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QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 03:57 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 03:57 PM

QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Some girls at work and I were chatting about this. Does anyone do this? If you found something you didn't like or questioned, would you/did you confront FH?

MissingTheBGene Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:02 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:02 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

No, I never have.

LisaJill Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:02 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:02 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

One time this summer I checked his text messages. He had written to his friend about all the 'hot girls' in their bikinis on the beach.
I was sooo mad! I couldn't say anything to him because then he would know. But sadly, it did come out in a fight.

stephanielyse Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I only read his email over his shoulder, so he knows better than to write or read anything inapropriate when I'm around, 'cause I might slide up behind him.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

nope

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:04 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

No. I never have

eden Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:11 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:11 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Won't advise on doing it, I know of a guy friend who broke up with his GF 'cus she snooped and find a girl's # in there. Needless to say, she confronted him on it and they broke up shortly afterwards... Turns out the girl's # belong to some coworker's but the guy friend took that as a hint that there's not enough trust in the relationship and that she was getting way too insecure (she has snooped at other stuff too) despite his many assurances that he's with her for the right reasons...

Greeneyes8705 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:11 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:11 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:12 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:12 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

never!

Tiggeruth Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:14 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:14 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

nope, i have never done that, its interesting because I really have no desire to.

i do occassionally look over his shoulder when he is checking his email while rubbing his back...

roxyspark Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:24 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:24 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I have gone through his wallet, but more to clean it, then to find something.
I go through my little sister's wallet and purse as well. I like to see if she has a nice lip gloss or a funny work ID picture. Her wallet is always empty (she's a college student) so I usually slip in $20.

ETA: I ask them both if it is ok before I go through their stuff.

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:26 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:26 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Posted by roxyspark

I have gone through his wallet, but more to clean it, then to find something.
I go through my little sister's wallet and purse as well. I like to see if she has a nice lip gloss or a funny work ID picture. Her wallet is always empty (she's a college student) so I usually slip in $20.

Hey do you want to clean my wallet I could use a few $20's

Maybride519 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:27 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:27 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Posted by roxyspark

I have gone through his wallet, but more to clean it, then to find something.
I go through my little sister's wallet and purse as well. I like to see if she has a nice lip gloss or a funny work ID picture. Her wallet is always empty (she's a college student) so I usually slip in $20.

Aww...how sweet! You are such a good big sis!

Beth1210 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:27 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:27 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

never- and my feeling is if you do- they you deserve what you find!

I do go thru Jake pockets when I do laundry- I make a fortune!

BKtoLI Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:29 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:29 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

The only time I ever go in his wallet is when he asks me to get something out of it.

But he has looked over my shoulder when I am on the computer to see what I'm doing. The most annoying is when he tries to tell me what to type!!

Blu-ize Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:30 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:30 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

we go in each other's wallet/bag when we need something out of it.

If I happen to look at all the other receipts-so be it!

MCDO15 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:32 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:32 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

she can look, not sure what she be looking for besides money or recpeits or something...

she wouldn't because we are working this trust thing we got....

pigs222seal Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:32 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:32 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I have never done this too him, b/c I want the same respect in return....but I never get - he does this often. Oh well, I hav enothing to hide...it is his insecurity!

If I did do this and I found something, I would definitly confront him.

anne1rules Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:34 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:34 PM

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

The only time I start snooping around his things is my birthday and Christmas. I am so bad when it comes to knowing that I am getting gifts!!

Never in his phone or email though.

FallBride05 Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:34 PM+

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Posted: Feb 08, 2006 04:34 PM