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Nina Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:20 PM+

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Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:20 PM

Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Please Excuse the third word in that heading..if you have a better word for it..please tell me so I can change.

Does anyone else go back and forth with themes or colors. I feel like I am the worst at this!!! At first I thought...hmmmm...I'm going to do all neutral..or very champagne,mocha...neutral colors...to match my neutral tivoli room. As on of the brides on here once said...a very italian romanesque theme.

I have always loved the tropical look...so recently i've been thinking..hmm....Bright Pink with orchids and lillies will be beautiful...However..I don't think orchids wil go to well against a Russos backdrop. Someone please help me, diagnose me....I feel like everyone has there colors and themes and don't go back. Why am I always unsure?!?!?

Shorty McBride Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:28 PM+

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Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:28 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

hahahaha you're nutty Nina

NUTTY NINA
NUTTY NINA
NUTTY NINA

Want my input? Stick to your original vision and keep everything neutral to match your room. When you look at your pics in 20-30-40 years, those colors will still be neutral, and they'll still match the room.

Got me?

Nina Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:32 PM+

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Posted: Feb 06, 2006 10:32 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Gothca Nic!

Its just hard...I come from a Puerto Rican and European background...you want to incorporate everything..but if you doo....talk about tacky....huh...the art of planning a wedding...such agita

alwaysz22 Posted: Feb 06, 2006 11:11 PM+

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Posted: Feb 06, 2006 11:11 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

I am feeling the same way. I want a certain color theme one day and then the next I want a different one. I want to go with a garden theme for my wedding but I am getting married in the fall..ugh I just don't know what to do

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Feb 07, 2006 08:04 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 08:04 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by Shorty McBride

hahahaha you're nutty Nina

NUTTY NINA
NUTTY NINA
NUTTY NINA

Want my input? Stick to your original vision and keep everything neutral to match your room. When you look at your pics in 20-30-40 years, those colors will still be neutral, and they'll still match the room.

Got me?

I agree.

werock0709 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 08:33 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 08:33 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

I like the neutral theme, but thats just me. You don't seem like an out there over the top pink kinda gal.I could be wrong of course, but the neutrals are soooooooo elegant. Good Luck Nina

enjft Posted: Feb 07, 2006 09:11 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 09:11 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

You are going back and forth because we are on here all day and find other things that catch our eye. You have to make a decision and stand firm, unless we will be like this until the wedding day.

Nina Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:30 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:30 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Yeah I got ya...It is very hard though....you know...that eloping business was not a bad idea......

ETAB Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:35 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:35 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by enjft

You are going back and forth because we are on here all day and find other things that catch our eye. You have to make a decision and stand firm, unless we will be like this until the wedding day.

I agree!!!

mava61 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:37 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:37 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

i have the same issue!! im thinking of making the bridesmades dresses a sage green - so originally i wanted bright pink flowers - but now im wondering if a more muted color would look better - like light pinks and peaches...ahhhhh im so jealous of those who know exactly what they want hahahaah

Love4Eva Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:47 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:47 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

I have a crazy idea - why dont you stick to the neutral theme - but add colors here and there - like have a neutral BM dress - and then add like a pink sash to the dresses - use those white casablanca lilies - but add the same pink as the dresses on the ribbon of the bo-k... it will match your theme - with just a bit of color! and it will wont be fighting with yourself so much ...

Good Luck Nina!

Missladybug15 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:50 AM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 10:50 AM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

I think it is totally normal to back and forth with ideas, b/c you just want everything to match perfect and look perfect

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Feb 07, 2006 01:29 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 01:29 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by Nina

Please Excuse the third word in that heading..if you have a better word for it..please tell me so I can change.

Does anyone else go back and forth with themes or colors. I feel like I am the worst at this!!! At first I thought...hmmmm...I'm going to do all neutral..or very champagne,mocha...neutral colors...to match my neutral tivoli room. As on of the brides on here once said...a very italian romanesque theme.

I have always loved the tropical look...so recently i've been thinking..hmm....Bright Pink with orchids and lillies will be beautiful...However..I don't think orchids wil go to well against a Russos backdrop. Someone please help me, diagnose me....I feel like everyone has there colors and themes and don't go back. Why am I always unsure?!?!?

Nina,

O-m-G, I'm going through the same thing!! Excat same colors too, so weird, I love the neutrals for the romantic feel, I the tropics, for the alluring romance feel, I kinda feel like w/ a wedding ceremony & small reception in the tropics & the reception at Brindisi when we return, we'll get the best of both worlds....

FDWedding07 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 02:00 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 02:00 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

I was unsure for a while. Till I meet with my florist and he gave me a few ideas. I now invision exactly what I want. I always wanted the romantic night wedding!!

Nina Posted: Feb 07, 2006 03:42 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 03:42 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Thats probably what I need to do...talk to a florist.
So far I've only talked to them via telephone...this being in the desert and planning in the big apple is for the birds

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:03 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:03 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Love4Eva Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:30 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:30 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by Nina

Thats probably what I need to do...talk to a florist.
So far I've only talked to them via telephone...this being in the desert and planning in the big apple is for the birds

your too funny!

pupidda122505 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:34 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:34 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by Nina

Thats probably what I need to do...talk to a florist.
So far I've only talked to them via telephone...this being in the desert and planning in the big apple is for the birds

U always crack me up Nina

Definitely go talk to your florist. I went on Sunday and now I have a better idea of what I want and it did change a lil from my original theme. So the faster u go the faster u'll have your theme set

Athee07 Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:35 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Nina I agree with everyone else... Stick with your original idea. No reason to second guess yourself either! It will look classy and fabulous and can compliment both sides of the family (european and hispanic)

Just to add though- i love both ideas!!!!

This is where waiting til 07 kinda messes things up!!!

Nina Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Feb 07, 2006 04:35 PM

Re: Wedding Theme Schizophrenia

Posted by pupidda122505

Posted by Nina

Thats probably what I need to do...talk to a florist.
So far I've only talked to them via telephone...this being in the desert and planning in the big apple is for the birds

U always crack me up Nina Definitely go talk to your florist. I went on Sunday and now I have a better idea of what I want and it did change a lil from my original theme. So the faster u go the faster u'll have your theme set

Santina who did you go to?
Do you recommend them...We probably have the same amounts of needs....did you ever FM me info on that....I forget what I ask and don't ask