this really cut the cake, and totally caught me off guard. I honestly do not want to invite him to the wedding, unless he seriously apologizes.

Some people always try to rain on your parade.

evnme Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:15 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:15 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

that sux, so sorry to hear that ellen!

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:17 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:17 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Thanks

And, might I add that the reference is about being Jewish.

lanabean Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:17 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:17 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Wow that is mean; he's probably jealous. Don't let it bother you!

Blu-ize Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:18 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:18 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

oh grow up..as in he needs to. Poor slob needs to get a life! I feel pity for him.

carlsbride Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:23 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:23 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Soon2bMrs.MC Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:23 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:23 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Sounds like he's just jealous! Don't let it bother you...

ShortBride Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:24 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:24 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

That is just plain rude!

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:25 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:25 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Wow, how rude!! You don't need friends like, no one does...he is obviously jealous of you.

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:27 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:27 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Posted by Blu-ize

oh grow up..as in he needs to. Poor slob needs to get a life! I feel pity for him.

I just looked at the picture of your cat and it made me smile. I love kitties.

Poor slob is right. I didn't even mention that since college he's gained literally 100 pounds, but I would never ever say anything mean to him about it. He has A LOT of nerve. He always has, but I've come to a point in my life where I do not need destructive friends. I have a wonderful fiance, and few great close friends in my bridal party, and that's all I need.

MrsFudge Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:38 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:38 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

ew!

totally f-ed up!

cammolax23 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:39 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:39 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

you know what.. if you want to put picture after picture after picture of your ring and your wedding and any other frickin picture you want, them go right ahead!! you should be proud and happy to have a man that loves you and wants to marry you, and you know all to well that when you say that you are engaged the first thing people say is : oohh let me see your ring!' so your saving yourself the hassle.. hahah good luck with the outcome

Blu-ize Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:48 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:48 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Posted by ellebelle1

Posted by Blu-ize

oh grow up..as in he needs to. Poor slob needs to get a life! I feel pity for him.

I just looked at the picture of your cat and it made me smile. I love kitties.

Poor slob is right. I didn't even mention that since college he's gained literally 100 pounds, but I would never ever say anything mean to him about it. He has A LOT of nerve. He always has, but I've come to a point in my life where I do not need destructive friends. I have a wonderful fiance, and few great close friends in my bridal party, and that's all I need.

By the way, I love the pic of your ring. And thanks about the kitties..they are lovey faces! I couldn't live w/o them. They are fat cats!

BTW-love your choice of venue! We had the same caterers.

STBH Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:50 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:50 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

eweeeewwww how rude of him to say!!!

tjs Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:54 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 04:54 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

very rude!

marymoon Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:37 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:37 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Did you go to Adelphi? It sounds like a guy i know.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:40 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

I have had friends like that - the hardest thing was to let them go - but I started to wonder - what kind of friend says things like that????

If a total stranger said or did somehting to me that some of my previous friends did, I would have nothing to do with them - so, I had to regard my 'friends' in that way...

Sad, but such is life...

werock0709 Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:41 PM+

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Posted: Jan 06, 2006 05:41 PM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

Go buy him a dress and a replica of your ring!!! maybe he'll be happy

P.S. Your ring is gorgeous.

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 12:33 AM+

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Posted: Jan 07, 2006 12:33 AM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

LOL, yea that's what my fmil said, he's probably upset because he wanted a ring for himself.
Yea, we actually went to Binghamton together. He's a mean, bitchy man. He ended up writing me back saying a whole long rationalization, oh, I thought you were changing, I wanted to knock you back into reality. Then, he got angry about me saying I might not invite him to the wedding. He even said that we've had fights before and I've never reacted like this, he doesn' t know why. I wrote him back saying he was a miserable person and I didn't buy a word he said.

Thanks everyone for validating that this is NOT normal...

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 12:49 AM+

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Posted: Jan 07, 2006 12:49 AM

Re: OMG, so feakin' rude

No, you are completely right. I've ben trying to get rid of him for years. It's been so hard. I thought the days of his rude insults were behind us, but they are not. It's weird, I don't want him to come to the wedding, but I do not know how to not invite him because I have known him for so many years. I just don't need this BS/drama in my life. This is a toughie. how much can I forgive for the price of our friendship