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Noonie
One yr already? That went fast
Member since 11/05 1058 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
I'm so confused. My FH will not be dancing at our wedding, except for the 1st dance w/me & the Mother/Son dance. I love to dance, and I feel like I won't be spending the majority of the reception with him because of this. did anyone else have this problem?
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Posted 1/19/06 12:34 PM 
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sarahradio5
I love my HUSBAND!!!
Member since 1/04 6701 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/12/2006 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
My DREAM place!
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
ME! And he hates taking pictures, too! ugh. I warned my DJ about the "no dancing" thing for my FH, so hopefully he'll get him up a few times. I FEEL YOUR PAIN!
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Posted 1/19/06 12:35 PM
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Katie&Chris2006
I love Chris
Member since 11/05 5998 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/18/2006 10:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill - A+
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
You could have my problem. My FH is an out-of-control dancer. In all of my friend's wedding videos he is the main attraction. OMG he is such a fool! 
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Posted 1/19/06 12:38 PM
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werock0709
More in love than ever!!!
Member since 12/05 8533 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/6/2007 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
SandCastle
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
I'm teaching him how to dance at home. he has NO rythm. We also practice slow dancing as well. He WILL dance at our wedding.
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Posted 1/19/06 12:40 PM
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Mystere
I'm married!!!
Member since 3/05 1917 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/11/2006 10:30 AM
Wed. Location:
The Sand Castle
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Mine is doing the first dance - No mother son (neither of them wanted it) - i'm sure we'll do a few more slow dances. I was dissapointed at first but after taking dances and learning i cant dance i have no problem with it anymore.
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Posted 1/19/06 12:42 PM
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Jackie&Justin
Memories
Member since 4/05 2535 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/18/2006 11:00 AM
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
My FI also refuses, he is so shy, it's cute. He also told me he is nervous about everyone staring at him, I said don't worry, they will be staring at me, not you!
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Posted 1/19/06 12:43 PM
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MrsDaniRella
Serenity.
Member since 1/06 8563 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/9/2007 2:15 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield- INFINITE A+
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
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You could have my problem. My FH is an out-of-control dancer. In all of my friend's wedding videos he is the main attraction. OMG he is such a fool!
ME TOO... omg my FH will dance no matter where they are playing music EVERY TIME!! LOL most of the time I'm like alright already!!
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Posted 1/19/06 12:49 PM
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Noonie
One yr already? That went fast
Member since 11/05 1058 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Please! I wish my FH was an out of control dancer! My family loves to just be together & have fun. MY FH feels like he won't look cool enough. And GOD FORBID someone doesn't think he looks cool!!!!!
I just want to have fun WITH him, not just me dancing w/everyone else. Aggghhh!!! Maybe I have pms.    
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Posted 1/19/06 12:53 PM
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Mrs. dleeny
My most beautiful day ever
Member since 3/05 12395 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/6/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club A+
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
My DH always says “I’m a horrible” dancer. Yea? So why don’t you learn! 
he only danced the slow songs at the wedding. At first I was bummed about it but I danced a LOT with my sisters and friends… it brought me back to our clubbing days and we had such a good time!  
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Posted 1/19/06 1:00 PM
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Katie&Chris2006
I love Chris
Member since 11/05 5998 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/18/2006 10:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill - A+
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Noonie
Please! I wish my FH was an out of control dancer! My family loves to just be together & have fun. MY FH feels like he won't look cool enough. And GOD FORBID someone doesn't think he looks cool!!!!!
I just want to have fun WITH him, not just me dancing w/everyone else. Aggghhh!!! Maybe I have pms.
he might surprise you on the big day! maybe he will see everyone caught up in the fun and not even realize he's lettin' loose on the dancefloor!
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Posted 1/19/06 1:04 PM
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Athee07
One year down a lifetime to go
Member since 5/05 7982 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/14/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
I dont think mine will- he hates dancing and im not going to make him do it if he doesnt feel comfortable doing it
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Posted 1/19/06 1:07 PM
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Blu-ize
My House
Member since 8/04 8305 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/28/1998 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Meadow Jewish Center
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
He needs to get over it. This is the one time its all about you guys...
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Posted 1/19/06 1:09 PM
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pupidda122505
I'M MARRIED! SPM 7-7-07
Member since 12/05 3598 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2007 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
booked!
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Jackie&Justin
My FI also refuses, he is so shy, it's cute. He also told me he is nervous about everyone staring at him, I said don't worry, they will be staring at me, not you!
I'm in the same boat as u. After 2 1/2 years of dating I'm just now starting to dance with him at family functions. He'll dance his lil heart out at clubs and parties where there's no family in sight, but at any family function he's overly shy. He's been advised: on our wedding day he better be shaking his a$$ 
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Posted 1/19/06 1:15 PM
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glinda_goodwitch
I married my best friend...
Member since 3/05 8735 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
My FH doesn't like to dance either, but he will if forced. I literally had to trap him on the dance floor at WOTY so he wouldn't leave But we'll take dance lessons for our first dance and hopefully we can learn some moves for regular dancing. I also have no problem dragging him onto the dance floor if he's sitting too many out.
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Posted 1/19/06 1:16 PM
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kellwolfe
It's An Obsession
Member since 12/04 4122 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/8/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet WindWatchA+++++++++++++++++++
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by sarahradio5
ME! And he hates taking pictures, too! ugh. I warned my DJ about the "no dancing" thing for my FH, so hopefully he'll get him up a few times. I FEEL YOUR PAIN!
DITTO ...Hates pic's doesnt dance! but he isnt stopping me ......
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Posted 1/19/06 1:16 PM
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SuzBride
The Jack!
Member since 1/05 9762 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/8/2006 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Land's End :) 11!
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Mine! He is doing the first dance and the dance with his mom. I also got him to promise two more dances (I went bowling, which I hate, in exchange for 1 of em).
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Posted 1/19/06 1:17 PM
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amstellitelady
I'M MARRIED....WHOO HOO
Member since 9/04 1967 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/12/2006 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Stewart Manor Country Club
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Noonie
I'm so confused. My FH will not be dancing at our wedding, except for the 1st dance w/me & the Mother/Son dance. I love to dance, and I feel like I won't be spending the majority of the reception with him because of this. did anyone else have this problem?
we are on the same page with this. my FH will only dance one other slow song with me besides the first one and will not dance to any reg music. he'll spend the time at the bar while i'm on the dance. nice huh.
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Posted 1/19/06 1:18 PM
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EmberLynn
Keeping it real!
Member since 11/03 3504 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/6/2006 2:00 PM
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
My FH won't dance unless he has a pitcher of beer in him. He got mad at me yesterday, I was talking to a dance instructor, I figured we could take lessons for our first dance. Well the instructor didn't know our song. My FH kept yelling at me just to hang up because if he doesn't know the song he can't help. UGH! I don't see how it would be hard for the man to hear the darn song!
But hes been telling me he doesn't want to dance at all!
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Posted 1/19/06 1:20 PM
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ZuzusPetals
It's A Sickness!
Member since 12/05 6118 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/15/2007 1:30 PM
Wed. Location:
A Wonderful Place
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Wow I didnt realize there would be so many NON dancing grooms BUT I bet on the day of the wedding they will surprise you. Plus all the peer pressure out there - I bet the crowd gets him 2 dance. I would be so upset if my FI didnt dance because dancing is the best party in my opinion lol but I guess Id just have 2 find another dancing partner.
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Posted 1/19/06 1:27 PM
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nygirl77
It's over already??
Member since 9/05 1818 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 11:45 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
My FH usually has to drag me out on the dance floor and he's not even a good dancer! I just laugh at him when he's dancing...but he sure does have fun!
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Posted 1/19/06 1:31 PM
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Noonie
One yr already? That went fast
Member since 11/05 1058 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Mine! He is doing the first dance and the dance with his mom. I also got him to promise two more dances (I went bowling, which I hate, in exchange for 1 of em).
That just gave me a great idea!! This man will negotiate a deal with just about anything!!!! OK, now I'm on a mission! Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
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Posted 1/19/06 2:12 PM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!
Member since 1/05 11868 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
I told him he has to dance, and he has accepted it. 
I think if we get a couple of drinks in him, he will be fine!
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Posted 1/19/06 2:13 PM
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JXNOscar
I am still the Bride!!!!!!!!
Member since 7/05 2265 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/14/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Jackie&Justin
My FI also refuses, he is so shy, it's cute. He also told me he is nervous about everyone staring at him, I said don't worry, they will be staring at me, not you!
I said the SAME THING
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Posted 1/19/06 2:14 PM
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October Bliss
Beyond Obsession
Member since 8/05 7629 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2006 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Country Gardens @ East Wind
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Noonie
I'm so confused. My FH will not be dancing at our wedding, except for the 1st dance w/me & the Mother/Son dance. I love to dance, and I feel like I won't be spending the majority of the reception with him because of this. did anyone else have this problem?
My FH won't even be doing mother/son dance because neither of them want to. I told him that while he is stuffing his face during viennesse I will be dancing (actually having V-hour caused problem b/c I didn't want it to cut into my dancing time, and he wanted it to eat up dancing time). The way I look at it is it's my wedding, I love to dance and if he wants me he knows where to find me!!
Although I discovered at WOTY it takes 3 drinks to get him on the dance floor. Between that and dance lessons, maybe, just maybe, I'll get more than the first dance! 
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Posted 1/19/06 2:15 PM
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lulugrrl
I'm a MRS.!!!!:-)
Member since 5/05 1094 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/17/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: Anyone else's FHs NOT DANCING??? Kinda Bummed!
Posted by Katie&Chris2006
You could have my problem. My FH is an out-of-control dancer. In all of my friend's wedding videos he is the main attraction. OMG he is such a fool!
I can relate...whats funny is he thinks he is such a GOOD dancer....it's SO BAD! Elaine like!
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