dyed shoes or silver ones for BM's?

I have slate blue dresses for the BM's... I am leaning towards letting everyone get silver shoes...

anyone think that will be alright? anyone do this? what are you guys planning?

I have worn them before, they are uncomfortable, and sometimes the dye comes off????

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My bridesmaids wore champagne and I let them get gold shoes...No one ever saw their shoes that day!!!

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I told my girls to get whatever shoes they want. I also let them pick out their own dresses as long as they were burgundy and from the same store. I’ve been a MOH 4x and really appreciated not being told what I “have” to get.

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My girls wore silver with our sage green dresses, everyone was psyched to get shoes they could wear again!

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All my girls picked their own gowns in the same color, so I just told them to get any silver shoe they are comfortable in.

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I let them vote on dyed or silver. They all voted for silver. My BM are wearing tea length so their shoes will show, and since they live in different states they won't match, and I don't care, as long as the shoes they pick for themselves are comfortable for them.

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definitely silver shoes! we have tea length dresses and the girls are thankful they can pick out their own and rewear them in the future...

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I'm going to tell my girls to get strappy silver shoes of their choice. This way everyone is comfortable that day and then they can still wear them afterwards!!

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yea i agree - i like silver too

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I say silver. My girls are wearing a light blue dress as well & I didn't want to go the dye route, I'm telling them silver as well.

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i like silver --they can reuse them

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i like silver too. at least they have the potential to be reused. my bm's bought silver and I actually saw 2 wear them again!

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I like the silver shoes and slate blue dress combination.

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Go with silver, that way your BMs will not be stuck with a pair of shoes that they will never wear again.

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I've been in many wedding parties and always hated the dyables. I told my BM's they could pick what they want and they all agreed on silver, doesn't matter what style, they can pick. Plus if your BM's dresses are floor length, no one really sees the shoes.

Also, for the men inour BP, we've told them wear whatever they want that's black. I hate the patent leather ones you get from the tux place and so does FH. Some of our guys will be wearing black boots, including FH. Boot idea actually started because FH needs the height, he's an inch shorter than me and even if I wear low heels I'll be taller.

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No dyed shoes, not a fan!!

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My girls are also wearing slate blue, I told them they can get open toed silver strappy shoes as long as they pick one style they can all agree on and they all get french pedicures. I'm a little neurotic....

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i had slate blue too. who makes the dress?

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Silver shoes

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silver, definitely